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"we need a slur forโ" I actually don't think we need slurs in general but please tell everyone why you're gagging to make more
#salivating at the idea of creating a group you are allowed to subjugate#*percieved as more allowed really.
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i wish i could be near enough to my mutuals to hang but theres like almost as many people in california than there are in the whole of canada so its hard out here
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preserving this awesome comment before i blocked them for unrelated bigotry
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thought this was satire for a sec what the hell
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i just want to be paid attention toooo
#i have a long distance partner thats like. its a poly thing and also like we will never live close together#but anyway the first 7 months were like. so good. but shes hardly had time for me since and there are legit reasons but also i cant help bu#feel like since its been so long and so many things have come up to keep her busy its like. idk like the norm has just shifted so much that#feels like i just am not as high a priority anymore and shes just like learned subconsciously that she doesnt have to try that hard to keep#me around because i always forgive and i always wait#i mean also what makes this harder is she doesnt really talk to me about what's all going on with her shes just very vague and idk i try to#let her know she can vent to me bc i do with her. but also she has a couple other partners so i feel like maybe they are the ones that hear#it. cuz those partners are aro and ace and so the relationships are non romantic and nonsexual and ours is largely sexual and not really#romantic. idk.#first 7 months out of 19 :/#its just. one thing after another forever
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Example of Tumblr's aging userbase: people complain about prices rising and how things were better in the past and are getting worse all the time (often in spite of contrary evidence!), have often developed a sharp technophobia based on misunderstandings of how technologies work and moral panics about dangers that are not supported by research, and hold strong opinions about the problem being due to moral failings that can be fixed by simply destroying the unvirtuous and showing personal virtue, and also are convinced that the past was both better and also harder, and that kids these days have it too easy (but they feel sorry for them because everything sucks now)
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that jinx dunk on jk is such a stupid gotcha its annoying me so bad ๐ญ
#like its not even addressing anything real its just jokes which like whatever ik if a terf is a terf they will stay a terf even if the#argument is good but i just hate those jokey arguments cuz i think it genuinely actively encourages people to think up the easy argument#against it. and if they are not well informed or their position on it isnt super integrated then it just drives them away#makes us all look stupid.#like legitimately i think it promotes the idea that our arguments are not good and that we need to resort to dumb jokes that miss the point
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finally blocked a long time mutual for being a trans misandry is real truther today i really need to stop giving these people the benefit of the doubt lmao
#the way these people misrepresent the other side is so disingenuous and insufferable.#its so easy to understand if you know anything about how intersectionality works or like yknow see trans women as women.#someone else sent them an anon and the way they refused to even engage with the persons very easy to grasp logical critiques so. goodbye
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No, tumblr user, I donโt think the hatred of trans women is cemented on the hatred of men. I believe, god forbid, it might be based on the hatred of women.
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finally having a social life and very aware of how it could all crumble so fast
#its just that the ppl i like the most are gonna grad from uni soon and i am nowhere near that and the older i get the less likely i'll be#able to make new uni friends#ik people can stay friends but i just have always been bad at keeping up with people who i dont see all the time anyway
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i had a lot of fun at the rave last night it was kink themed and i loved seeing ppl in fetish gear sm and there were playrooms i never went to the main one but i could hear someone being spanked in the casual one at one point which was awesome
#i wish i had worn less tbh it was hotter than the other club#it made me so happy to be there idk! i loved seeing all the older people around too#i bought myself a paddle that is pink and gold and sparkly and says baby on it ๐
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Understory - Bethany Noรซl , 2024.
American , b. 1990s
Acrylic , Chalk pastel, Black gessoย on canvas , 48 x 36 in.
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going to my first warehouse rave tonight :3
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Morris Graves - Moon Mad Crow in the Surf (1943)
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my mom grew up mostly in sask it gets to -40ยฐ over there
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gagged 3 whole times watching the new sunny ep
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i can truly only be awake for like 8 hours before the depression kicks in
#maybe i should learn how to take naps#but that would mean dealing with a whole lot because the main reason i cant nap is i get anxious about falling asleep quick enough that i am#not spending the majority of the carved out nap time awake which makes it impossible to fall asleep at all#also why i cant be hypnotized or cum in front of a person etc etc
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