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Velaurian: A term for someone who is both veldian/turian and a lesbian.

Someone who is velaurian might change between the two (such as genderfluid and omnique people), may be both at the same time (such as bigender etc. people), may identify with both due to being a system, may be abrosexual, or any other reason for identifying with both labels. Some velaurians may also identify with mesque.

Term comes from “veldian” and “aurora”, and the flags colors come from both the turian/veldian flag and the aurora lesbian flag.

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omaurian / omnaurian

[Image ID: a flag with 5 equal horizontal stripes. From top to bottom, the colours go; pink, pink-purple, dark purple, bleu-purple, blue.

Someone who is both omni and velaurian / omni, veldian and lesbian. Someone who is omaurian may:

Be abro or have fluid or fluctuating attraction/sexuality

Use the split attraction model (SAM)

Be omnique, llenxflux, or genderfluid and change between each label

Be omni with specifically veldian attraction towards men and lesbian attraction towards women

Identify with all three due to being a system

Be them all at the same time (e.g. multigender people)

Etc.

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Finding out that Frances Dana Barker Gage, a white woman, rewrote Sojourner Truth’s famous speech to be more stereotypically “Southern slave” (complete with slurs and misspellings like dat, dere, dey) when Sojourner Truth was actually from New York and spoke only Dutch until she was almost ten and wouldn’t have actually sounded that way linguistically and decidedly did not use the phrase “Ain’t I A Woman?” at all is…whew. And on top of everything, she embellished details about Sojourner Truth’s life (like the number of children she had/how many of them were sold into slavery), wrote that ST said that she could take beatings like a man, and the reception of the speech in the room (she claims ST was called a n*gg*r, earlier accounts say the room was welcoming).

Lmaooo peak white feminist antics.

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Pour one out for a real one.

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Pour one out for a real one.

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Trans and intersex people in the UK need you to be loud and angry about the new "deception as to sex" guidance released which makes trans and intersex people legally guilty of rape if we don't disclose our gender identity and/or the sex we were assigned at birth to sexual partners.

This is particularly going to harm trans and intersex sex workers, who often have a higher number of sexual partners who we might keep our trans or intersex identity from for our safety.

"To summarize this guidance in the simplest terms, it treats a trans or intersex person not disclosing their gender identity and/or the sex they were assigned at birth as a form of deception which negates consent."

"This interpretation of part of the existing Sexual Offences Act (2003) places an unreasonable burden on trans and intersex people to inform our sexual partners of our medical history, while no such burden is placed on cis perisex people who are allowed to rely on assumption."

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Gendered parenting is so weird. As a little kid I was a total daddy's girl, I was told I would always try to sneak into the garage, I was always very interested in everything he was doing and would follow him around while he was working, but while my family was never the type to outright say "you can't do that because you're a girl", they simply didn't entertain the idea that I could possibly be interested in cars. Then when my little brother was born, it was just assumed he would become a mechanic like our dad because he was a boy. Even though he, unlike me, didn't like being in the garage much and wasn't all that interested in what dad was doing. Once he got to a certain age, dad started making him help and would drag him away from his actual interests for it, which lead to a lot of arguing and not much actual learning.

Gendered expectations sort of create doubles of children. There's the real child with their actual personality, interests and behaviors, and then there's the Gender Child.

My real brother hated soccer and team sports. The Gender Child that existed only the minds of the adults in his life needed to play soccer because that's what a Boy Child does.

Growing up, I always felt like adults didn't actually know me as a person and they weren't interested in getting to know me. Because they felt they'd already learned everything there was to know about me when they were told "it's a girl".

When I talk about how I never got gifts I actually liked from my relatives (to this day I still don't like getting gifts that aren't something I picked out myself), it isn't actually about the gifts themselves. I don't even remember them. What I do remember is the feeling of being given gifts that were seemingly not bought with the real me in mind. They were for the Girl Child™️ version of me. The me that adults wanted me to be, not who I actually was.

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Mad this. It literally says he got jailed for ignoring a court order telling him to stay away from the school - yet the headline says it's for not calling a kid they. He broke the court order cos he was being a self righteous stalkery Christian weirdo. I know the sort, they did the same to us at school cos we were scruffy poor unfortunates / desperate people that apparently needed god to save us. Loads of Christians are like this, proper weirdos.

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Hey, everyone! Its me again, this time with the survey I promised! Here's the link

If you're new to this project, I'm running a survey to gauge the needs and desires of trans and nonbinary folks regarding gender affirming undergarments like binders and gaffs! It has been my dream to run a business like this since I was 13 or 14, and I'm now 18 and going to college for fashion to help make my dream come true!

Please feel free to share this with other trans people for a larger sample size!!

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the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.

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um, actually yes, trans men can and will be lesbians. and each time you complain about them 3 (three) more trans men convert to lesbianism

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every so often discourse floats by me that's like "the transandrobros said eggs aren't real they're just feminine cis men and trans women are the least effected by transmisogyny" and I sit there like jesse what the fuck are you talking about before moving on

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i cant breathe

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as a trans man, calling myself a "full-grown man" in front of cis people and watching their reaction is a great litmus test for their attitudes towards transmasculinity