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I let go of the crown. I let go of it all
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recaffeine · 2 days ago
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11/6/2024
The jaw surgery was a level of the season finale of 2024. With it came a lot. It marked a higher level of closeness again for the Foodie Four. It also was the end of the Victoria arc for quite some time. During 2023, I have to admit, I was doing my best to prevent with what the world was giving me. I was trying hard to protect the ones that I love and cherish.
What I've learned this year is that life must take its natural course. Like the waves of the ocean, it will ebb and flow; leaving me with little control over the final product. To be present and to be content means acceptance of whatever changes will happen in the future. That is what it means to grow. Growth is uncomfortable and rightfully scary.
Timeline of the jaw surgery:
24 hours before: I am able to sleep decently knowing that Alec, Anh, Tom and Julie will be there to help me get through it.
1 hour before the surgery: I remember being calm and the fear isn't there anymore. I'm ready to do this.
48 hours post surgery: I am pumped up with antibiotics, anti inflammatory medication, and pain medication. I appreciate that I chose Anh to be my life partner because she stays with me the first full 24 hours. She didn't eat much and having her there made me feel safe. On Day 2, she leaves the hospital for a few hours to eat and shower. I'm alone for just a few moments and I realize how absolutely terrifying it would have been without her.
Day 3: I check out. I was told that only 10% of Dr. Alfi's patients stay two nights at the hospital. Most choose to leave on the first day. My first meal of choice is pho broth from Pho Binh. It is a restaurant that Justin and his family used to take me growing up. It brings a lot of comfort to me.
Day 4-5: These are the most difficult days. I struggle stomach pain which could be from the inflammatory medication taking its toll on my stomach lining. I always had issue with my left jaw joint before the surgery and it starts to be extremely painful when I apply any form of pressure to my left side. I am only able to sleep on my right side at the moment. I try to ration my narcotic medication. There are only 10 tablets. I try to only take half doses every 6 hours.
Day 6-7: Recovery is going really well. I am able to be outside the entire day Saturday hunting pokemon cards at Collect-a-con. The event gives me a reason to move around. Day 7, we leave Houston and the ride back is not easy but it wasn't excruciating either.
Anh is the MVP of all of this.
Food/water: The training I obtain from the braces in the first year and a half allow me to transition quite easily into liquid diet. I am mostly drinking pho broths, egg drop soup, crab and asparagus soup, and wonton soup. We try using the immersion blender but it is quite messy and the consistency is not thin enough to use an oral syringe.
Mental health: I have spent the last 4 years fortifying my mental health. I believe because of my fiery spirit that I'm able to really power through this surgery without a hiccup in my mood.
Power up: If being a pharmacist was the mark of me becoming a super saiyan, my therapy/healing/knowledge journey of the last 4 years being super saiyan 2, this jaw surgery would propel to be ultimate gohan. My energy levels are out of this world and I'm able to make it through without any caffeine and adderall to make it through the day. I believe that this will be integral towards my dream of writing a successful book that will help others.
I have to admit that this year, I've spent a lot of it taking care of myself. I try to be there for others but it's not at the level that I'm normally accustomed to. I'm hoping that after my jaw surgery healing is complete, that I'm able to work towards my goal to help others with my writing.
Until next time.
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recaffeine · 21 days ago
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10/18/2024
To Miss Tran,
I write this letter to you because I'm so grateful for all that you've done for me in our lifetime. I know that our relationship span is merely in its infancy. It's only been 2 official years. I'm blessed to have been able to spend so much time with you throughout my 31 years of living thus far though. Whether it was eating buffalo wild wings together with Ann or us working out together at the ULM school gym; it is these precious little moments that I'm blessed to have going into this surgery. Last night I was laying in bed listening to the undertale theme as I fell asleep. It was an emotional orchestra of His theme. I dreamt, I was at the bottom of a pitch black pit. I pictured all the painful emotions and memories I've experienced in my life gnawing at my skin and bones. Yet I didn't remain focused on any of that. In a blink of an eye, I saw stairs of light. I saw the beaming spiral and my feet moved on its own. I ran higher and higher. I never looked back at all the darkness that lay beneath me. For once in my life, I was able to choose to not look back.
At the very top of the stairs, I saw you. I saw you with everyone. I saw Alec, Victoria, Justin, Tom, Julie, my sister, my parents, Alex, Huy, Corey, Devin, Dylan, Anri, Chase, Quy, Hoang, Kaitlin, Han, Kevin, Jeremy, Trang, Trucly, Michelle, Thomas, Tu, Calvin, Ann, Dat and your parents. I saw more and more people who made such a shining difference in my life gather, even my exes.
You had such beautiful wings as you lead all of them. I know I've committed much atrocities in my lifetime to others. I know I've created shining moments of pure light and hope for others too. I know that life is multi-faceted and that I am a complex soul. I'm grateful to live with your light. I'm grateful to call you my number one. Thank you for all the moments we share together. When I tell that you I love you, there is power behind it. It's not words of a hopeless romantic. It's not the words of a hopeful romantic. It is the heavenly law that has blessed my life.
I love you.
Love, Tommy Sang Tran
To Alec,
You've saved me in ways that I'm sure that you still have a hard time wrapping your head around. Before I met you, a part me felt like all I could do was hurt, annoy or just frustrate other people. I stopped believing in my light for some time. With our bond though, it gives me hope that I can move past the limits that I've placed onto myself. Thank you for believing in me. Thank you for seeing the wisdom and light that I have to offer. All my life, I think I just wanted someone to believe that I could do better. When you started to look up to me, I felt the desire to push beyond my limits. I wanted to be the hero that I always dreamed of being. A part of me still wants the admiration, but more importantly, I think I just wanted acceptance. I wanted to find a place where I could belong. It is with your help that I was able to help create that finally.
Love, Tommy Sang Tran
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recaffeine · 24 days ago
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10/15/2024
There are 2 weeks left before the surgery. For most of my life I've felt the emotional heaviness of the pangs within my heart. Now, who is to say is this because of my obstructive sleep apnea or my trauma. Perhaps it is a combination of both.
I believe that this surgery is a stepping stone towards realizing my dreams. There have been many times that I felt as if I were prisoner in my own body. Is it ADHD or is it merely due to the lack of energy that I'm able to produce in a single day. How can I continue to write when I'm wrought with fogginess each day.
I know willpower can get me through many facets of life. I've been an academic my entire life and channeling my wit, I've been fortunate to achieve the majority of my goals that I set forth. There is still so much more I want to do.
In the back of my mind lays my only rival; the sabotaging version of myself. I still feel the teems of depression from time to time. It is not merely just sadness and anxiety anymore. I have channeled enough self love to give myself the grace. It is important that I try to root out the critical nature of my heart that I sow onto others. Though I know it is my own justified way of caring, I know that it helps neither party in the long run. I want to distill my knowledge to be informative yet kind at the same time.
I will keep moving forward with noble direction and a heart filled with light.
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recaffeine · 1 month ago
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10/3/2024
To the Joker,
The truth is I always knew. I always knew how this would end up. I wanted more than anything to see the light in you, little brother. Yet you are you and I am me. It didn't have to be this way. I didn't want to end in a fight. Yet, here we are. I chose to heal and you chose to slander.
This final wound was one that I allowed to be inflicted upon me willingly. I knew the risk of trying to heal you one last time. I can still feel it. I can feel the mockery. I can feel the scorn. I can still feel the specks of light you tried to steal from me. I trace the scars of the lashings that you've created on this fragile heart. I sense the malice, the jealousy and the envy that pollute your thoughts.
The light within this heart though is bigger and brighter than our sun. It is powered by all that love me and powered by all the love I continue to give to others. It is a light that I will always try my best to shine until the day that I die. I will continue to hope for others everyday. I still believe in a brighter future. I will continue to put my trust in others because I want healthy loving bonds. I will not let your evil stop me.
You have created so many wrongs in this life and avoiding the past will only cause deeper wounds. You ran away from the only one that could offer you true help. You grasp on the ideas of self love but deep down I still see you drowning. I still taste the bitterness in your soul. A part of me hoped that the time skip would lead to growth on your end. Time spent away only revealed the true emptiness of your barren heart.
I'm not angry anymore. I'm severely disappointed and at the same time, a part of me still wishes healing for you. That's just who I am as a person. I refuse to take revenge upon you because I like who I became as a result of the experiences. All love given out into this world will eventually return. I'm blessed every day because at the end of everything, I've created reality from my fantasies. The magic I wield is something that I am grateful for every day. I think of the vitriol I could choose to send to you but I know that no revenge is necessary because rotten fruit will fall on its own.
I've always clung onto the hope that people can grow and change for the better. I have always believed in redemption and accountability. For the first time in my life, I have to let go that ideal. Perhaps this is part of my growth. Not everyone deserves another chance.
I decided to give you another chance and it left me with a pain that lasted for months this year. At the same time, it was a cost I was willing to pay because I have grown strong enough to bear it one last time. I wanted to be on the right side of history. I chose to forgive the insecure boy who projected all of his hatred of himself onto me. I chose to forgive someone who has betrayed me many times throughout my life. Whether it was playing a part in the high school cyberbullying scandal, or bad mouthing me in front of my significant other in college, I still chose to forgive you. Even during pharmacy school when you labeled me a toxic winner, I chose to let you know that I have forfeited so many of our duels to protect your ego. It was not an act of aggression. It was an act of pity. Each time, I chose to forgive the monster within you because I empathize with how much it must hurt to hate yourself.
I kept running away from that truth and through insidious ways that destroyed my own love for myself for a long time. When I let you go I was finally able to manifest healthy male friendships. I was able to work through the pain in therapy and create a bright future to cap off the end of my 20's.
You have been there for me as a best friend and you have also been a blight in my life. You have been my little brother and you have also treated me worse than my worst bullies. I have given so much and yet all you've ever done is taken from me. I can accept the full truth now.
A final act of self love means with this letter, I can finally let you go. I no longer need to hide behind the comfortable lies that I kept telling myself. I can let go of the hope that we can grow to finally be kind to one another. I can let go of my wish to be proud of your white coat.
Sometimes, there's no rehabilitation. Sometimes, there's no redemption arc. Sometimes, the villain stays a villain. Heroes and villains share the same pain. One chooses to help and protect others from it. The other continues to scorch the earth by projecting their inadequacies. I have to accept this is who you are.
Goodbye.
Tommy Sang Tran
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recaffeine · 2 months ago
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9/6/2024
Generational trauma sometimes means creating unconscious situations to put oneself in the same familiar feelings of the past. It is far easier to create a route of self destruction than to experience new feelings of warmth and safety. It's interesting how the mind works. When you live a life full of abandonment and betrayal, what happens when you're surrounded by caring and loving individuals? The answer is simple: you betray yourself. You abandon the values that you hold so dearly close to your chest. It is the ultimate act of self-sabotage that leads one to continue the same tune of one's past. The mind chooses comfort over the possibility of love, connection and trust. They fear these possibilities not only in others, but especially in oneself. The mind will choose to propagate the feelings of anxiety by making oneself unsure about their choices. The mind will choose to propagate the feelings of depression by being overly critical of oneself and others. By focusing on the perceived flaws of others, one can continue to have the same rage and sadness that swept the past versions of oneself. To be free of these chains requires the ability to take a step back and introspect. Merely noticing the patterns allows partial control towards rewriting one's destined path. The next step is to honor the feelings while actively moving one's actions towards a more peaceful path.
I've been critical before and where has that lead me? Did it ever bring me joy? Did it bring me closer to others? Did it really protect me? Or did it just simply bring more isolation. It lead to bigger divides. It made me more sad in the long run. It was when I was open minded. It was when I was able to show compassion in the face of opposing values. It was when I chose empathy that truly gave me joy and contentment.
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recaffeine · 2 months ago
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9/5/2024
The wounds of my past continue to surge through my veins. I can feel the rejection. I can feel the enumerate pain coming back, piece by piece. I was able to lay them to rest in the past few years but their embers always begin to flicker once more.
I cannot separate myself from the guilt, the shame, and the failures of my past. I know that I never was meant to do so. I've been trying to integrate my shadow with my light. It's just so difficult lately. How do I discontinue the paths of asunder? I must breathe and give the shadow a space of its own.
He is merely a misunderstood and hurt child. The same one from California. You're here now aren't you? You have a loving family, a loving chosen family and a princess that you can cherish for the remainder of your days. They're all still here. I need you to come join them again. You're starting to wander off.
You chose to forgo the crown this year because you fear that the egotistic tendencies will return. You fear the allure of power. You fear the abuse that may come with it. Have you been one to misuse the power for long? It is in knowing that there is corruption inside you that allows mindfulness to plant its roots. True strength comes from knowing your shadow and choosing not to allow it to harm others. Do not be afraid to wear the crown. Do not be afraid of sharing your light with the world. Trust in your two hands to create a kinder world around you and within you. I believe in you.
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recaffeine · 3 months ago
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8/23/2024
A wounded mind is a sign that light must enter it.
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recaffeine · 3 months ago
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8/22/2024
2024 has been an overall wonderful year. So many adventures continue to pile up:
Nier Automata Concert: Probably one of the best concerts I've gone to. It was beautiful to see my favorite OST live. Got to see Yoko Taro for the first time too! Anh was especially beautiful that day.
Going to Illenium (first ever club rave)
I am getting older because by the time 1 AM hit, I was ready to go home. One of my favorite memories was seeing the crew all yawn in unison.
2 weeks of going to Japan with Anh
I've found a life partner I can really be happy with. It took so much to get to this point, but if I had to do it again to get to be with her, I'd do it.
State fair episode:
It was fun watching Alec enjoy fair rides and it's been good to continue to be by his side cheering him on.
Birthday:
A culmination of all things. It was nice connecting with friends and overall celebrating the wins of this year. It was the most people I've ever had at my house.
Dave and Busters episode:
I want to play the hungry hippo game again..
IU/Atlanta
This was the longest road trip I've ever been on with Anh. Seeing IU was also a big bucket list item that was finally checked off. It was also fun taking Anh to the biggest aquarium in the US. Favorite memory comes from my gambit paying off. We were able to get floor tickets!!
Destin:
I was able to learn more about Victoria as a person during this trip. She really loves sea animals and would be a marine biologist if she had the time. It was enjoyable just going to the beach and watching the sunset with the crew.
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recaffeine · 3 months ago
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8/5/2024
I'm so grateful for this year. It really feels like everything is finally aligning into place. There will always be issues out there if we look hard enough. I need to go with the flow and really enjoy the process of making things. It's been a long time since I tried to look at life with a bird's eye view. New perspectives are on the way.
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recaffeine · 3 months ago
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8/13/2024
A steady climb with the prefectures of fate
How I wish to align them with my constellation
Singe me with the fiery kiss of clandestine hope
You've given me such nuggets of hope
I dare not waste it
Help me incorporate my sorrows
Let my fingers intertwine with my shadow
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recaffeine · 5 months ago
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6/13/2024
I've gotten out of the habit of writing everyday again. It's been tough. I read a lot. I watch a lot of videos. It's just whenever I try to create; a mental blockage forms. They say that you do not need motivation to achieve your dreams. It requires discipline. I'm really trying to have both. I want to feel inpired.
My birthday was amazing! I was able to invite Devin, Corey, Alex, Alec, Anh, Victoria, Ann, Alaina, Kelsey, Jeremy. I'm 31 now and I loved that the COT was able to each individually get me a box of yugioh cards. They were so pricy... 150$ per box. They still did it though. I'm lucky to be surrounded by such good people.
My jaw surgery is coming up and maybe that's why I've been at a stand still also. It's been a bit stressful trying to get it all covered by my insurance. It was approved but they're still requiring a ten thousand dollar deposit. How the heck do I proceed?
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recaffeine · 6 months ago
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5/26/2024
Resentment is a poisonous berry. Found easily in the wild, consumed and becomes consuming.
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recaffeine · 6 months ago
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You’re my best friend
Please don't go
please don't
its really over isn’t it?
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recaffeine · 6 months ago
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4/30/2024
"Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment. …. Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain—and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving"
How many more life lessons is it going to take me to realize that I need to stay away from wounding a person's precious pride? I need to understand why they became my failures and though I cannot control the outcome, I can still do my best to keep what I do have.
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recaffeine · 6 months ago
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4/27/2024
I need to go back and reread what I've been writing.
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recaffeine · 7 months ago
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4/18/2024
I've always thought myself the type to hold onto whatever I can for dear life. The nostalgia is coded into my DNA. These losses carry so much weight for me. I write this letter to say goodbye to my past. My first year of my 30's was filled with tumultuous trials. It juggled between adversary and loss. I was able to leave a lot behind in the year 2023. I can feel the self-sabotage resurface again. I've been hurting from the people who left. I've been hurting because I left in my own way too. It had to be this way though. How else would I have climbed the mountain. This is the new life I live now. I'm letting you all go because I can't let my present be poisoned anymore. This is goodbye to my past chapter.
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recaffeine · 7 months ago
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4/11/2024
I finally made it to Japan this year. It was everything I dreamed it was be. The best part was that I was able to go with the lover of my life. Yet, the reality of coming back home hit me so hard. Last year, I went through untold betrayal from friends. I'm left wondering if it's even worth calling it that. What they did hurt me deeply, but is it worth reliving over and over in my head? I want to let go of the past because it's poison to me. I want to paint them as monsters because it would make it easier to just label them as beasts.
We're all human beings though. We're all trying our best to make it out there in this world. They were my former friends. I am going to do my best to let go of this anger and resentment. I don't want to keep hurting because I feel the wounds festering. I'm torn with my new Myer's Brigg change towards ENFP. When I'm at my healthiest, I feel ENFP. However, when I'm at my lowest, I revert back into INFP.
I begin to think about the pain that most INFP carry, and it's something I don't want to carry with me for the rest of this lifetime. I forgive Tu. I forgive Calvin. I forgive Thomas. I don't want their hurtful comments continue to drag me down. I need to get out of these thought loops.
Moving onto the present day, I was able to go to Japan finally. It was surreal because it takes a level of success for me to be able to manage this trip. It is a hallmark of both my interpersonal relationships and outwardly achievement. I was able to experience the cherry blossoms with Anh. We were able to be wished off by my two close friends, Victoria and Alec. I was finally able to eat at the many convenient stores in Japan. I was able to go to the fan cafe of my current favorite game and current favorite anime. I traversed 5 cities with Anh and I felt my love for her deepen. We are years into our relationship and from my perspective, where we are is a place that is uncharted in my heart. I feel a deep love and trust that I couldn't ever find with anyone else. What ties a ribbon on top of everything is the level of commitment that shines through the veil of life's darkness.
I want to continue to count my blessings of the present and to let go of the past of yesterday's. To the universe, God and Buddha, give me the strength to exude sunshine from my skin once more. I don't want to fall back into dark habits again.
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