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Day 1: Favorite TS Era · · There is just so much nostalgia entwined with this era, it has to be my favorite! It was released while I was in Heathrow airport, and it accompanied me on my journey home from London (my favorite trip I've been on, ever). I had just started college when Red came out, I was truly finding myself... well starting to. Having first true heartbreaks, seemingly alongside Taylor. But not only romantic heartbreak, but paternal as well. I cried in the middle of the night to The Moment I Knew, thinking about my disappointed hopes. It also helped me heal, and it has a special place in my heart. Always ❤️ · (Idea taken from @_eyes_open13) · #TaylorSwift #TaylorNation #TheErasTour https://www.instagram.com/p/CpgoyPiOstn/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨13 DAYS TO OPENING NIGHT✨ · · #TaylorSwift #TheErasTour #TheErasTourOpeningNight #TaylorNation (at Glendale, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpYXEMCuFUA/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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sweet nothing, taylor swift

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Gonna pretend I’m not jealous Taylor didn’t make a surprise appearance at my The 1975 show in DC 😂😂 This has just heightened my excitement for TOUR!! 💜✨ · · #TaylorSwift #TaylorNation #MidnightsAlbum #ErasTour #The1975 #MattyHealy #AtTheirVeryBestTour https://www.instagram.com/p/CnVQDrgOPhR/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Happy 33rd birthday to my favorite mastermind! 🥳🎉💜 · · Any guesses what she's doing in the studio today?! https://www.instagram.com/p/CmIF7bku1UG/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Taylor’s recent praise of Guillermo del Toro, although genuine, made warning bells go off in my head. I guess this makes sense now. How awesome! ✨ https://www.instagram.com/p/Cl88cwiuhWG/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Lol all I had to do was wait 5 mins and my questions would be answered 😂 https://www.instagram.com/p/CkayqLuuNRX/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Ahhh, something is HAPPENING!! Taylor’s photo on TicketMaster has changed✨ · · Shoutout @_eyes_open13 for bringing this to my attention! · #TaylorSwift #TaylorNation #Midnights #Tour #MidnightsTour #TicketMaster https://www.instagram.com/p/CkawozMOyEK/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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This is going to change, I am sure, but as this has been some-what a tradition, here is my first-day ranking of Midnights! 🌙✨ · · #TaylorSwift #TaylorNation #Midnights #MidnightsRanking #JackAntonoff #LanaDelRey https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj_0zU8Of43/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Look how happy she is!! ✨✨ Dr. Swift has a nice ring to it 💜💜🎓🎓 · · #TaylorSwift #DrSwift #NYUGraduation #2022 #22 (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CdtxZFxuFOu/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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My holy trinity ✨✨ Congrats to Jack!! 💛 - [via: @honeymoon on ig] - #TaylorSwift #LanaDelRey #JackAntonoff #Grammys2022 https://www.instagram.com/p/Cb6VoxoOeGw/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Crying real tears. It’s what I’ve always thought Ronan deserved ❤️❤️

Ronan,

You are unequivocally everywhere, yet you are nowhere. My eyes still wander for you while making my morning coffee as a hummingbird appears outside my window. I still spend my days chasing glimpses of you in the grocery store as a little boy who looks to be about four years old crosses my path. I search for you in the eyes of Quinn, the stoicism of Liam, and the mischievous giggles from Poppy. I desperately beg for you to make an appearance in my dreams, but you never do. Instead, I find myself having the most vivid dreams about things like freeing the Orcas at SeaWorld, your old Oncologists, and situations in my life that feel very unresolved or out of control. My dreams are never about you, and I still don’t understand why when you are constantly on my mind. Last night I went to bed thinking about a phone call I received earlier in the day and the email that followed. Because the email was on my mind as I drifted off to sleep, I spent most of the night dreaming about our friend, Taylor Swift. I woke up the following day in disbelief at the reality of what had occurred the day before.

“A number I don’t recognize called my phone and left me a voicemail. From somebody named Tree. I don’t have any idea who that is.” I looked up at Mr. Sparkly Eyes, and yes, his eyes still sparkle. “My darling, call the number back.” This came from the man who answers every phone call from every unknown number that rings him up. “Ok. Maybe. I’ll call back in a bit; I’m going to look through my emails first to see if I was supposed to talk to someone that I have forgotten about.” He kissed the top of my head as I got up to get to the appointment I was running late for. I did a quick search in my emails, but nothing came up from anyone named Tree. Maybe it was a newly bereaved mom I was supposed to speak to? I’ve been doing a bit of that here and there for Dr. Jo, and a couple of them I hadn’t heard back from. I decided to call back the number from my car, and a woman’s voice answered the phone.

“Hi Tree, it’s Maya Thompson returning your call.”

“Maya! I’m so happy to hear from you; I wasn’t sure if this was still your number.”

My internal dialogue was running wild. Shit! This person knows me, yet I can’t place her. I decided to give it another few seconds to see if I could figure it out.

“It’s still my number; how are things?”

“Great! Taylor has an email she wants to send you, but before she sends it, I need to make sure your email address is still the same.”

Taylor. OMG. It’s Tree. As in Taylor’s everything, Tree. That Tree! I tried to keep my composure as if Taylor contacting me was a daily occurrence. We spoke for a few more minutes as she confirmed my email address, and we said goodbye.

I pulled my car over and called my everything, my New York City, Little Rachel. She picked up, which I was so thankful for because it was the middle of the day, and I knew she was more than likely having sessions with her patients.

“Taylor’s sending me an email,” I blurted out as soon as she picked up. “What?” She squealed with excitement. “What is happening over there?” I told her the back story, and we went over the endless possibilities of what the email could potentially say. I continued refreshing my emails, but nothing new had come through. We chatted giddily for a few more minutes and I promised to call her as soon as I heard anything. I somehow made it to my destination safely, and as I pulled in, I checked my email.

Taylor’s email was there, but I won’t be sharing her entire email publicly. She is and will always be one of the things I hold dearest to my heart, and her beautiful words will remain private. I skimmed the email. Tears sprang to my eyes. I went back and read her words again, slowly this time as I tried to comprehend what I was reading.

Let’s back up for a bit. In 2019 when it became public knowledge that Taylor was being screwed over in the worst way possible by Scott Borchetta of Big Machine Records and the disgusting Scooter Braun who must be from the pits of hell. I watched from afar as her life’s work, her blood, sweat, and tears, were stolen from her by vile men because, at the end of the day, when you have an unscrupulous soul, greed is the ultimate decision-maker. You can read Taylor’s public letter below as the cliff notes to the unraveling of the painful betrayal.

I remember reading Taylor’s words and how nauseous I felt after. I had so many sleepless nights during the next few months. I worried about Taylor’s heart. I wondered what would happen to you. You are my life’s work. You are my blood, sweat, and tears, and now somebody other than Taylor “owned” you. I vented on my social media accounts about the unfairness of it all, not knowing if anyone was listening to what I was saying. There started to be chatter on the internet of Taylor re-recording all her old albums so she could own her OWN music again, which was such a bloody smart move. Taylor soon confirmed she was going to do so. I felt so proud of her upon hearing this news, and I let the happiness of that carry me through my grief of letting our song, ‘Ronan,’ belong to people who didn’t deserve it. ‘Ronan’ was always going to be a charity single, never attached to an album of hers. In my mind, there was no way she was going to re-record it, and I understood why. Knowing that Taylor had taken the most horrific situation and had found a way to get her art back made my wounds hurt less. I was just thankful she had done the most incredible thing for us in the first place. That was more than enough. It was always going to be more than enough, and I had let go of wishing it could be any other way.

Now back to a part of her email that I received.

“I’ve recently completed the re-recording of my 4th album, Red. It’s really exceeded my expectations in so many ways, and one of those ways is that I thought it would be appropriate to add ‘Ronan’ to this album. Red was an album of heartbreak and healing, of rage and rawness, of tragedy and trauma, and of the loss of an imagined future alongside someone. I wrote Ronan while I was making Red and discovered your story as you so honestly and devastatingly told it. My genuine hope is that you’ll agree with me that this song should be included on this album. As my co-writer and the rightful owner of this story in its entirety, your opinion and approval of this idea really matters to me, and I’ll honor your wishes here.”

It took me an hour to absorb the words in front of me. I shared the news with your brothers, Poppy, your daddy, Mr. Sparkly eyes, and a couple of my dearest friends. I cried while sharing the news. I called Tree back and spoke to her for a few minutes about what had just occurred. I told her of course, Taylor had my permission to put ‘Ronan’ on Red. I tried my best to articulate how much this meant to me through my tears, but there are not enough words in the English language that will ever be able to appropriately convey my feelings about this. Taylor has anchored you to this world so you will never be lost, and now she has ensured you will forever be safe in a new, permeant home. She is once again going to give a voice to the often voiceless, the bereaved parents of the world.

“Red (Taylor’s version)” will be out November 19th and on that album, there will be you. It is the most perfect album for you to be on as it represents so much heartbreak, love, and pain.

I have so much more I want to talk about and so much more I want to write about, but I’m under a book writing deadline that I need to get back to.

I miss you. I love you. I hope you are safe.

Taylor,

I love you.

My words of thank you will never be enough. Thank you for keeping Ronan safe. Thank you for never forgetting him. Thank you for breaking rules and breaking free. Thank you for that heart of yours that is made of pure gold. You are a constant source of inspiration to me in so many areas of my life, and there is nobody in the world I would rather have Ronan with than you. I’m going to write to you separate of this but for now, thank you.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY FIRST EVER SWIFTIE BFF, CHRISTINA! 💖✨ You are the fiestiest, strongest, most caring, and kind woman I know. Just think, this time next year you're going to be a kickass lawyer! You deserve every good thing, and I hope you have the best day! 🥳🎉💜 - Love you to the 🌙 and to 🪐 · · #Birthday #HappyBirthday #SwiftieBFF #TaylorSwift #TaylorNation #Swiftie #Taylurking https://www.instagram.com/p/CFckyzsHIGV/?igshid=1ln01t9ansdjw

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY FIRST EVER SWIFTIE BFF! 💖✨ You are the fiestiest, strongest, most caring, and kind woman I know. Just think, this time next year you're going to be a kickass lawyer! You deserve every good thing, and I hope you have the best day! 🥳🎉💜 - Love you to the 🌙 and to 🪐 · · #Birthday #HappyBirthday #SwiftieBFF #TaylorSwift #TaylorNation #Swiftie #Taylurking https://www.instagram.com/p/CFckyzsHIGV/?igshid=1p1h2pp35kkyb

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SHE LOOKS SO GOOD AHHH 😍😍✨ · · #TaylorSwift #folklore #betty #ACMs #folkloreAlbum ##Taylurking #Queen #GainPost https://www.instagram.com/p/CFOAwKtH8cp/?igshid=p2sg2hqordyq

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This is hilarious to me 😂 We're ready for Yee-Haw Taylor tonight! · · #TaylorSwift #folklore #betty #ACMs #folkloreAlbum ##Taylurking #Queen #GainPost (at ACM Awards) https://www.instagram.com/p/CFNBozQnXLk/?igshid=1s3zdnc2mq538