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oof it's like every 6 months I'm still dying to know what she's doing and what she looks like and this random tik tok girl that looks like her in my memories is NOT helping

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Paolo Sebastian // Haute Couture - Spring 2018

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(throwback) Jongdae //  ko ko bop on one summer night

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since you’ve walked into my sight

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Always Remember:

kissing can and will, get boring.

its ok to go to sleep on opposite sides.

forgetting favorites, dates and replies is only human.

you dont have to like, or be friends with all of their friends and vice-versa.

they have a right to spend weekends dedicating to their friends and family. you have the same right.

privacy is still in play.

trying simple things that they like, no matter how much you are sure you will dislike it, is a very small step you can take to show your love to them.

you dont gotta have the same taste in music, food, books etc.

saying i love you, thank you, take care, please and i missed you really helps.

you cant agree with all their life decisions and they cant with yours. keeping an open mind and having an honest and deep discussion about it helps. 

they dont need your permission to do things and neither you need theirs.

the intention and care behind the gift matters. not its price tag. 

dont try and change them. help them become better versions of themselves and get the same help and support and care from them. 

know what matters most and focus on that.

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Grażyna Smalej (Polish, b. 1976, Chełm, Poland) - 1: Bath XXX, 2010  2: Bath XXIX, 2010  Paintings: Oil on Canvas

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Fritz Zuber-Buhler (Swiss, 1822-1896), “Le premier dejeuner”

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Hussein Bazaza f/w 2017-2018 rtw

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more here

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I'm toxic and manipulative and no one should talk to me ever probably

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no one is allowed to stop paying attention to me ever

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I'm really bad at making new friends considering I'm like 100% sure everyone I care about is going to lose interest in me and I'm super toxic to everyone around me and I care about my friends way more than they care about me

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by spacefrogdesigns

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Look I don't know if you've ever tried to come here to find updates on me because I don't even remember if this was the original url and I doubt you'd remember it anyway but

Just in case you remember me ever and find your way here

I'm sorry I was toxic and codependent

I realize more and more how unhealthy I became and I'm still really sad but I can't like, not pretend like I don't understand how I totally scared you away

I still wish we could have figured it out rather than the way it ended because I still have like, a million questions but whatever

We both could have done things to figure out how to friendship, right?

I hate to think that I might have fucked you up as much as you fucked me up lmao

Sorry

Anyway ive always tacked too much

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