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being gay isn’t enough. I need a vampire to seduce me and whisk me off to a fancy gothic castle.

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it is 1am and i honestly do not know or care if this makes any sense or if i just sound like im rambling abt nothing because im just so frustrated and annoyed and need to vent

i wish people never started saying “nonbinary isn’t a gender” because that’s essentially saying “gay isn’t a sexuality”

they are both umbrella terms that could be a sexuality/gender on their own but could also mean a vast array of other things that fall under that umbrella.

nonbinary is as much of a gender to some and an umbrella for others as gay is a sexuality to some and an umbrella for others.

this oversimplified generalization that nonbinary isn’t a gender has caused more harm than good as it was basically used to drill into people that enbies all fall under diet man or diet woman categories. it has caused nonbinary as a gender category to be taken less seriously because the people using it were doing so to make the point that enbies can be gaylm/lesbian (which is true) but it’s had the consequence of now everyone mentally puts enbies in the mental category of “this nonbinary dates this women so that means they’re a nb sapphic which means i should treat them like a girl probably” which makes me so…. fududndndnf /neg

it also just makes people confused about what bisexuality is too because they categorize all nonbinary people under “man” and “woman” attraction even if they are nonbinary, causing many people who fall under the bi umbrella to get mislabeled as lesbians/gaylm because they’re attracted to multiple genders just excluding one of the binary genders because no one thinks being attracted to enbies “counts” as a separate gender category because everyone is mentally telling themselves “enbies aren’t separate from man and woman” when they tell themselves “nonbinary isn’t a gender”

i am nonbinary and that is my gender. it is not the only word i use to describe my gender but it is my gender category. i am not adjacent to man or womanhood. i can not be restricted to this masc/fem binary people keep trying to put me in to make their view of gender more simple. if i dont fit your binary then make a fucking trinary idc just include me without mentally putting me into a category that erases my gender identity. stop looking at me as a diet man/woman. stop telling me my gender isn’t my gender because you don’t want to consider my gender is outside the scope of the gender binary.

if you’re a nonbinary person who doesn’t view your personal nonbinariness like this then fine but stop forcing that on me cause now i need to live with the result of the push of “nonbinary isn’t a gender” mentality and it’s really not fun. it’s really invalidating and sucks that i’m never treated like my identity exists in the same way the binary genders get to.

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Femmes tapping their nails on the table elicits a reaction very similar to a dog hearing a treat bag shake.

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Straight women calling their partner “my boyfriend” 😶🙂😌

Lesbians calling their partner “my boyfriend” 😳😯😃🥰😍😘😏😩🫡🤭

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aquarium date? sorry, I mean museum date? sorry, I mean planetarium date? sorry, I mean botanical garden date? sorry, I mean grocery shopping together? sorry, I mean

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calling butches daddy makes the world go round

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butchfemme art :)

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Butch knights...butch knights save me...

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i very much love perverted lesbians, like yes i purposely wore this top that exposes most of my cleavage so you see my boobs bounce when i walk or get excited around you so you stare at them <3

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all i want is to be able to cuddle with you in bed after a long day’s work… i want to hold you & be held and feel your warmth. i want to fall asleep knowing i’m safe and loved…

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Thinking about slowly getting a butch to bring out their more dominant side. like a butch thats so sweet and nurturing and then corrupting them in a way.

Casually slipping out a "yes sir" in a sentence or playfully fighting with them until they have to restrain you... I know you like it, no need to be shy, take what you want

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i dream of the day where i can wake up by your side, an arm around your waist… perhaps i could wake you up with a million gentle kisses, covering every inch of your skin with them… maybe after i get up and make breakfast for you, though. <3

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Pulling a butch in by their belt loops so I can kiss them and tell them they’re handsome

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Requested by lunaxio

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ohh to grow old w my lesbian lover & sit on the porch while people-watching in rocking chairs together

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need a butch who i can roughhouse with and bully eachother and wrestle and then make out afterwards with cuz we can