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Offering a big hug to the emotionally neglected people who have no idea how to cope
The ones that can't grasp the concept of coping. The ones that don't even know how to start identifying their emotions. The ones that don't understand coping mechanisms. The ones who only have maladaptive coping mechanisms. The ones who only know how to repress. The ones that feel ashamed for not knowing how to cope. The ones that feel angry for not having anyone teach them. The ones that feel hopeless about healing. The ones that feel like it's impossible for them to cope
I'm sorry you have to build up from scratch something that other people should've taught you. I see how hard you're trying, I see how exhausting and difficult it is. I wish I could give you so many affirmations, but I'm in the same place you are. Ily
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Offering a big hug to the emotionally neglected people who have no idea how to cope
The ones that can't grasp the concept of coping. The ones that don't even know how to start identifying their emotions. The ones that don't understand coping mechanisms. The ones who only have maladaptive coping mechanisms. The ones who only know how to repress. The ones that feel ashamed for not knowing how to cope. The ones that feel angry for not having anyone teach them. The ones that feel hopeless about healing. The ones that feel like it's impossible for them to cope
I'm sorry you have to build up from scratch something that other people should've taught you. I see how hard you're trying, I see how exhausting and difficult it is. I wish I could give you so many affirmations, but I'm in the same place you are. Ily
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i might be doing really terrible on the emotional regulation front but in my defense ive had a gaping hole in my chest since i was 12
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man, we had such a good run of managing not lose any time. i forgot how fuckin weird of a feeling it is
#it wasn’t much#just a couple hours#but it’s such a weird feeling to be in the middle of a walk#and then suddenly standing in the kitchen#fully showered and in the middle of making breakfast
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saw this on twitter and wanted to save it here
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(@nyc.food)
Strawberries and cream croissant 🍓
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since the tender age of 11 i have been so Scared due to everything being so Scary
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December's naming event has begun over on my Patreon! Help this cat clown find the perfect name for a chance to take it home.
Open exclusively to all current and new, ''jester jackpot'' tier supporters, with up to two name suggestions allowed per patreon. International tracked shipping from Ireland at no extra cost - deadline is Dec 31st.
P.S. I only judge names suggested over on my patreon, but suggestions here just for fun are always welcome
Patreon / instagram
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dude, I grow up thinking that my parents didn't fight. I'm starting to realize that they fight, like, all the time. its pretty much all they do, my dad just doesn't yell so I never thought of it as fighting
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being self aware suuuucks like yeah this thought pattern/behavior is stupid and pointless and a symptom. i know this. [does it anyways
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