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something i really enjoy in horror movies is when the victim(s) start to hunt the killer in return in order to kill them first, both because it's an interesting parallel that (if done well) asks the audience to consider the question of when violence and killing are a justifiable means to an end in order to survive and at what point it crosses the line from acceptable to abhorrent and condemns the perpetrator, and also because it's a little bit funny. like i can do that too bitch you're not special.

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i am going to listen to music about this

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I do love the phrase executive dysfunction bc the image it conjures is of a bunch of people wearing business suits around a long oval conference table  arguing with each other to the point where they’re getting into physical fights, but in the background there’s just a big empty whiteboard with a To Do list with one item on it and that item is “take shower”

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no i don’t think that was based on my likes actually

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i think one of the most important things you learn about making connections with others is that a significant portion of the time people just do not know theyre doing what theyre doing

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Waaah i have control over my own life i’m not a victim of my existence etc but what if i am a little bit

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‘A good tragedy is always both preventable and inevitable’ is one of my main hills to die on. It’s literally so important to me. I’m fucking correct

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Don’t know who this quote is by but it’s been stuck in my brain like a leech for days

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went to college and came back wrong

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I hate the plastic surgery industry and how it preys on insecure women and then gives them false solutions like modifying their bodies to fit beauty standards instead of helping people understand they are beautiful and unique as they are and I hate the currently popular narrative that it's ignorant to be against plastic surgery like fillers and Botox because it's actually "empowering" to do what you want with your body even if it's an obvious direct reflection of toxic beauty standards that are also often rooted in oppression and discrimination

It's not coincidence what types of noses are face changes are popular and there's nothing empowering about 18 year olds getting cosmetic surgeries to look like a made up perfect version of themselves instead of being helped to embrace their bodies as they are and the faces and features they have

If it's fucked up for me to say everyone looks better without veneers and butt implants and Botox then I will happily be fucked up - everyone can do what they want but I will not support it or treat it like a kindness that it's becoming normalized and celebrated

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Nick Miller

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There’s no such thing as work-life balance for neurodivergent & chronically ill people.

This is because everything in my life requires work:

maintaining friendships

keeping up with my hygiene

managing bills

making money

remembering my basic needs

sleeping regularly

outputting creatively

All requires some aspect of work for me.

And when everything in your life requires work, your balance goes out the window.

If you're neurodivergent and overwhelmed — I see you.

If you're chronically ill and overwhelmed — I see you.

You're not dysfunctional.

You're not incapable.

You're doing your best.

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I’m going to unlearn shame *bursts into tears and beats my head against a brick wall*

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watching a murder movie but shaking my head the whole time so people know I don't agree with the fascistic propaganda of the intruder harming the ideal suburban life

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disabled/chronically ill people in general do not have the same number of usable hours as ableds. i can't meet my friend tomorrow because i need to wash my hair, and i can't meet them the day after because i need to do a load of laundry. i can't meet them thursday because i have an important appointment on friday, and if i overdo it on thursday i'll have to cancel friday's appointment. then i can't meet them on saturday because i'll be recovering from going out on friday, if i even manage to make it out the house. the old 'we all have the same 24 hours in the day' saying does not apply to us.

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his eyes were coke zero brown

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I love nautical and seaside town horror stories. Tell me more about the fog and water that eats people