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SheToBe with business seat in Germany and The Philippines , with business scope

. Hotel Management

. Operating Social and Lifestyle Centers

. Coaching family communication affairs

. Food and Beverage Serving

. Tour guide activities

is a Dutch initiative with attempt to boost harmony between family members.

SheToBe is a member of T4C, as of retired professionals, is a group of ' hands on ' thinkers. With aims to reduce growing poverty and social intolerances related we are creating sustainable social projects.. creating as much decent paid jobs and business opportunities for those without support of life aid organizations have no right to exist.

T4C is franchise owner of SheToBe ++++ Hotel. The owners of Villa Hotels, being dedicated hosts as well are franchise partners with next to facilitating accommodation also provide tour guide services for the guests.

SheToBe ++++ Hotel aims to reduce the number of divorces with woman and children left behind in poverty. We believe that the inbalance of power between man and woman, lacking discipline and wrong perception are major elements of the downfall of a marriage. By implementing this concept and by guiding married couples we believe to set a positive change into sustainable marriages.

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How is Eve ?

" Exploring men's desire to love the Female Authority "

1. Background

Many of us have become entangled in questions related to "what connects us to this earth and what distinguishes me from others to what gives satisfaction to an otherwise immoral existence."

2. Examples

The exercise of power over another, the use of another for own gain seems to be wanted.

' From Adam who keeps Eve under control, from the spiritual leader who dries his followers to keep the attention to heads of state who sow divisions and violent conflicts to hinder protesting groups in their growth and the profits from arms trade. to secure '.

I only mention a few examples to illustrate my post.

3. Crimes against humanity

Recent history mentions a number of horrific examples of institutional crimes against humanity.

'Abduction, trafficking in persons and violent repression of the black race, deportation and poisoning of the Jewish race in specially equipped gas chambers, the nonsensical and unrestrained nucleare attack on cities of the Japanese race' are just a few examples from a long series of out of control power games that are necessary to satisfy our miserable existence.

4. But how ' Eve ' ?

However much I have been concerned about the fate that affected the aforementioned groups, the world has risen and the groups can defend themselves.

'The Jewish state enjoys full protection from Washington, we all drive a Japanese Toyota and use the Korean Samsung to report the woman with message of traffic delay and nobody associates the current German with the former mustachioed leader '.

I quote Eva in the title of this post. How is it actually with her? Eve is spiritually manipulated, limited by family and partner in her freedom of movement and possibilities of existence and abused by employers and elite of societies.

5. Eva still pays for the crime committed by her in 'The Garden of Eden'.

'Humanity has been punished with the introduction of' Shame 'for Eva's desire to pick a forbidden apple and share it with Adam'.

The fear that the present-day Eva is offering forbidden fruit is a motive for obstructing her in her independent freedom of movement. The power then exercised often appears to result in perversions far beyond the border of the woman's physical and mental possibilities.

Justification for imposed restrictions, humiliations and abuse (in and out of the family) is often found by referring indirectly to the "apple crime" and instructions found to Eva who puts herself in a position that invites others to abuse.

6. But Adam.

Have you forgotten that everyone has the right to be forgotten for ground crimes (if the punishment is met). That everyone has the right to build a new life with a clean slate? Have you forgotten that the art of forgiveness is the ultimate answer to the problems that come over you by constantly blaming Eve?

Do you not really understand that your distrust and fear are blocking a lasting existence and that you are therefore the victim of your own trap and the woman and descendants are dragging along in the misery?

7. Submission is the key Adam.

If you want to give existence a pleasant and meaningful meaning then it is necessary that you put aside the 'apple incident'. That you start trusting Eve again and that you learn that exercising your power over your unhappy fears and desires offers the greatest satisfaction for both of you.

The result is that the great and strong Adam bows to the commitment and creativity of Eve, with the result that Eva respects you and offers you safety and passion.

8. A dominant woman once told me that she is enjoying her submissive husband intensely.

She felt very appreciated and also heavily motivated in the knowledge that her very strong husband can take all the freedom, that he can fully but he consciously chose to take position at her feet and that he left all the space to pull the power game towards her.

The husband told me 'I have never felt so safe, I have never found myself as valued as in this relationship between man and woman '

"You could say that he is offering her the tree and she is sharing the growing apples with him."

What a contrast with you Adam " You take possession of the tree and poisons the apple "

The person who gives power to the 'weaker' gets the meaningful existence because it is granted to him or her.

He who takes possession and abuses the other person, lands in dark waters. The porch of hell?

By peter@milady

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Lifestyle Coaching

Contract with God/The `Maintenance of our Planet` contract with Allah.

Most of the Muslims are suffering in life.The life is hard, are living in poverty and they don`t take it easy.The Muslim strongly believes that by reaching Allah His Paradise, all sufferings will be ended.

Thus good Muslims delivers prayers 5 times a day, are desired to go to holy Mecca, follow rituals and practices of Islam in daily practices.

Which all are basic and consider the importance of the activities.How ever a major key point is missing in the daily activities, the execution of the `maintenance of planet` contract with Allah, the key to get on the road to Paradise.

The `maintenance of planet` contract is between Allah as the Landlord of the planet and the human child as the Main User of His planet.This relation with Allah and our contracts with Allah are the basics of the Islam.The by and on behalf of Muhammad written rules are to be understood as a user of the planet.

It is the `maintenance of planet` contract with Allah, our Landlord, in which human child is appointed as the General Manager of the planet in good living and growing on it.In return for doing that properly, Allah allows human child to catch and share - both in limited proportions- certain kind of animals, fishes, vegetables, fruit and water for feeding purposes.

In conclusion.Assuming that you do everything in your life, that is, the Almighty God, Allah.

Amin!

A lot of tasks are simple to execute and don't require deep study of the rules of prophet Muhammad.Just use your eyes and common senses and do it!A simple task for which the lectures of prophet Muhammad are not needed to drop your trash in a bag or trash bar, am I right?

Nowadays, time spendings on studying prophet Muhammad, seeking conflicts because of rules, setting up different standards in life, increases.However, there is not enough time and energy.

And this is my deep concern.For example I highlight here after a short notice, one of the problems in Indonesia, at least on the island of Lombok, where I am living.

In Indonesia you can find everywhere the results of lacking `trash management`, the habbits or locals- Muslims included- to throw all trashes in the street, to polute Allah`s heaven by burning non organic trashes.The photo I attached to this post tells all, further explanation is not needed, I think.

It is a crystal clear example of people studying the rules of Islam without paying respect to the essence and aim of the Islam.In this sentence, it is not in the interest of Allah to study prophet Muhammad, without working out the `maintenance of planet` contract in daily practice.

Execution is the main interest of Allah and no more and no less.Do more and don't hesitate or point at weaknes or other people, just do it.

With all my deep respect to the life and wisdom of prophet Muhammad.Our prophet get too much attention in daily practice but Allah our God and contract holder get too less benefits for what we take daily from Him.'Ora et la Bora', Pray AND work.

Maintenance of planet, caring all of what is living and growing on it - including other human beings - not believing the way Muslims do - is the key to get on the road to Allah`s Paradise.

In addition, Muhammad, the daily life and words of prophet, are important conditions, as the journey to Paradise requires Muhammad.

By doing all of this properly, the way to Paradise is open.

As a consequence of the `maintenance of planet` contract with Allah in daily practice, beautifull Indonesia get more face, more glance, less smelly and more atractive for` spending money` tourists.

That is a nice bonus to the `maintenance of planet` contract with Allah, is it?

Peter Johannes

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My dear Kevin

I love you so much that I decided to write you a letter. A letter you can read later on in life. Every time you are struggling in life, struggling with emotions and decisions to make, in this letter you may find some support.

My dear Kevin. Your father is from the Netherlands. Your mother is from Indonesia. For the time being you are with the family of your mother in Lombok Indonesia, the country where you got born in Puskemas Hospital, Cakranegara Lombok.

Your life is meaningful to me, to our family and to all the people you will ever meet on your path.

You are born Muslim. Allah is your God, Muhammad is your prophet and pray, work, love and care is what you find on your path.

You will grow up in an Era full of violences also because of a clash between religions and fights between people, holding different standards and life styles

It will be a challenge for you to keep your good position, my dear Kevin.

Some of your Muslim brothers get lost. They want to plant in each country around the world the Islam and uses methods such as violence including acts of terror and that is very wrong doing. Your father is educating people and get an indirect life threat from terrorists (ISIS) who like to attack international schools and foreign teachers in Muslim Countries.Too bad my dear Kevin.

Be a good Muslim Kevin. Religion is a personal and a family affair only. You and I don't have the right to use violence against any one living on this planet. You may defend yourself but surely not attack others.

Compare the use of the Quran with the manual of a F1 Racer. Holding a permit to drive a common car is not good enough to steer a strong and powerful Racer. To run this safely and with confidences, a wide range of education and skills are needed to understand the powerful machine, the limitations, the environment and the behavior of people you share the road with. That's a lot more to learn then just the manual. Driving this F1 without deep knowledge and understandings, people and yourself included- may get hurt or killed by false or wrong use of this powerful machine.

The holy Quran is much more powerful. It fulfills your entire life and also guide you on the road you are on. But when wrong doing or low educated people take the Quran by the hand, accidents take place too. It can mislead people and can set people up to undertake wrong actions, such as violence and terror. Some words in the Quran seems not in line with Allah's love. It requires a deeper understanding of what is written and how to interpret in daily practice.

Another holy book, The Bible, presenting the guiding by another prophet, Jesus, is in the same difficulty. It can be proper used, benefitting people and bringing them more close to God, it can be false interpret and bringing societies and people in deep sorrow and war.

Study hard to get the essence of the religion, stay out of battles and always respect the lifes of others as yourself. All lifes are created by God and not one of us is entitled to take a life in the name of God.

In short notice the essence of the religion: `God left the main task to the human kind to protect and maintain properly the by Him created planet and all what is living and growing on it. In return for this task, human kind may catch and share, both in limited proportions, certain animals, fishes, vegetables, fruit and water for food consumption..

By doing that properly and by believing Him, the way to His paradise is open.

Do you see my dear Kevin, we all are entitled to gain His love and to use His land for consumption needs. Not just Muslims and or Christians. They might go to paradise as they believe God but do have on earth the same rights and obligations as others humans.

Nor the Quran or the Bible state different wise, don't let yourself be mis led by religional leaders, family members or friends.

A good Muslim do care the planet and all the people, animals, fishes, trees, birds, vegetables, seeds, all of them with love and understandings.

A good Muslim reach out his helping hand to those in need, regardless their position in the society, the differences in religions and opinions.

A good Muslim is open for dialogue, is not noisy, speaks wisely and is humble.

Live in the spirit of love my dear Kevin and ignore feelings of hate. don't lose your path.

Here comes your first responsibilty as a man. Later in your life you find love feelings, desire to make love.

When you decide to love a woman, when you decide to make love with that woman then you have to stay with her for the rest of your life. The woman will be hurt and scared if you leave her or threat to leave her.

You Kevin have to be a real man, protecting and caring your family ever and with all of your skills and power. When you feel confused, when they shout to you or misunderstand you, remember to read this letter.

Don't ever leave them, keep the love in the center of all what you will do, support them the best you can but go your way as a young man.

Your only way out is the way of Love (Spirit, Passion) Understandings (Education) and Relations (Loyalty). You will need to spend daily time on all of the 3 items I mention here. Its worth the hard working, do it !

My dear Kevin, your father is arround and there for you. Your father is preparing a social project in the kampongs of Lombok.

The program, supported by a building in the kampong, is to help the children with education needs, is also to help the parents with communication in the family and to find solutions for difficulties they deal with and for all music and sport as we need to be happy too.

Life is not always serious, you need to play and enjoy too but my dear Kevin.......remember always where your bed sleep and don`t lose your way in life and love.

My dear Kevin, follow the path of education, select your friends and new family well. Work hard and remain loyal but don`t let yourself be disatracted by family and friends in an environment where people have no confidence in personal developing and education.

Be patience with all of your desires, pray and work good and unexpected good results will come out.

I trust you, you are my son, a team player and a winner. Vaya con Dios (travel with God) my beloved son.

Your loving father,

Peter Johannes