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PLEASE go off about the parallel arcs in iCarly, I never noticed them and I am fascinated

Alright, so it took me some time to organize my thoughts here, so I’m sorry about the wait! It turns out I have a lot to say. You made the mistake of sending this ask to a former English major, so this has turned into a bit of an essay. To make it hopefully easier to digest, I’ve divided this up into three parts. Part one is going to be a more general overview of the parallels between them, part two is going to look at specific episodes that serve to emphasize these parallels, and part three is where I attempt to tie it all together and make some kind of point here.

Under a cut, because it got seriously long.

Part One:

This first bit is pretty obvious, I think, but I’m saying it anyway. Sam and Freddie both come from dysfunctional single-parent households. The show loves to point out their dysfunction whenever it can, to wringe comedy from it. It’s different for each of them, of course. For Sam, her father abandoned her, and she is neglected by her mother, and as we see in iSam’s Mom, Pam Puckett is verbally and physically abusive. For Freddie, his father is never mentioned, and his mother is controlling and emotionally abusive, restricting every aspect of his life and violating his bodily autonomy in the name of “taking care of him”—Marissa’s behavior may not come across as blatantly toxic as Pam’s, but trust me, it is.

Sam and Freddie also deal with their home lives in very similar ways. First, and most obviously, they both run away. It’s a running joke that they’re always at the Shays’ apartment. Just think about that for a moment. They both spend as much time as they possibly can away from their homes, at the end of the day, neither of them wants to go home. In this way, iCarly becomes an escape for both of them and in some ways a lifeline. The Shay apartment is a safe space for them, where they are free from their dysfunctional home lives.

The other coping mechanism they share is obbsessive behavior. For Freddie, it’s technology. For Sam, it’s food. They throw themselves into their respective interests/hobbies, building their personalities around them. I think for both of them these intense interests are reflective of their dysfunctional upbringings. Marissa is obsessive and controlling, and Freddie is interested in technology and videography—tools that can be linked to surveillance and control. On top of that, the internet is a way for Freddie to have freedom while trapped inside, given the scope of what one can do online. Sam, on the other hand, is obsessed with food, and it seems to me this comes from her mother's neglect. At one point, we see the lunch Pam packs Sam for school, and it’s a brown paper bag with batteries in it. Sam, who doesn’t always know if her mom is going to be able to feed her, eats as much as she can elsewhere.

But the parallels between Sam and Freddie don’t end with their parents. They also share similar social issues. Neither one is particularly well-liked outside of Carly. Freddie is a nerd and a geek, especially early on, and Sam is intimidating and aggressive. For both of them, you can count the number of friends they have on one hand. Sure, Freddie is in a lot of clubs, but we only see those characters every once in a while, when it’s convenient for the plot of an episode, so I doubt that Freddie is particularly close with them. They’re not the kind of people who would be popular if it wasn’t for iCarly.

And this affects their romantic relationships, too. Unlike Carly, who is shown easily flirting with boys and going on dates, Sam and Freddie seem to have worse luck when it comes to relationships. This is probably most exemplified by the reveal in iKiss that neither of them has kissed anyone, something that not only surprises Carly, but is presented as being embarrassing and shameful within the internal logic of the show. The expectation is that by their age, they would’ve kissed someone, and they’re behind their peers, behind Carly.

And this leads us very nicely into part two of this analysis, where I’m looking at specific episodes. (I put iKiss in part one because the other episodes are pairs, rather than singular episodes that parallel them)

Part 2:

I’m going to do this in chronological order, which means starting with season one, episode nine, iWill Date Freddie. In this episode, Freddie dates a girl named Valerie. At first, she seems to really like him, but by the end of the episode, it becomes clear that she is only using him. Valerie wants to create her own web show to compete with iCarly. It frames Freddie as someone who wouldn’t be able to get a real date. This episode is also important because it features the first moment where we see Freddie standing up for himself, when he feels underapperciated by Sam and Carly, which I will touch on more later.

Sam’s parallel episode is season one, episode fifteen, iHate Sam’s Boyfriend. Sam dates Jonah, who I think genuinely likes her a lot, and she likes him a lot, so much so that she begins to blow off iCarly to spend time with him. By the end of the episode, it becomes obvious that Jonah is kind of a tool, especially when he tries to kiss Carly. The episode frames Sam as someone who attracts obnoxious guys, and as someone who is always going to be in Carly’s shadow romantically.

Both of these season one episodes are about basically the same thing at their core: dating someone who turns out not to be what you thought they were, and showing Freddie and Sam as two people who have bad luck when it comes to romance.

I already talked about iKiss, but I think it’s worth mentioning again because it really does show just how much they have in common. The episode didn’t have to be written the way it was, and I think every choice they made was extremely deliberate. When Sam and Freddie talk on the balcony, once Sam has apologized, and Freddie realizes that Sam wasn’t lying when she said she’d never kissed anyone, they share a moment of complete understanding. Despite their apparent differences, they’re struggling with the same social pressures, and the same loneliness, if we’re being perfectly honest. And they both come up with the same solution to it, at the same time. It’s a really beautiful moment of vulnerability, and it comes from their similarities being made explicit.

I’ve talked a lot about their romantic relationships in this section, so it’s time to get back to those dysfunctional home lives, which we get some parallel episodes about later in the show. First, in season three, we get iMove Out, so named because Freddie moves out. He reaches his limit with Marissa’s controlling and overbearing nature, and he gets his own apartment. Sort of. The resolution of the episode is that he agrees to move back in, if she agrees to give him more freedoms. And in season 4, we get iSam’s Mom, an episode where Sam gets so fed up with Pam and her neglect and abuse that she moves in with the Shays. The episode ends with Carly taking Sam and Pam to therapy and trying to get them to work out their issues.

Both of these episodes show the characters eventually forgiving their parents, because this is a sitcom, and the status quo must always be achieved by the end of the episode. But both episodes also showcase the toxicity of Marissa and Pam very well, and show that Sam and Freddie both want the same thing: escape. The difference is that Sam seeks stability (the shays) and Freddie seeks freedom at any cost (his tiny horrible apartment). It’s the balance of their similarities and their differences that creates such an interesting and complex dynamic.

But why does any of this matter? Who cares if Sam and Freddie have all these parallels? Why am I reading so far into a Nickelodeon sitcom from 2007? Well, it matters a lot, actually, and I really want to try to explain that as best I can. Hopefully it makes sense and I’m not just Charlie Day in IASIP in front of the conspiracy board.

Part 3:

Sam and Freddie are narrative foils. I don’t think this is a hot take to the people who know what that means. If you don’t know, foils are characters who contrast each other. Oftentimes this takes the form of a hero and a villain, or a hero and their sidekick. Arguably Sam and Freddie are both Carly’s sidekicks, and while you could say that Sam is a foil for Carly, I don’t think you can say the same for Freddie. The key purpose of a narrative foil is to highlight something about the other character—the name comes from foiling gemstones to make them shine brighter. Sam and Freddie do that for each other (Sam highlighting Freddie’s nerdiness, pragmatism, organization, and book smarts, Freddie highlighting Sam’s aggression, messiness, and street smarts), and Sam does it for Carly (Sam’s tomboyishness serving to emphasize Carly’s girliness), but Freddie doesn’t really do that for Carly.

And we could leave it at the very basic observation that Sam and Freddie are contrasting characters. But the whole point of this is about what they have in common, not the things that make them different. It’s a lot more complex than that. They aren’t just opposites, they’re paralleled opposites. Two sides of the same coin. They challenge each other, but they also understand each other on a level that none of the other characters can, and they know it, too. When they break up in iLove You, they acknowledge the special “connection” they have. And I think because they have the paralleled arcs, them being together makes the most satisfying narrative for them, the one where they could grow the most.

Now, remember what I said about coming back to Freddie standing up for himself later on? Well, it’s later. In my opinion, the crux of Freddie’s arc—or what should be the crux of Freddie’s arc—is him learning to stand up for himself. Freddie starts the show entirely under Marissa’s thumb, but he also lets himself be manipulated by Carly, and pushed around by Sam. And as the show progresses he doesn’t just learn to stand up to his mother, he learns to stand up to Carly and Sam, to respect himself, especially when his crush on Carly fades. In iSaved Your Life, we see Freddie choose to end his relationship with Carly because he knows she isn’t actually in love with him. Season one Freddie never would’ve done that. And it was Sam who pushed him to do that, it was Sam who made him realize that Carly loved him for the wrong reasons.

On the flip side, I believe that Sam’s arc should be about allowing herself to be vulnerable. She has had to fight to survive for so long, and has put up wall after wall to protect herself. She rarely lets herself be open with her feelings. Even when we know she must be hurt at the end of iHate Sam’s Boyfriend, she doesn’t show it. She just physically injures Jonah to get back at him. We see more and more vulnerability from her as the show progresses, with Carly, but just as often with Freddie. My favorite example of this is in iReunite With Missy, when she confides in Freddie about Missy trying to sabotage her and asks him for help. Before this, the only time she was vulnerable with Freddie was in iKiss. And Freddie does help her, giving the school at sea trip to Missy to get rid of her.

Going back to Sam and Freddie being foils, we can see that in both of these situations the show uses that to propel their respective development. In other words, they help each other grow. And I know what you’re thinking, you’re thinking, but these arcs are the exact opposite. Freddie is learning to stand up for himself, to be tough like Sam, and Sam is learning to open herself up, to be emotionally available, like Freddie. And yeah, sure, maybe on the surface. But both of their arcs can be traced right back to those dysfunctional parents. The reason Freddie needs to learn to stand up for himself is that his mother never let him, and the reason Sam needs to learn to let people in is that she could never rely on even her own mother.

And the reason they’re able to help each other grow is because they understand each other. For Sam, Freddie is a safe place for her to be vulnerable, the stability she seeks, as much as they fight, she knows she can trust him. And Freddie understands her insecurities and loneliness, understands that underneath the rage, there is hurt. Because he’s felt that same hurt. And for Freddie? Sam is the freedom he seeks. She understands what it’s like to be pushed around, to feel helpless. It’s why she works so hard to be tough and intimidating, so she doesn’t have to feel that way.

There are a lot of flaws with the seddie arc, but in my opinion, the biggest one is the decision to have them break-up because she’s too abnormal and he’s too normal. It’s just not true. Yes, they are very different. But they are also very similar. And the way for both of them to grow the most is with each other, because they can both understand each other and challenge each other.

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Prompt: Sam have always hated it when people try to tell her off like she was supposed to be the kind of girl people like her to be. She doesn’t like playing by the rules. Freddie, meanwhile, has long been corrupted by Sam as he navigates their banter for each other at every given time giving the blonde a good fight. That was always their dynamics. So, when both argues about who’s the better partner in a relationship, it was not a shock to everyone they knew, despite hating each other, that the two would devise a duel that would go beyond the extent of taking care of each other just to prove a point.

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"I’m just saying," Freddie Benson leaned casually against the lockers, arms crossed as he grinned at Samantha Puckett, "there’s no way you could last as a good girlfriend. You’re… well, you."

Sam’s eyes narrowed into dangerous slits. "What’s that supposed to mean, Fredward?"

"Oh, I dunno. You’re… violent. Loud. Completely lacking in basic relationship skills."

"And you’re a know-it-all tech geek who wouldn’t know romance if it smacked him in the face," Sam shot back, jabbing a finger at him. "Don’t act like you’re Mr. Perfect Partner."

"I’d be a great boyfriend," Freddie replied indignantly, puffing his chest out. "Girls love a guy who’s sweet, dependable, and… y’know, not a threat to their personal safety."

Sam gave him a look so incredulous it could have melted steel. "Sweet? Dependable? You mean boring."

"Better than terrifying," Freddie quipped, earning himself a swat on the arm.

"Oh, that’s it. You think you’re better than me? Fine. Prove it," Sam declared, planting her hands on her hips.

"Prove what?"

"That you’re some amazing boyfriend."

Freddie tilted his head, intrigued but wary. "And how exactly do we prove that?"

Sam smirked, the mischievous glint in her eyes growing brighter. "We’ll date each other. You and me. One week. Whoever’s better at being the sweet, caring partner wins."

Freddie blinked. "You… want us to date? Like, fake-date?"

"Scared you’ll fall for me?" Sam teased, stepping closer.

"Scared I’ll fall over laughing," Freddie countered. "Okay, fine. What do I win when you lose?"

"When you lose," Sam corrected, "you’re buying me Fat Cakes for a month."

"And when you lose," Freddie replied, smirking, "you’re cleaning all my tech gear for a month. Without complaining."

Sam’s nose wrinkled, but she stuck out her hand. "Deal."

Day One: The Declaration

"So, you guys are really doing this?" Carly Shay asked as she perched on a beanbag in the iCarly studio, watching Sam and Freddie awkwardly sit next to each other on the couch.

"Yep," Sam replied, leaning back and tossing a grape into her mouth. "By Friday, Fredward’s gonna be crying over how much better I am at this."

"In your dreams," Freddie shot back. "I’m already planning our ‘romantic’ lunch."

"Romantic?" Sam made a gagging noise. "Ugh. Just keep your nerdy monologues about camcorders out of it, and we’ll survive."

"And what about you?" Carly asked, smirking. "Any grand plans, Sam?"

"Oh, I’ve got plans," Sam said with a devilish grin. "Freddie’s gonna think he’s dreaming by the end of this week."

Freddie raised an eyebrow. "Not if I win first."

Day Two: The Chivalrous Move

Freddie decided to start small. During their walk to school, he offered to carry Sam’s backpack.

"What’re you doing?" Sam asked suspiciously, tightening her grip on the strap.

"Being a good boyfriend," Freddie said, smiling. "I read that carrying someone’s stuff is considerate."

Sam’s lips twitched. "Uh-huh. You just want an excuse to get close to my Fat Cakes."

Freddie rolled his eyes. "It’s called chivalry."

"It’s called wasting your time," Sam retorted, shoving the bag into his arms anyway. "Fine. Knock yourself out, chivalry boy."

By the time they reached school, Sam was teasing him mercilessly about how "out of breath" he looked. Freddie, of course, insisted he was fine.

Day Three: The Sandwich Gesture

Sam’s turn came during lunch. She slammed a homemade sandwich onto Freddie’s tray.

"What’s this?" Freddie asked, staring at it as if it might explode.

"It’s a sandwich," Sam said, her tone daring him to question her culinary skills. "Made it myself."

Freddie hesitated, then took a cautious bite. His eyes widened. "This is actually good."

"Don’t sound so surprised," Sam said, smirking. "I’m full of hidden talents."

"I’ll admit, I’m impressed," Freddie said. "You’re not as terrible at this as I thought."

Sam’s smirk turned into a grin. "Don’t forget it, Benson."

Later, Carly caught Sam sneaking another sandwich into her locker. "You made him lunch?" Carly asked, barely containing her laughter.

"He’ll never see it coming," Sam replied smugly.

Day Four: The Surprise Compliment

Freddie upped the ante during rehearsal for iCarly. As Sam walked in, he greeted her with a wide smile and said, "You look really nice today."

Sam froze mid-step, her cheeks turning pink. "What’s your angle, Benson?"

"No angle," Freddie said with an innocent shrug. "Just telling the truth."

Carly’s jaw dropped. "Did Freddie Benson just compliment Sam Puckett?"

"He’s trying to psych me out," Sam muttered, though she didn’t quite meet Freddie’s eyes. "Nice try, Benson."

Freddie grinned, knowing he’d scored a point.

Day Five: The Unspoken Shift

By the end of the week, the tension between them had shifted. Freddie was holding open doors for Sam without thinking, and Sam had stopped mocking his every move. They both found themselves leaning into the game a little too naturally.

"So," Carly began, sitting cross-legged on the studio floor. "Who’s the winner?"

Sam and Freddie exchanged a glance.

"I mean, we both kinda nailed it," Freddie said reluctantly.

"Yeah," Sam agreed, her voice uncharacteristically soft. "You weren’t completely awful."

"Neither were you," Freddie said with a smile. "For once."

Carly clapped her hands together. "A tie, then?"

Sam groaned. "Fine. But no way am I cleaning your nerd stuff."

"And I’m not buying you Fat Cakes," Freddie countered.

They both grinned at each other, the unspoken agreement clear: they’d both won more than the bet. As Carly watched them banter like always, she couldn’t help but shake her head and smile. Some things never changed—but maybe, just maybe, some things did.

#icarly #seddie #sam puckett #freddie benson #ficlet #oneshot #excuse me for my current obsession

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