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beastie boys music is funny as hell one of them will say a line and then the other two will say a completely unrelated line

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Y'all. My absolute favourite place to get cool queer merch, @nerdykeppie , is having a flash sale on their new steel insulated travel tumblrs! 25% off today (11/20/24) and tomorrow (11/21/24), which makes them $45 before any applicable taxes, etc.

I'm not even a fan of of this style of mug, and I'm hella tempted by their ace "you have no power over me" version, but they have so many good designs.

Support a small, independant, queer business if you can and check their stuff out!!

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people are wrong about chosen family. chosen family can become just as involuntary and inescapable as regular family if you use your fucking imagination

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I love my people and it's amazing to see so many of us turn up today, but it's like herding very friendly cats 😂

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anyway yeah DELETE YOUR FUCKING ADVERTISING IDS

Android:

Settings ➡️ Google ➡️ all services ➡️ Ads ➡️ Delete advertising ID

(may differ slightly depending on android version and manufacturer firmware. you can't just search settings for "advertising ID" of course 🔪)

iOS:

Settings ➡️ privacy ➡️ tracking ➡️ toggle "allow apps to request to track" to OFF

and ALSO settings ➡️ privacy ➡️ Apple advertising ➡️ toggle "personalized ads" to OFF

more details about the process here via the EFF

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Holy shit my friend just sent this to me it’s like chocolate for my ears. I knew Jensen was a good singer but dayum

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top five most important things you can give a character. 1. bisexuality. 2. autism. 3. so much negative rizz it loops around into irresistibility. 4. so many bad events. 5. a coping mechanism that’s cute and silly provided you don’t think about it too hard

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need what hugh grant and his wife have

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Evening Dress

c. 1900-1905

Made by dressmaker Mrs. George F. Hall

Minnesota Historical Society

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Anna Weyant - Reposing V (2019)

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Normalize this response

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you deserve people on your level. you deserve people who can reciprocate your energy. you deserve people who go out of their way to love you like you do for them. you don’t need to constantly be the giver in relationships and/or friendships that leave you drained at the end of the day.

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I am full of love, but I need to be full of raw dick as well

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Hi! I'm considering starting an onlyfans. I'm not scared of making content but I am scared of failing at it.

I have so many thoughts scrambling thru my head about it and whether I should or shouldn't.

Hey there! I don't see a question here, but I'll answer anyway. I'll start with a caveat that, if you're US-based at least, it seems possible that having an OnlyFans or engaging in any other sort of SW could turn out to be a much riskier venture in the near future if the current fascistic clownshow about to take office gets it's way. So do with that what you will.

As for worrying about failing, I guess that it all depends entirely on what you would consider success vs. failure in that sort of endeavor. I even don't know if I'm the best person to ask, since I'm probably not what you'd consider wildly successful at being a SWer from a business (or popularity) perspective. I have a very small group of lovely recurring subscribers, but on average still make less than $100/month from my OF. Still make enough to also have to pay taxes on it though! I also only promote on Tumblr, and since I tend to lean very silly/niche a lot of the time it's often difficult to get very many reblogs. So due to my lack of wide demographic appeal, I mostly just try to use it as a creative outlet for weird outfits, bad puns, and as a desperate effort to stay in touch with my own body. So like, if that's in line with your aims I say go for it. But if you're defining success as making a lot of cash, then I am not the right dude to ask.