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Rapper/Actress Eve photographed by Bruce Weber

in Christian Dior for Interview Magazine, 2000

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Social media churns the illusion that it’s not enough to live for our own selves, the idea something is only worth doing if it‘s seen

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SATURN IN THE 2nd HOUSE; Observations

Unfortunately, people with this placement are far too familiar with the restrictions money and finances place upon the world. Money does not come easy to them and quite literally takes work. Saturn being in the second house has a rather harsh effect upon the natives life. During their younger years, those with this placement will have to deal with limited resources. They are forced to make do with the bare minimum and are not allowed to ask for more. I’ve noticed that these were the types of people who never got birthday/christmas gifts. The clothing they wore growing up was often a hand-me-down or thrifted, they rarely came into ownership with things of simple value. Saturn second housers started working hard at a young age. Some quite literally began their work careers as teens and others were pushed to excel in school. Either way, they weren't offered much time to develop their own values and tastes because they were constantly forced into upholding the values of another person. As a result, these natives have very poor self-esteem. The trauma of scarcity is a ruling factor within their lives and they don’t see much value within themselves. This is perpetuated through negative self-talk and criticism, they are too judgemental of themselves. Because they always experienced having less, they now believe that they are less. This type of mindset and perception is a struggle to deal with and it won’t get the focus it needs until the natives Saturn return. During their twenties, these individuals will start to explore hobbies and activities that boost their self-confidence. They won’t find it within materialism or through the ownership of luxury items. It will start to develop once they learn how to keep their pride disconnected from expectations. Building this confidence is going to take persistence and significant changes will not occur until the work that is required for this has been put in. There is no escaping work with this placement, if these individuals want anything of value it correlates to them having to work. People with this placement who lack dedication will go on to live extremely difficult lives. Saturn second housers need to showcase a commitment to themselves in order to gain rewards and gifts. 

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☕️Virgo Venus☕️

☕️extremely kind individuals they are always trying to help others

☕️Virgo Venuses may try to fix people or their loved ones problems (sometimes this is too much for them but they help anyways because they love them so much)

☕️they can come off critical to others but trust me when I say this they are so much harder on themselves:(

☕️I love their humor I’ve never met a Virgo Venus that didn’t have the whole room on the floor laughing

☕️they are perfectionists when it comes to their appearance

☕️ when they are in love they pay attention to everything their person does or says

☕️a lot of people say their love language is acts of service and it is one of them for sure but they also really like words of affirmation

☕️they pay attention to the details of things like the smaller stuff no one notices

☕️they have stomach issues 🫠

☕️they are very mind over heart people

☕️they will always have a place in their heart for the people they loved or love 🌹

☕️Virgo Venuses are my favorite Venus sign (not an observation I just needed to add an unnecessary opinion)

☕️they could either be really messy or clean freaks 😭

☕️they LOVE MAKING MONEY. And they are good at it

☕️most Virgo Venus people can be really shy when they like someone

☕️they don’t like dishonesty or people beating around the bush

☕️they are attracted to intelligence

☕️they get upset when someone doesn’t have common sense

☕️zero tolerance for people not wanting to better themselves

☕️they are very picky with clothes (and the people they choose to be around)😭

☕️don’t let them fool you they day dream about their crushes

☕️they need stability in a relationship

☕️ they do get the ick super easily but if you truly like someone they will just throw that idk out of the window and hit it with a car

☕️they have a hard time talking about their emotions (unless they have a lot of water placements)

☕️they are very devoted people they also could get stressed out easily

☕️they bring logical explanation to the function that everyone loves 🤓🤓

☕️they can catch feelings really easily but they hide it

☕️they are very informed about topics or even hobbies that they have

Virgo Venus celebrities

-Mila Kunis

-Kim Kardashian

-Kylie Jenner

-Adam Sandler

-Eminem

-Julia Roberts

-Demi Lovato

-Robbin Williams

-Bella Hadid

Thank you guys for reading I love Virgo Venuses sm 😭 the next Venus sign will be libra 🩷

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method for placements and aspects that need healing: love and feeling unworthy 💔🔄💓 [Practical Astrology]

How about healing yourself through words and thinking about constructive things?

Chiron in Libra, Chiron in the 7th house, Lilith in Libra, Lilith in the 7th house, Venus square Saturn, Venus opposite Saturn, Venus conjunction Saturn, Saturn in Libra, Saturn in the 7th house, Pluto in the 7th house, Venus square Pluto, Venus conjunction Pluto, Venus opposite Pluto.

repetitions for placements and aspects that may be in need of healing: love and feeling unworthy

we may not understand the power that the words have for the people around us and for ourselves, but what we hear always enters our mind, to some extent. some things impact us directly, others, unconsciously. examples:

how many times have you dreamed of something random that happened in your day, and that you didn't remember anymore? everything that happens to us enters our being, because we are always sharing and receiving information. that's why I've been talking for a long time about the importance of knowing how to consume the right information and being in environments that bring "good information" to your mind.

the more time you spend in places and with people that don't help, the more you receive negative messages, fuel for complicated, dysfunctional, negative thoughts.

a clear example: a person who has a terrible love relationship, living with this person who constantly says negative things about him/her, who nourishes in this person's mind feelings of incapacity and lack of love, of not being worthy of love. the damage that this relationship will do in that person's mind is immense.

many times, even after getting out of difficult situations, we tend to believe that we are fine, because consciously certain issues no longer affect us. we are wrong. because the most sensitive issues are always being dealt with in another "layer" of our mind: the unconscious.

therefore, the importance of working with the health of your thoughts is immense, healthy thoughts are thoughts open to change, healing, which admit your weaknesses, your internal needs. exaggeratedly negative thoughts need to be removed from your mind, but don't force yourself to change them, don't believe that running away from them is the ideal thing to do. what we need to do is replace them with other thoughts which, after a certain amount of time being repeated, will become things you will believe. thoughts that others will rarely speak to you. but do you really need to wait to hear these things?

we need to take care of ourselves, be responsible with our life. and for that you need to face your insecurities and try to heal them in the ways available to you.

"but I don't know exactly what are my insecurities."

I have some posts here where I mention which are the placements on the natal chart that indicate the Shadows of our personality. I remember some: placements with Saturn, Chiron, Lilith, Pluto, and some of the aspects with them.

In this post, I bring part 1 of repetitions to heal wounds, part 1 is about love, relationships in general, and healing the feeling of unworthy, unimportance, which can generate a series of problems in relationships, and, first, problems within you.

these are words that need to be truly spoken, and I believe that many, if not all, will feel the depth of these words, perhaps having difficulty speaking some of them at first. don't give up, the more you have difficulty talking, especially to yourself, the more you should keep trying.

remember that words have power. repeat them whenever necessary. and adapt to your reality. the important thing is to say something that will help you to understand your inner problems.

I say that because when you are full of misconceptions and you say something different, your mind rejects it. if you feel rejection towards these more constructive words, it means that you really need it, because you have many distorted ideas about this subject: love and worthiness.

repetitions for the following placements and aspects: Chiron in Libra Chiron in the 7th house lilith in libra Lilith in the 7th house Venus square Saturn Venus opposition Saturn Venus conjunction Saturn Saturn in Libra Saturn in the 7th house Pluto in the 7th house Venus square Pluto Venus conjunction Pluto

"My love life, blessed and happy, I'm sorry, forgive me, I love you, thank you"

"I declare light, harmony, respect and happiness in my love life. I align with my soul mate and thrive with romance and harmony in love. I open myself to unconditional love, I love myself, I allow myself to truly love and be beloved. the love that sets free, the love that is light, and that flows from my divine spark and expands to the world around me. and so it is. My love life, blessed and happy, I'm sorry, forgive me, I love you, thank you". (by Marta Allegretti, Pt-Br)

other possibilities (my phrases):

"I believe that love exists. I stop believing that love was not meant for me and that love is about negative experiences and enduring bad things."

"I want to be love. I am love. So be it. And so it is." "I forgive those who hurt me. I forgive myself for hurt me. So be it. And so it is."

"I allow myself to receive a love that nourishes me, that frees me from the distorted feeling that loving is for few"

"I understand what love is, from the inside out. I understand that I need to love myself first, to then want to be loved. I understand that loving is a process, that I respect, and from which I deserve to receive the best."

"love is aligned in my life now. love is present in all my actions now. I am open to love. true love sets me free, from the inside out."

"Through the connection with my feelings of self-love, I learn the essence of loving, that from the most intimate contact with myself, I know to recognize the most sensitive needs of human life. I am ready to give, receive and trust in the love, so that I can share and receive from others. I know how to have empathy and compassion. So be it. And so it is."

Ho'oponopono:

"My emotional wounds, which are being healed with compassion and openness, I'm sorry, please forgive me, I'm grateful, I love you."

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Creative slump? No, no. Creative frenzy. Too many idea, not enough time, not enough energy. It's too much, I do nothing.

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It is.

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I do think fashion peaked in the 70s men were dressing like sluts women were dressing like sluts hair was long and uncut and so were pubes cut off jean shorts halter tops fitted shirts wide leg pants good good bring it back bring it all back

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I came across this post about the astrology of age 27 and it got me thinking about how I'm in a 4h profection year. 27 has been deeeep. filled with a lot of self-reflection, detachment and focus on building stability. Very much a "letting things unfold as they may" type of year.

It might sound selfish, but I've been more to myself than ever. My main priorities are my career/hobbies, my home life with my partner, and my immediate family. It's not that I don't care for others, but right now, I'm concentrating on what’s best for my future. This year started with an unexpected move to a new state. First I was upset & confused, but it turned out to be a blessing, allowing us cut our living expenses and live more comfortably. This aligns perfectly with the nurturing Cancer themes of the 4th house, especially since this year is ruled by Taurus for me. I def been enjoying the Venusian comforts of home life,

Living in a new city with few friends and being away from family, along with a partner that travels a lot for work, has made me more isolated. I don't mind though. I use my alone time for self-care, taking care of my pets, and exploring hobbies I’ve never been able to sustain before. Staying connected with family and friends through phone calls and stuff help a lot too.

I've also become more in tune with my emotions this year. As I get older, I feel my emotions more intensely, but I’m learning to manage and process them better. This growth has helped my communication, boundary-setting, and self-confidence.

The emotional healing and growth of this 4h profection year has been beautiful but can be draining as hell sometimes. I'm going to embrace the lessons and grounding that the rest of 27 has to offer, but babyyyyy just know I'm looking forward to the creative energy og the 5h year.