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Tonight’s Parting Thought … Don’t give up, let go. If you’re struggling tonight or looking for a sign – this is it! Goodnight Tumblr 💤💤💤💤💤

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You do deserve it. You.. Deserve the best

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Keep on keeping on 🌻

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(Credit to kink.com, model Jeze Bell)

Mood:

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What It Means To Love A Girl Who Never Believes She’s Good Enough

She will always give her all. She will always put others first. She will always be the one who understands more. She will always be more than what you see. Too bad she doesn’t realize it.

To love a girl who never believes she’s good enough is a battle. Her mind is full of things that outbound all the greatness that she has and will be replaced with doubts and second thoughts.

She will always need consistency. She will question herself. She will always give more than she has, but she will still think that you’ll never appreciate her enough. She will always be more than what she thinks she is, yet she won’t fully realize that all that she is is more than enough.

She will always think that something is missing within her. She will always think that she will never be enough for a person. Her heeds will always play tricks on her mind.

To love a girl who never believes she’s good enough is not for a man who thinks the same. A man should love her with all his heart. A man should love her in a way that she will eventually feel that she is never half of what she thinks because she is more. A man should love her with all the flaws, insecurities, and bitterness she has within her.

To love a girl who never believes she’s good enough is to be patient. Be patient with her. Don’t leave her in moments that she needs you most. Don’t be with her if you can’t handle her.

To love a girl who never believes she’s good enough is to love her with all that she is. Love her honestly until she no longer believes she’s not good enough. Love her more when she finally realizes that all this time she is good enough.

Love her consistently. Love her every day. Love her always.

By: Kate Janelle Padrinas for ThoughtCatalog

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Responsibility

I think submissives can have a misperception that they have no responsibility.

This was one of my missteps when I first discovered my submissive. Submission is magic, I said. This is the solution to all of my stress, I thought. I am absolved of my personal responsibility because it is my dominants job to care for me, I believed.

Well, friends, I was wrong. Freedom isn't achieved without one's participation. Dominants are not robots we can drop all of our crap onto to be "free." Sometimes our frustration with our dominants for not giving us what we need, is self created because of unfair and unrealistic expectations.

It isn't a power gift, it is a power EXCHANGE.

We say submission is earned.

Well, so is dominance.

What have you done to earn your leash today? What have you done to prioritize and care for your Sir/Daddy/Master/etc? What have you done to live up to YOUR responsibility?

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What “the woods” are varies for each soul... for me, it the the space I create for myself when things are not making sense or too many things and people are trying to influence me, and it’s time to rediscover and uncover what is most meaningful. And sometimes “the woods” are the moments with Him, safe in His arms while reaching for the stars. ❤️

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@complexmindsimpleheart @supermsmoon ❤️

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“I always marvel at the humans’ ability to keep going. They always manage to stagger on even with tears streaming down their faces.”

— Markus Zusak, The Book Thief (via books-n-quotes)

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“In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.”

— Albert Einstein (via quote-diaries)

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“You do not just wake up and become the butterfly.”

— Rupi Kaur

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