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Syria, I’m sorry that the world has failed you. How Muslim leaders failed you and more importantly how the Muslim ummah has failed you. Innocent people are being executed because they stood up to a vicious dictator. The world is ending for the people in Aleppo, that’s about 100,000+ people. There are people uploading videos to social media and saying that this will most likely be the last time we will hear from them. How does that leave us so unaffected? We stood by indifferently for so long and watched it get to this point. This is on our hands too.

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When Satan tricked mankind for the first time into idol worship, he did not come to them directly saying, ‘’Worship this idol’’. Rather, he first ordered them to build a statue, through which they could be reminded of a righteous man among them who had passed away. Afterwards he made them build statues of this man in their homes, so he could be ‘’remembered’’. Soon afterward people started worshiping these idols, instead of Allah.

And it’s the same with Zina. Satan does not come to you saying, ‘’O so and so, go and commit Zina’’. No, first he whispers that you should look and smile at each other. Then he tricks you into chatting with each other through the phone. Eventually you go on a ‘’friendly’’ date, and then not much later you fall into the act of Zina … crying and wondering how this could happen to you.

O my brothers and sisters, be aware of the treachery of Shaytaan, for as Allah says about Him: Verily, he is to you an open enemy. [2:168]

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Do not compare your petals to those of others. Every sunflower must discover its own way to bloom, in its own time.

Noor Shirazie (via noorshirazie)

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Ye duniya besubaat-o-bewafa-o-gham ka gehwara Ye hai matloob dar-e-be-wafayee mein wafa dekhoon Tamanna muddaton se hai jamaal-e-Mustafa dekhoon Woh mabda khalq-e-'alam ka darood unpar salaam unpar

#Mustafa#Rasool-E-Pak

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Allah mentions in the Qur'an that He returned Musa (as) to his mother so she wouldn’t be sad. Look at Allah’s concern for the sorrow in her heart.

Don’t you ever think that He doesn’t care about you. He’s aware of your pain. He’s taking care of you even if you can’t see it. He is Al Wadud, The Most Loving. Your pain isn’t trivial to Him. Hold on, keep going. He’s with you.

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My mother said something that really stuck with me. She told me to always make dua’ for your children, even as early as they’re in your womb because their taqdeer is written then- to never rely on your abilities as a parent alone. You can teach your child everything and show them the right way but in the end Allah holds their heart in His hands; even prophets (alayhis salato salam) have had disobedient/misguided children so always make dua’ for your children’s hidaya.

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You seek comfort in all the wrong places. You seek comfort everywhere, but by Allah. And when you see the destruction that your hands had created, you wonder why He has not come to your support. Do not be surprised dear, did you forget? You neglected Him first, so He neglected you too.

متهور/ ibtasem (via ibtasem)

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“I love you.” Saying those words sincerely in the beginning of a marriage is easy. It is new and exciting. You are with your newly-wedded spouse and you are happy. Give it a few years. After all the bad habits pop up and after all the fights break out, it is not as easy to say those words anymore. But that is when those words matter most. If you can still say those words, after all those years being together, then you have truly learned what is true love and how to love. Happy old couples don’t stay together because they don’t fight. Happy old couples don’t stay together because their physical beauty last. Happy old couples don’t stay together because they’re both angels. Happy old couples stay together because despite what they know about each other and despite all the good, the bad, and the ugly that they have witnessed in each other, they still say, “I love you.” And they mean it.

Aiman Azlan  (via khadlja)

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دعوة The next time you wonder why you feel left alone ask yourself when the last time was you answered Him when He told you to come.

ibtasem // ‘call’ (via ibtasem)

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Woh Qadeer hai har cheez uski ijazat leti(lekh jati) hai, Agar woh Taqdeer likhta hai toh woh badal bhi sakta hai. Qadeer - Powerful (Allah) Taqdeer - Fate/Destiny #destiny #fate #allah #qadeer

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Let it go

Do not feel remorse over that which is not in your hands. Do not think that you could have prevented the fence from falling, the water from flowing, the wind from blowing, or the glass from breaking. You could NOT have prevented these things, whether you wanted to or not. All that has been preordained shall come to pass. Surrender yourself to your taqdeer (fate) before anger and regret overwhelm you. If you have done all that was in your power, and afterwards what you had been striving against sill takes place, have firm faith that it was meant to be. Do not say ‘ Had I done such-and-such, such-and-such would have happened’; rather say ‘ This is decree of Allah, and what He wishes, He does.’

Do not be in despair: it is impossible for things to remain the same. The days and years rotate, the future is unseen and every day Allah has matters to bring forth. Just leave things on Allah and believe Him when He says : And verily, with hardship there is relief.  [ Notes from today’s Khutbah]

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Being alone never scared me. In fact, I find comfort in solitude.

But the idea of spending the rest of my life with the wrong person? Or to wake up one day and realize the man lying next to me is no longer the one I want to wake up to?

Now that’s scary.

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And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.

Haruki Murakami (via psych-facts)