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BE MAD BE SAD BUT DONT U DARE GIVE UP

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how it feels to see a post containing a vaguely factually inaccurate sentiment about a subject on which you are disgustingly overinformed

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In Paper Mario: The Thousand-Year Door, it is not normally possible to take Ghost T.'s diary out of the Excess Express, as Mario cannot exit the train during that part of Chapter 6.

However, if cheats are used to take it out of the train and it is used in a different point in the overworld in the Japanese GameCube version of the game, the game shows a unique placeholder dialogue that is not only in English despite the entire game being in Japanese, but in a unique font as well.

Choosing "Yes" or "No" simply closes the dialogue prompt while choosing "Choose this option" kills Mario and proceeds to the Game Over screen.

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minecraft produce

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Thinking about the division of "pro kink" people and people who want nuance around these things falling down such obvious racial lines.....Most of the time when I see people try to make salient critiques of mindless kink positivity with no thought towards power dynamics, it's people of color, especially Black people, critiquing a lot of white people who have simply gone full-in on saying ALL kinks are welcome and okay. I think this is hugely in part due to the fact that people of color almost always have to contend with race-based kinks invading their peace while white people are free to just ignore that raceplay is a thing.

"you can't just judge someone by their kinks" what about raceplay?

"kinks don't affect you unless you're the one engaging in it" what about raceplay?

"if you dislike seeing a kink just block or blacklist, it's not like it's hurting you" what about raceplay?

I think people refuse to ever bring it up on the "pro kink" side of things because it exposes such a glaring hole in the argument. If you are disseminating raceplay kink, you are willfully spreading racist ideas and exposing others to it. If you are engaging in this kink you are choosing to indulge your unhealthy racist beliefs about other races for your own pleasure, regardless of the mental toll that might have on you OR how it might affect your treatment of other people, especially underprivileged people, in your life. Spreading or sharing raceplay even within a kink-friendly space inherently makes that space unsafe for some people, namely people of color.

I think it's actually very easy to work out a nuanced stance on accepting Most kinks if you're willing to consider things like raceplay exist, because yeah...some kinks actually aren't okay. You cannot practice raceplay in a way that will not affect you. You cannot share content of it in a way that does not create an unsafe kink space for people of color. You NEED to understand that even within kink, some lines and boundaries need to be established, and it is not in fact anti-progressive to say this. It is in fact MORE progressive to oust raceplay weirdos from your kink spaces to protect people of color and LESS progressive to simply defend it under a "kink positive" flag.

Like not only should I, as a person of color, be free from the fetishization that is part and parcel of race-based kinks, I should not have to worry about it being disseminated in my communities or having kink positive spaces simply let it slide because it's "just a kink."

You need to actually analyze things. You cannot be wholesale "kink positive" across the board in much the same way you should not be wholesale "kink negative," because it does actually matter what the kink is, sorry. It does.

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idk man I think according to color theory this is actually an excellent design for the carpet

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The company budsies, which specializes in making custom stuffed animals and making duplicates of old or lost plushies, is currently offering to recreate the beloved stuffed animal of any kid who lost theirs in the LA wildfire, free of charge.

Their instagram post said to share this, so please spread this around so that families who've lost everything can receive just a little bit more hope in their lives 🥺

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Stop saying…

“Psychotic/Schizophrenic” when you mean: unpredictable, unhinged, unreal, etc.

“Bipolar” when you mean: polarized, scattered, fickle, unstable, etc.

“Delusional” when you mean: unrealistic, unreasonable, close-minded, stubborn, etc.

“[insert “R” slur in relation to intellectual disabilities]” when you mean: unreasonable, unintelligent/ridiculous, immature, etc.

“OCD” when you mean: particular, neat, overbearing, etc.

“Narcissistic” when you mean selfish, abusive, manipulative, etc.

Note: I’m NOT saying that these are synonymous. This is also not an exhaustive list.

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we're fucked

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“Humans are inherently selfish--" Then why do so many cultures value hospitality, to the point of dictating it in their religions? Why is it so common for hosts to offer their visitors their best food, and as much of it as they can? At some point, multiple cultures decided that they knew what it felt like to be alone and vulnerable, and promised each other to never let those who stay with them feel that way. That doesn't sound very "inherently selfish" to me.

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wave 3 :))

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hey kids, delete tiktok and don't go back! don't open yourself up to the misinformation and propaganda that's about to get ten times worse once it's back up and running under trump! engage with your community. lean into your hobbies that aren't attached to a screen whenever you can. I love you more than any politician ever will, so please stay smart and stay SAFE!!!

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I feel like Kirby himself wouldn't really bother getting into online arguments much, that's why he's not a poll option.

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ms paint study from 2021

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navigating life with no blood pressure be like. oh hey dad bought donuts for breakfast today! everybody gets 2! now i will go back upstairs, lay down for a second, be unable to get up without blacking out, take a thirty minute nap, be sleepy, be tired, it's almost 3 PM, can't wake up, can't STAND up, planned on drawing earlier but just layed down and watched youtube instead, and now im just laying on the couch downstairs waiting for mom to get back with substantially salty food before work

i wish i had blood