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people with low/no empathy don't need to "make up" for it by having sympathy. It's completely okay to have neither :)

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QPR but in the narc4narc way where normal relationship labels can't even begin to explain how special and superior our connection is

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Needs to be said, probably controversial, but "bad" people deserve support for their mental health issues as well. "Bad" people should not be dehumanized and berated for their mental health issues. I dont care what they've done

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‘how do i get to know you better?’

don’t. i’m fucking insane.

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one thing about me is im genuinely a terrible person but im also hot and sexy and smart and interesting and funny and charming and talented so i honestly could not care less

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people don't automatically like me which means I should kill myself

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POV: your most toxic relationship is with yourself

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“I wanna know you, the real you”

No you don’t, stop saying that. Stop it

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unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

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tumblr mart should sell drugs

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my blog is a safe space for me. the rest of you are in danger i think

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Gues what you own one

Reason to Live #4471

  Cause I want to own a cat! – Guest Submission

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Who are you, really?

Before they told you you're a monster, before you let yourself believe that and acted accordingly, who are you?

Not your reflection in the broken glass, not that bloody wound on your head, not those trembling hands, not that fake smirk on your face.

You.

Who are you.

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its called cluster B because were all so fucking Based

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sometimes it's okay to go along with a pwNPD's need for praise or attention.

pwNPD need acknowledgement or praise in some capacity. please be patient with us. it's okay to humor us every once in a while and give us the attention that we crave. for example, asking us to show off an accomplishment. asking us questions. letting us talk about whatever we want for a bit. the only thing that's important is that you do not cross your own boundaries (or anyone else's, for that matter).

you may think that doing this is unhealthy, because it's reinforcing grandiosity and the pattern of begging for praise. while for some people that may be true, the alternative is starving us of attention, which often does more harm than good. we don't learn to live without it that way. it is not your job to "fix" us. sometimes the best thing you can do is play along.

please just note that there is a lot of nuance to this situation, but my general rule of thumb is that as long as no one's being harmed, it's okay to engage!

oh and by the way, the same goes for other cluster b disorders, and even people without cluster b disorders. attention is something that everyone needs every once in a while. it's just that us cluster b folks tend to need it in excess.