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Feb 4, 2025 - Thousands of Los Angeles high school students walked out of class and marched on the city capitol in third straight day of Anti-ICE protests. (Source)

PROTESTS ARE HAPPENING. THEY ARE JUST NOT BEING COVERED OUTSIDE OF LOCAL MEDIA OUTLETS. DO NOT RELY ON MAINSTREAM MEDIA.

There was a huge Trans-rights demonstration last night in New York outside of NYU Langone hospital in protest of their decision to halt gender-affirming care under Trump's order. (Source)

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trans people will literally go “i have a complicated relationship with my history with gender and sometimes see it as a gender i ‘used to be’ and i don’t really look like a cis person of either gender and i don’t think i can fit it into simple categories” and everyone will spontaneously combust

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reminder to trans, nonbinary, non-cis and intersex people in the usa: there are people that love you and care about you. things are going to be okay, please don’t do anything drastic. i know things are scary right now but your lives are all worth so so much. don’t let him win. i love you

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NEW YORK (AP) — New York Attorney General Letitia James on Monday told hospitals that they would be violating state law if they stop offering gender-affirming care for people under age 19 in response to an executive order from President Donald Trump aimed at curtailing federal funding for such treatments.

In a letter, James, a Democrat, told health care facilities that refusing to provide the treatments would violate New York’s anti-discrimination laws.

“Regardless of the availability of federal funding, we write to further remind you of your obligations to comply with New York State laws,” her letter reads.

Everyone say thank you to NY Attorney General Letitia James!!!

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im so excruciatingly genderqueer that i actually forgot my deadname for a while. darkness really took it and it really strayed out of thought and time huh

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At least two major artists (Lady Gaga and Chappell Roan) making a point to vocally support trans people the Grammys is a big deal in this political climate.

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*nonbinary person calls themself lesbian* "only women can be lesbian!"

*nonbinary person calls themself gay* "you're not attracted to the same gender though!"

*nonbinary person calls themself straight* "that doesn't make any sense!"

*nonbinary person calls themself trixic* "made up label!"

*nonbinary person calls themself toric* "unnecessary label!"

*nonbinary person calls themself gynosexual/romantic/etc.* "you're equating women with vaginas!"

*nonbinary person calls themself androsexual/romantic/etc.* "you're reducing men to penises!*

*nonbinary person calls themself skoliosexual/romantic/etc.* "nonbinary doesn't have a look! you can't be attracted to nonbinary people!"

*nonbinary person calls themself bi* "you're reinforcing the gender binary!"

*nonbinary person calls themself pan* "you're othering transgender people!"

*nonbinary person calls themself poly* "you're just trying to be special!"

*nonbinary person calls themself omni* "that's not a real thing!"

*nonbinary person calls themself ace/aro* "you're just a cisgender heterosexual invading the community!"

*nonbinary person calls themself queer* "that's too vague!"

*binary person uses a label to explicitly express attraction to nonbinary people* "you're fetishising nonbinary people!"

the thread that ties them all together isn't that our labels are wrong or don't make sense, it's that you don't want us to exist and hate on us no matter what we do.

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trans man: exists

TERFs: obviously SHE'S been groomed by the evil queers to hate herself and to seek an escape from the patriarchy by becoming the patriarchy

"trans friendly" radfems: no, he's a MAN and he was always a man because that's how gender works. which meanssss he's inherently an aggressor and part of the patriarchy and cannot relate to real women and thus an inherent danger to them unless proven otherwise!

trans man: 😐

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found it!!

As a cishet person in a very lgbtq-closeted country, I just found out agender and nonbinary/genderqueer are different stuff??

So on an RGB scale(just a metaphor, don't go berserk on me for this please), if female was red and male was blue(I repeat, it's a metaphor), some identify as green? Or black? or magenta? cyan? that sort of stuff? Can you approximately hex-color-code gender?

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As a cishet person in a very lgbtq-closeted country, I just found out agender and nonbinary/genderqueer are different stuff??

So on an RGB scale(just a metaphor, don't go berserk on me for this please), if female was red and male was blue(I repeat, it's a metaphor), some identify as green? Or black? or magenta? cyan? that sort of stuff? Can you approximately hex-color-code gender?

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!!!!!!!

GENDERFLUID AND GENDERFLUX FOLKS AND ANYONE UNDER THOSE SPECTRUMS, WE HAVE TO MAKE US NOTICE IN TUMBLR. WE NEED TO BE EITHER TRENDING OR TUMBLR TO PUT THE COLOR OF OUR FLAGS IN THE TAGS MENTIONING THEM... PLEASE??? </3 I LITERALLY LOVE SEEING THE TRANS FLAG WITH THE TRANS TAGS AND THE ARO FLAG BUT... WHAT ABOUT OUR FLAG? WHAT ABOUT THE GENDERFLUID AND GENDEFLUX FLAG???????? </333333333

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Are YOU gonna let THE GOVERNMENT tell YOU what YOUR GENDER is? That doesn't sound like Life Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness to me! PROTECT your individual FREEDOMS and call your senator: we want the GOVERNMENT to stay OUT OF OUR PANTS! GENDER FREEDOM NOW!

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“sure i mean these bills affect all trans people but they specifically target and name trans women” an executive order was signed to halt transition under 19 with the expectation that we need our breasts for our future as mothers and cites anti fgm laws against trans men and mascs specifically. what do you MEAN we arent being targeted

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trans men will say something like "having access to reproductive care is something that affects me personally, even as a man. i understand that conservatives speak about it as if it's a woman-only issue, but they see trans men as women too, and losing access to these services would affect us just as much. it'd be nice to be able to add my perspective and experiences to the conversation and have them taken seriously" and people will go "oh so you're erasing women? you're speaking over women? you hate women? you're a misogynist? typical man?"

like for the love of god "this issue affects me just as much as it affects you" does not mean "i think im more important than you" and its wild how many people take it that way. no reasonable trans man is actually trying to make discussions about abortion or trans healthcare or etc exclusively about them, and if you take it as a threat whenever a trans guy opens their mouth in a discussion like this, then that's your problem to work through, not theirs

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As I progress into my transition and am more and more "stealth" (as in I don't say I am trans but I am openly bi and visibly queer), I want to quickly talk about something I was absolutely not prepared for: how fucking weird people are about queer men.

I knew that people tend to be more aggressive and visibly disgusted by gay men and I buckled up for it, but you wouldn't BELIEVE how many times I was sexually harassed by CISHET MEN because I am gay. Like cishet dude sexualized and groped me while insisting they weren't queer and I mean, I should've known, but all I've always seen talked about is the higher risk of being beaten up. But no, cishet dudes have no shame to treat you like a piece of meat if you're gay, like they want to test their heterosexuality or something. And women DO THE SAME. Like I've been through the het girls wanting to drunkenly make out with you to "try it" when I lived as a bi girl but they still do this shit when you're a gay man and I'm going to lose my mind.

I was never as naive as to think that transitionning would shield me completely but fuck me, this is unbearable.

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Transandrobro this

Transandrobro that

Just call me a man alright? If you're gonna be transphobic, commit to it.

There's plenty of trans women who defend trans men/mascs and acknowledge that transandrophobia is real. Calling me a "bro" is misgendering. So just admit you're transphobic and pull that mask off.