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i don't know what fellow trans guy needs to hear this but starving yourself will not help you pass.
i thought it would. i thought it'd shrink my hips, but bone is bone, and bone doesn't starve away.
and i'm begging fellow queer and trans people to fucking stop pushing the idea that skinny trans men have it easier because 'they pass easier'. your intention is to express frustration with your own experiences, but that's not the message you're delivering with those words. and it's just not true.
what will help you pass if you are dysphoric about your body shape and especially your shoulders and/or hips is doing upper body exercises. build your shoulder, arm, and back muscles and you will create a much more positive and productive change. over time it will create balance between your upper and lower body. of course other exercises/leg day/core exercises help too, but building upper body muscle is what was recommended to me by physical therapists.
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dysphoria is so fucking stupid. why am i getting gender envy from daniel stern in home alone
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