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[sarah-the-slut]

teach your girl to say no, to spit no like fire, to never apologize for it. her spine: NO. her fists: NO. her teeth all NO together. but first and more importantly, teach your boy to see no, hear no, understand no before it’s spelled out for him. have him take “no” easily, not as an excuse to keep trying. have him feel “no” like a change in the air so that he can infer it without so much as a word. don’t settle for no as just as the dictionary definition, show him no in body language, in “i’d rather not,” in “yes, but i’m drunk.” teach him that “no” is not “convince me,” teach him to accept it gently, without violence, without feeling that he’s having something “denied” to him. “no” is not “take it from my fingers.” no is a shrug, is “i’m not sure,” no is a look, a scared smile, a terrified giggle. No is in the pocket of her clothes, no matter what they look like. have him assume “no,” not “yes, unless otherwise stated.” girls are not swings on the playground, he cannot be upset when they don’t “share” themselves with him. there is no sharing, she is not an object. of a girl he sees on the street who doesn’t give him her number or react well to what he calls her: teach him she is not taking from him what is due, she is not denying him, she has never and will never belong to him. she will be his only after explicit and repeated consent and only by that alone.  do me a favor teach him no.

A GIRL NOT SAYING “NO” IS NOT A GIRL SAYING “YES” // r.i.d (via inkskinned)

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Love your icon. You are so pretty!!

oh stop it! too kind!

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Joan Jett

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Stop girl on girl hate

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How much school do you have left??

Just two semesters including this one. Hopefully, I’ll be graduating in May! 

(Although I’m applying to grad school so like, not totally done with school just yet)

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This couple dressed as Disney princesses for their engagement photos and it was insanely adorable

Photos: Taylor Snyder Art & Photography

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Hope you are feeling better cutie!

Why thank you dear!I’m still coughing a ton and have gone through a million tissues but I’m getting better :) 

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Hello gorgeous!!!

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I hope all Is well for you, beautiful!!

Wow oh geez I left you guys for a while and nothing but niceness in my inbox!

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Low key crushing on you!

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Missed seeing that beautiful face!! Looking amazing as always!!!

Why you are too kind stranger!

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Lies!! You most definitely are a cutie!!!

Oh geez no way!

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Haven’t been around much kiddos, I apologize.

College is hard but I’m almost done..

Very sick at the moment and stuck on campus for the long weekend :(