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i dont consider myself a 'fashion guru' by any means but one thing i will say is guys you dont need to know the specific brand an item you like is - you need to know what the item is called. very rarely does a brand matter, but knowing that pair of pants is called 'cargo' vs 'boot cut' or the names of dress styles is going to help you find clothes you like WAAAYYYY faster than brand shopping

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As many of you know, I’ve been struggling to make ends meet for the greater part of the year, between car repairs, medical expenses, and my partner’s job cutting his hours. We’ve barely been scraping by for a bit now, but he still hasn’t gotten more hours and there’s a very low limit to how much outside work I can take on due to disability.

This month, the problems of living in a car-dependent society have struck again— the car is overdue for an oil change because we haven’t been able to afford it, and on top of that, there is a property tax bill due at the beginning of next month (December 5).

Quite frankly, there’s no way we’re going to be able to scrape out another extra 500 dollars (400 for property tax, 100 for service) by the end of the month, so if you enjoy my writing, or art, or general posting and have a little to spare, then please consider donating through PayPal or Ko-Fi or joining my Patreon! Any little bit helps and is massively appreciated.

Thank you so much <3 UPDATE:

Wellll.... updating this because I'm going to need to get a new passport in the next few months as well :')

So that will be an additional 170 dollars that I don't have.

Anywayyyyyy...

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Make the most of the next two months

Get all your vaccines

Travel while we have a functioning DOT

Read and buy books on feminism, anti-racism, pro-lgbt

Attend drag shows

Don't skip any of your classes

Read and buy history books

Find your out-of-state networks

Learn to carry cash

Get birth control solutions

Support the Biden/Harris administration

Postpone large purchases and save money

Be careful of what you say online, like un-ambiguous attacks against the incoming administration, especially in spaces that contain your full name or personal information

Feel free to add on.

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This was meant to be a quick warm up, but it turned into a comic that I’ve wanted to draw for a while. This is something that is extremely important to me, and I appreciate it if you read it.

A while ago, I heard a story that broke my heart. A family went a cat shelter to adopt. The daughter fell in love with a 3-legged cat. The father straight up said “absolutely not”. Because he was missing a leg. That cat was that close to having a family that loved him, but the missing leg held him back. Why?!

Many people have the initial instinct of “nope” when they see an imperfect animal. I get it, but less-adoptable does NOT mean less loveable. 9 out of 10 people will choose a kitten over an adult cat. And those 10% that would get an adult cat often overlook “different” animals.

All I want people to do is be open to the idea of having a “different” pet in their lives. Choose the pet that you fall in love with, but at least give all of them a fair shot at winning your heart.

Don’t dismiss them, they deserve a loving home just as much as any other cat. They still purr, they still love a warm lap, they still play, they still love you. Trust me, next time you are in the market for a new kitty, just go over to that one cat that’s missing an eye and see what he’s all about!

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I work at a daycare with infants.

One of our baby girls is fat, in the 99th percentile for her age. She is super cute and sweet. Lately, she has been sick with various breathing issues, so she has been reluctant to take her bottles. Normally, she’ll take 4 ounces of formula at lunch and 8 ounces in the afternoon. Today, I was lucky to get to her take 5 all day.

There was a substitute covering a lunch break in my classroom today. We emphasized to her that we need to keep trying to get the baby to drink her bottle until she finished it. She said, “Why are you guys so worried about taking her bottle?”

My coworker replied, “That’s where all her nutrients are. She needs the nutrients and the water.”

To which the substitute replied, “But she’s so fat. She doesn’t need it.”

Thin privilege is a small, pretty baby getting better childcare because the caretaker doesn’t think she’s too fat to be allowed to eat.

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non-it/its users need to get their shit together fr

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WHAT IS THE FUCKING POINT

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stop telling your teenage daughters who say they don't want kids that they'll change their mind

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My doctor and therapist: now with this autism + ADHD diagnosis you need to learn to unmask because masking all the time will make you burn out again and feel like shit

Other people: well it's just interesting how after getting the diagnosis you suddenly start behaving like that I mean I'm not saying you're faking it's just funny how you suddenly cannot be normal like you were before

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I had an interesting night last night

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I had an interesting night last night

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New Minecraft server/SMP (not sure yet)

Sunset Sanctuary

We are very inclusive respect us and we'll respect you

Feel like giving us a try then come and join the discord

Lore is not mandatory but like joining appreciated

https://discord.gg/Fny9te9Z

@ me if the link expires

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Love without Sex

I’m doing a Philosophy paper on Asexuality. Please reblog if you think Love without Sex is possible! I really need the data. Like if you think love has to have sex.