patronsaintofsacrifice

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

rent help needed 😭

my other post got rly big and started stagnating after i paid 2 bills thank u guys for those bills tho but anyway im mixed queer in a lot of pain physically and mentally and i do have a job but im trying to figure out medical leave and disability

i am currently 15 days late on rent and ik next month is gonna be hammering at the door soon but imma worry about this month rent is 300 and i have another phone bill payment due v soon of 94.01

if u can plz boost this dont tag it and throw in a couple dollars im rly trying to keep it together but like man idk what to do i get a job and my insides rebel i have no family to ask help from all of my friends are in similar hard situations or already doing what they. can i just need a lil more help idk

0/394

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

Just read my paperwork and the dentist actually had to remove some bone to get the tooth out so no wonder it hurts. Somehow I survived this without taking a benzo

Anyway, the partial denture is actually going to be $3,000, not 2-2.5 like I thought (probably because I had two more teeth removed). And ofc each of my four teeth that needs a crown is going to cost 2k so altogether that's $11,000 🥲 he's working on the official quote and is going to email it to me

My PayPal is

ace8ball@gmail.com

And my fundraiser is here, and my PayPal links through here

Pls share and check my fundraiser for proof, it's all there. I can't eat any solids until I get the partial denture and the longer I wait the more expensive and painful all this gets

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

I think this era of "transandrophobia"posting has made people's perception of what transmisogyny is shift. Transmisogyny is not just "transphobia against trans women", it's "the intersection of transphobia and misogyny as experienced by trans women". I see people separate misogyny and transmisogyny pretty often as if they're separate, but they're really, really not. If you know stuff about feminism, you notice many of the same misogynistic tropes and ideas used against cis women being used against trans women, because transmisogyny is misogyny

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

Solidarity Summer is well and truly ramping up. AS IT FUCKING SHOULD.

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

i died again on the way to the kitchen this morning and had to step over my prone body to wait for the kettle to boil. stared at myself on the floor and thought to myself that i looked like i was sleeping.

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

I wish i could lie on ppl n purr n make them feel better

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

If I have any Tumblr clout left I'd like to use it to say do not give this site your real actual money that u slaved away in a capitalist hellscape for like please be so serious. Checkmark and crabs or ad free scrolling were never worth it, never will be worth it and have been a literal waste of your money from the beginning. Plus, the negative social feedback on here from it all is enough to just not do it tbh. We are pointing and laughing at you. That is a promise

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

OMG GRINDR UNIONIZING TOO????????

(link to bypass paywall)

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

So exhausted and i work at 930 tomorrow and i cant sleep??? No pick 2

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

Feeling v foolish for joking about burning out hy working 3 jobs n now being....so exhausted

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

📸: Matt Bishop

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

can we talk about the ups strike can we PLEASE talk about the ups strike

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

been watching more tiktoks from this twink and honestly this is one of the most interesting academic discussions i've seen in a while

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

BETTER FIND ANOTHER SUPERSTITION!

playing around with some new designs!

i'm gonna be making stickers of this for june's ouija board mail on my patreon — patrons can vote here on which version is their favorite for the sticker! i'll also be making buttons of this design at some point.

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

rent help needed 😭

my other post got rly big and started stagnating after i paid 2 bills thank u guys for those bills tho but anyway im mixed queer in a lot of pain physically and mentally and i do have a job but im trying to figure out medical leave and disability

i am currently 15 days late on rent and ik next month is gonna be hammering at the door soon but imma worry about this month rent is 300 and i have another phone bill payment due v soon of 94.01

if u can plz boost this dont tag it and throw in a couple dollars im rly trying to keep it together but like man idk what to do i get a job and my insides rebel i have no family to ask help from all of my friends are in similar hard situations or already doing what they. can i just need a lil more help idk

0/394

[patronsaintofsacrifice]

you know what. i've always been hesitant to describe my anaphylactic food allergies as a disability because "it's just allergies" but if you look at the numerous ways this has affected my life as an adult (because everybody only talks about kids having anaphylactic allergies):

no restaurants or fast food

no store-bought food from small companies (less accountability/resources to prevent cross-contamination)

no candy or desserts (unless they are 100% homemade, which takes a lot of time and energy if you have other disabilities like i do)

no hand-washing dishes (every place i live in has to have a well-functioning dishwasher)

no kissing people on the mouth/lower half of the face

other people cannot kiss me/put their mouth on me

no allergens in the house (really difficult to enforce with non- immediate family members!!)

always having to cook my own meals/bake my own treats/desserts

no sharing drinks/food with other people

no food cooked in other people's houses/kitchens

always having to bring my own "lunchbox" to family events, work or school, all-day events, or any other situation in which i could THEORETICALLY need to eat or drink something other than bottled water

calling food manufacturers to verify label information on new/changed foods

and none of this is counting the avoidance behaviors i developed with obsessive-compulsive disorder around age 13 in response to the panic attacks i'd have remembering about the anaphylactic shock i experienced at age 10.

i was taught to read labels at age 5. i was taught how to use my own epi-pen at age 6. my parents and i have always been careful and responsible about my allergies. it's not "i just don't like this food", it's "if i eat this my throat will swell up and block my trachea AND i'll go into shock from low blood pressure." as inconvenient as it might be for YOU, you can learn these things too and save a life. happy disability pride month; stop being a dickhead

i don't usually talk about my allergies because it gives me a LOT of anxiety but i felt this was important to share, because most people have no idea what being an adult with allergies is like. life went from "everyone at the birthday party gets a cupcake but me and i'm sad" to to "if i want to kiss someone i like, i have to make sure she hasn't eaten anything i'm allergic to in the past few days" (which is like. hugely awkward to ask of someone holy shit) or "i have to turn down the meal from my friend's mom even though she has the best of intentions and now she thinks i'm an asshole"