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Even Horde Prime knew

even horde prime knew

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aDoRa dOesn'T wAnT mE

N O T  L I K E  I  W A N T  H E R .

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not a dream

I keep reading horrible, fake stories about Naya Rivera’s ex husband (YOU CAN LITERALLY GOOGLE THEIR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE POSTING LIES AND FACT CHECK, BUT OKAY) Ryan Dorsey on Twitter and I just want to clarify some stuff (and I say this as a fan of neither one of them):

He was never, EVER, EVER, EVER accused of abusing her. Never. There was no investigation against him, no rumors. No bad rumors about him came out ever, in general. She was accused of assaulting him, and he dropped the charges against her in the end. Saying she was a victim of domestic abuse in their marriage is simply backed by no evidence and is a false narrative to shift the blame on him because people want to be the first to discover the “truth” about what has happened to her, no matter if it’s actually true or not. It’s weird. 

They divorced amicably and finalized their divorce in 2018. They shared custody of their son and nothing suggest they had a bad relationship. Her family follows him on social media. They seemed to have made their relations work for their son, or maybe they divorced on friendly terms. People can do that, you know.

No outlets ever reported that he rented the boat with her and was there. I don’t even know where people got that information from, but no officials have ever said that. I’d like to see some sources if you’re saying stuff like that first. I checked everywhere, and I can’t find a peep about it. Their son was found alone on the boat, wearing a life jacket and he said that it was just the two of them and that Naya jumped into the water and never resurfaced back up. I’m pretty sure the people she rented the boat from can also confirm whether she was with anyone else, other than her child, so stop spreading unconfirmed information apparently and allegedly coming from a singular British tabloid.

He was never accused of having cp found on his computer, that was another ex of hers, and that situation should not be brought back right now. She had long broken up with that other guy by the time his case happened, and he was with someone else when his crimes were discovered. Ryan Dorsey is not every single ex of Naya’s, he’s one person and other people’s crimes should not be attributed to him.

He’s not “suspiciously staying quiet on social media”. The guy barely posts as is. This is real life for him, while this just might be a celebrity case for you. He does not owe you anything. He’s likely comforting their son at this moment and being comforted himself and he should not be expected to tweet anything to satisfy people’s morbid curiosity. What do you want him to do? Tweet #FINDNAYA so you could decide he’s not suspicious? I’m pretty sure even if he did tweet something, people would find ways to twist it and find faults in what he has said.

Commenting under articles and tweets about her disappearance saying the police should find her ex husband as well is tasteless, too. He is not missing. She is. You don’t know where he is, but to immediately point fingers at him and assume the worst is also weird. TV shows really convinced people they know everything? “But my favorite show said that the ex is always the guilty one!” It’s a show. This is somebody’s real life. Have empathy.

This is not Law & Order. You are not detectives. Are you working this case? No? Why are you speculating then?

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The Glee Fandom

Glee Fan: I hate Glee

Glee Fandom: Same

Random Person: I hate Glee

Glee Fandom: Motherfucker

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hollywoodnetflix Just say the magic word. HOLLYWOOD is now streaming.

May 3, 2020

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“a woman makes a decision and suddenly she’s irrational.” 

-Patti LuPone as Avis Amberg (Hollywood, 2020)

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Yes

iconic!

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Reblog if you are in any of these fandoms

Need more blogs to follow!

Umbrella Academy

Doctor Who

Brooklyn 99

Supernatural

Sherlock

Harry Potter/Fantastic Beasts

Anne with an E

Shadowhunters

Parks and Rec

Gilmore Girls

All Time Low

Panic! at the Disco

Fall Out Boy

My Chemical Romance

Merlin

Riverdale

Glee

The Good Place

Sex Education

John Mulaney

Marvel

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T: Why did I say sorry?

L: Because we’re trained to say sorry!

T: We legitimately are!

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Omg this kitty, i swear 🥺🥺🥰🥰🥰🥰

ME! Behind The Scenes: The Story of Benjamin Button

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sex education highlighting the fact that the most likely thing women have in common is sexual assault is truly terrrifying.

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6 girls smashing a car to let out their anger about how the patriarchy has failed them is something that can be so personal

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note to self: read the books you’ve already got you ass

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so you hate a relationship on the show? okay! DO NOT EVER attack the actors because of what happened on a show. Never. Personal life, personal choices, your opinions do not matter. Can you imagine having gotten out of a bad relationship where you were abused and hit and then getting to a good point in your life and making choices that make you happier and having people hating you because of them? We need to learn how to separate actors from their characters. Melissa is not Kara and Chris is not Mon-el. You have all the right to not be a fan of ‘Karamel’ or ‘Supercorp’ but you do not have the right to attack their lives and insult their relationship and marriage. While we are on that topic let’s talk about how shipping actors in real life are disgusting. Brings me back to the point where we need to learn how to separate actors from their characters. So many celebrities have said this, again and again, it makes them uncomfortable when you start shipping the co-workers- the real people playing the character you love. Shipping and wanting characters to become a couple is very acceptable but we do not need to attack the writers/actors and threaten them on social media because of what is not happening on the show. Katie and Melissa are real people, who have their own lives and have all the right in the world to pursue who they want. Have some self-respect and leave actors/celebrities alone.

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2020 will be a good year

Cause it's two natural 20s and that means whatever you'll do, you'll do with success

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Yes

We need to appreciate Chyler Leigh more

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Shit.

YOU KNOW WHAT I JUST REALIZED THATS BEEN MESSING WITH ME

“We made it feel like it was all his fault”

“I keep looking into the future when this has all been resolved. As if it doesn’t matter how you feel in the present”

“We made it feel like it was his fault”

“We made it feel like it was his fault”