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for 2024:

read a lot and read everything

film and art and music are what builds ur soul

be outside

love and romance will not come to you any quicker if you are focused on it constantly

possessions don't improve things

movement does improve things

university is <4 years of the rest of your life - make the most of it

find the pleasure in hard work

lose the pleasure in scrolling

creation is essential

joy, love & intelligence are the tenets of life

stagnation isn't inevitable. no person is in a fixed state. you can always change

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Still my favorite painting that ive ever made <33

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how sweet is this 💛

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the little heart feature on instagram stories is like a friend to me. love to click it on almost every story i watch. i’m glad you’re enjoying your vacation i love u

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For anyone trying to get over someone right now:

It’s possible for you to be happy without him because you were happy before him

Think about all the people you’ve felt this way about in the past and how little you care about them now

People make time for what they want to make time for and you don’t deserve anything less than first place

Remember when you had to convince yourself he was good enough for you?

Think about all the things you loved about him and ask yourself if you could be just as happy doing those same things with someone else (someone better)

Shift your energy to something else- everytime you start thinking about him open a book or start a yoga class or cook

Just because it was comfortable doesn’t mean it was meant to be

Write down all the things you hated about him- literally every little thing that annoyed you. Then burn it along with any pictures of him you have

Write down all the things you think he’s going to miss about you. Keep that list somewhere you’ll see it everyday

Finally- If he wanted to, he would have. And there’s someone out there who will.

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Cameron Hammond

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*blows a kiss to myself in the mirror* you’re gonna do better in 2021

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what if we kissed. under the saturn and jupiter conjunction

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thinking about the quote “life is short. art is long” and how tragic it is that art lasts forever, but we don’t; how there will always be more books unread than read, more music unheard than heard, more paintings unseen than seen, and when i die, there will be countless more that i will never even have the opportunity to love and cry over and feel, because it certainly seems that there is more worth feeling in the world than time to feel it.

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Sky details in Ivan Aivazovsky’s paintings

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Edward Julius Detmold, Jewels of the deep (1925)

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i swear to god some of yall think racism is just "(some) white people being big meanies :(((" and not a dehumanizing, murderous system that infects quite literally every aspect of our society

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 Song Jia by Leslie Zhang for T Magazine China June 2019

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hey btw if ur transphobic don’t interact with my blog. we support trans people here

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