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“Someday, someone is going to look at you with a light in their eyes you’ve never seen, they’ll look at you like you’re everything they’ve been looking for their entire lives. Wait for it.”

— Unknown

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At home date ideas for couples (great for iso)❤️

Play a board or question game

“Finger foods only” meal

Dress up fancy for your dinner at home.

Backyard picnic

Build a fort

Cook or make food/snacks together

Candle light dinner

Share a book or swap books or read a book together.

Paint, colour in, draw, do art together

Play a sport together

Do a puzzle together

Listen to each others a music together

Have a bath together

Create a Bucket/Travel/Microadventure List

Listen or watch vintage scary movies/shows/radio shows

Play a video game together

Make your bedroom look romantic or like a hotel room for a night. Or spend the night in another room in your house.

Have a spa or self care night together.

Do a theme dinner night: time period, country, all meals use one same ingredients, visual themed (like everything’s green or Halloween etc.)

Have a cook off (each makes a seperate part of dinner; entree, main or desert)

Have a Karaoke night

Do online quiz’s together (love language, type of intelligence etc.)

Write each other a love letter and leave them somewhere each other will find it.

Do or create a treasure hunt together.

Comedy night (watch stand up together)

No technology date night. See what you come up with

Blind fold your partner and have them guess the food you fed them.

Nerf war or water gun war date

Watch the sunset or sunrise together.

Learn a dance online.

Star gaze

Try yoga or Pilates or working out together.

Create a playlist together or for each other.

Learn or try a new skill together

Binge a tv show or marathon a movie series.

Host a film festival full of films you both want to see or ones that the other hasn’t but you want them to.

Do a DIY or home improvement together

Buy fancy food you usually wouldn’t splurge on and have a “fancy” food date

Try a sex game or something you’ve always wanted to try in bed.

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Dream Dates:

♡ Visit the aquarium

♡ Go to a nursery and pick out each other a plant that reminds you of them

♡ Baking together

♡ Picnic in the woods

♡ Go to the zoo

♡ Make pinecone/natural bird feeders to hang up in the park

♡ Painting together

♡ Making a big pillow nest in front of the TV and binge watching anime

♡ Long road car rides

♡ Browsing thrift stores & making outfits

♡ Nature hikes

♡ Running errands while listening to playlists you made each other

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Gizem Bozkurt on Instagram

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for wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning — Vincent van Gogh

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how you program your mind when you’re at a low point is so impactful. resorting back to toxic patterns when you’re low is only strengthening those neural pathways and programming your mind to make those unhealthy choices or think those unhealthy thoughts every time you’re not feeling well. alternatively, trying your hardest to cope in a healthier way every time you’re feeling bad will strengthen those positive neural pathways, and as time goes on, it will become easier to make healthy choices and say no to toxic patterns. this of course isn’t to say that you should feel guilty if you relapse, it is not by any means easy to reprogram your brain and sometimes we relapse and that’s okay, so long as we’re trying our best to treat ourselves better.

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Rima keheningan

Hai angin,

Kini jam berbisik berirama berusaha menunjukkan akan dimulainya hari.

03.24

Namun kau pun tetap saja berada di sekitarku.

Diam. Menyelimuti dalam keheningan. Nyaman.

Nampaknya, aku tetap tidak bisa menghindarimu.

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Angin

Lari, berlari ke samudera dan benua.

Menjauhi angan atas bagaimana debu bertemu dengan angin.

Selayaknya aku. Terlalu takut untuk berlari. Juga, bagaimana mungkin aku menghindarimu?

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Procrastination 101

I wanted to tell you a few things about procrastination, because we all procrastinate from time to time and I’ve been doing it more often than usual. So how do we beat procrastination and start getting sh*t done?

First of all, ask yourself why you procrastinate. Indeed, procrastination is a stress reliever : by avoiding some things, you push away the stress and the struggle it brings you. You don’t want to do it because you don’t want to get anxious and you think you have better things to do.

Think about the excuses you’re using to avoid the work you should be doing. If you always say phrases like « I’ll do it later » or « I don’t need to do it right now » chances are you are procrastinating.

Your perfectionnism may be the reason why you procrastinate. You want it to be perfect so you don’t even start because you fear the result and the possible criticism

So how can you stop procrastinating?

Just start. Try doing it for 5 minutes. Set a 5 minute timer and see what you can accomplish and then stop. If you feel like 5 minutes weren’t enough, set your timer for 5 more minutes. Maybe you have no idea what you’re doing, maybe you’re really confused about what you should do but the most important is to do something. So sit on your desk, or put your running shoes on, and just start.

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