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A painting I did today (I broke into my friends house to use her paints since my sister packed ours up).

Inspiration photo ^^

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AHHHHHHHHHHH

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Insane what the 4am brainrot does.

I was sorting through my notes (since I deadass had 236 of them) and I found an old love note I wrote to my ex dated a week before they broke up with me.

Holy shit it’s so sad how in love with this person I was.

Like I’m deadass over it but past me imagined our whole future and just gushed on and on about this person only for them to date someone 3 weeks after we broke up.

Like woahhhh insane. My self-hating horrible self esteem took a really bad hit back then.

Sorry for the rant. Hope yall are doing peachy.

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I really really wish I was a cat, I’m not built for this capatalist society but I am built for sleeping 19 hours a day and knocking things over

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(Small rant)

I hate being a floater friend. I hate knowing that I’m the floater.

Like, I’m always the one taking pictures and never being in them and never being a person who is necessary for a hang out or just in general not being needed.

I feel like a 7th or 8th or 9th wheel.

And like, I know I can be too annoying or too sarcastic or whatever but like- I’m good for some things. I know people come to me for comfort or advice because that’s what I’m good for. I just- I dunno. I wish I was important.

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yall are like "of course clothes =/= consent let women wear what they want" until it's an asexual person and then it's all "well WHY are you dressing like that if you're not looking for sex"

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Not being able to afford surgery / not wanting to have surgery done to your body does not make you any less valid as a trans person.

Like, you do you, boo. I hope whatever you decide makes you happy. /gen

Like/reblog if you think that you don't need to medically transition to be transgender

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No like actually. Like a lot of my family is supportive but they expect me to know everything about everyone and it’s exhausting.

Like I’m not a fucking dictionary. Google is free. I’m not responsible for your ignorance, go educate yourself.

Queer 👏 people 👏 are 👏 not 👏 all 👏 fucking 👏 activists 👏

Stop quizzing us on queer history and asking us questions we aren’t qualified to answer about the world and about politics and about our identities

Stop trying to back us into a corner so you can justify your discrimination on the basis that we don’t know what we’re talking about or can’t “defend” ourselves to you

Stop treating every queer person that stands up and says “I want to be treated like a person” as if they’re an activist

Cut that bullshit out

Marginalised people just want to exist and be happy

I don’t know everything, and that doesn’t make me undeserving of your respect or my human rights you fucker

I don’t even owe you the stuff I do know- I still am entitled to basic fucking respect

TLDR; Queer people shouldn’t have to be historians or scientists for you to not be a fucking dick

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….wait do people think cuddling is sexual?

Like, fr???

pls rb if you think cuddling doesn't have to be s3xual

im tryna prove a point to my bf's mother help me out

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It’s not that fucking hard. You can tell if you don’t like food without trying it ever just by looking at it. I don’t have to do nothing to know things about myself.

“how do you know you don’t like it if youve never tried it???”

i don’t have to drink gasoline to know i dont fuck w it lets use critical thinking skills

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Whilst in many ways we live in the worst timeline, seeing an ace person lead London Pride has been a real highpoint of my year. Thankyou, @theyasminbenoit and everyone else who made that happen :)

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“Why are YOU mad that I don’t have sex” is literally perfectly worded for this.

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Ace armadillos

a while back i posted screenshots of a conversation with a demi friend who afaik is otherwise cishet and extremely not on tumblr. i guess he's just gonna be a recurring character on this blog.

here is me (badly) explaining the deal with unicorns and dragons to him, and a message he had for acespecs in response.

make armadillo ace a thing. do it for him.

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LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE WHO NEED TO HEAR THIS!!!

IT IS OKAY IF YOU ARE A CISHET QUEER PERSON

you are NOT lesser for being a cishet queer person

you are just as valid as anyone else!!

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No that’s so shitty.

I’ve had people who, after finding out I’m ace, babying the shit out of me for not wanting sex because “I’m clearly just immature.”

Or my ex’s mom who told them it was okay to like someone else while dating me / break up with me now that they knew because “people have needs.”

I don’t understand people sometimes.

One of my craziest acephobic experiences was when somebody accused me of being addicted to hard-core drugs because according to them, “Drug abuse can cause low libido.” I told them I’ve never done hard-core drugs in my life, so then he proceeded to tell me, I must be on antidepressants or something. Once again, I told him no I’ve never been on any drugs and I’ve never been diagnosed with any mental health problems. Asexuality is not low libido but he kept insisting tht something was wrong with me because “everyone needs sex, it’s human nature and sex is normal/natural etc.” 😒🤦🏽‍♀️

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Real.

Like cuddling exists. Stoppit

I hate how “sleeping with someone” means having sex with them because I want to literally sleep with someone and cuddle and feel comfy and safe without people thinking we had sex

Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh

God yeah it's so dumb. And it's like, some siblings sleep in the same bed together but most people don't think that's weird, why do they immediately take it sexually the moment it isn't with people who are related? :/

Sleeping together can be sexual sure, but it can also be romantic or platonic or anything else or nothing at all. Why is it always assumed sexually