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Well then…damn. Hits harder than I thought it would.. true words.

“You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them… But still move on without them.”

— Mandy Hale

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Moood

*drags self and flops into space.*

Hey Noa. Ori here..still..alive..

Ithink.Idon’tknow..adultinghard.

Just wanted to pop in.. hi.

Hiiiiiiii!!!!! Adulting is hard. 0/5 stars

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“I don’t want to be a sweetheart. I want to be the fucking love of your life.”

— Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

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folk hero really

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Finally someone FINALLY said it! Thank you!

not to sound like a boomer, but I need some people to learn how to write emails in a semi-professional (at the very least) format so you're not cold emailing a business/potential employer/any other stranger about formal matters in the exact same way you'd DM a close friend on instagram

the formality/language can loosen up in the email chain once you've established a rapport and you match the other person if they're being less formal, but please don't have the very first email you send a stranger be written in all lowercase ultra-casual sms slang with no greeting or signature and a billion emojis

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Let’s give them hell

Feelings tonight

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The fact that you can’t raise taxes on billionaires even slightly without them pouring money into fascist political movements is, of itself, evidence that billionaires as a class shouldn’t be allowed to exist in the first place.

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Neither “the magic is going away” nor “the magic is just beginning” but “the magic has been around for fifty years and society has only partly adjusted”

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Gotta love this Golden Retriever™️ Energy character. Just saying! Excellent doodle @honeycombstrudel !!!

Doodle of Alistair that I ended up liking + cleaning up hehe :)

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Some day I’ll visit NYC and experience the magic of this!

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I don't know if this has already been done, but what about prompts for non-verbal ways of saying "I care about you" but not necessarily "I love you" (random examples: fixing someones tie, ruffling their hair, ecc)?

Hi :)

I have a list here for love language. It’s more about showing “I love you” but a few of them could be used for just caring as well.

And here are some more ideas:

Love Language - Showing you care

fixing someone’s tie

ruffling their hair

making an effort to spend time together

smiling at them from across the room

encouraging them to talk in a bigger group

making and bringing them food

asking them how their day was

giving them a random hug

showing them things that reminded them of them

fixing their jacket collar or hood

clapping them on the shoulder

keeping promises

asking them about things they enjoy talking about

watching movies and shows together

offering to help with chores

remembering things they told them

Hope you enjoy them and have a nice day!

- Jana

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Hi! I am stuck in my writing, in the romance scenes..if i could ask for your help, could you give me some examples for showing, not telling love in an already existing relationship?

Hi :)

Love Language - Showing, not telling love

smiling at each other without reason

listening to each other rant

caring about each other’s health

lots of innocent and not so innocent touches

writing each other notes

giving small gifts without special occasion

making sure to spend quality time together

showing interest in each other’s interests

supporting each other

caring about each others’ lives outside of the relationship

doing something nice for each other

trying to get to know each other's friends and families

taking their load off of them

remembering things they told them

holding hands in public

telling their friends about them

Have fun!

- Jana

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Hnnn

Casual Affections

Showing that they care.

smiling at each other from across the room

randomly texting a gif or emoji

laying their hand on the other’s leg

kiss to the side of the head

squeezing the other’s shoulder

fixing the other’s clothes

guiding them with a hand on the small of their back

embracing them from behind

ruffling their hair

placing their chin on the other’s shoulder

calling them nicknames

winking at them

teasing each other good-naturedly

putting an arm around the other’s shoulder

washing the other's hair

taking a photo of them smiling or in their element

looking in each other's eyes

putting a blanket on them

tugging at the other's clothes to keep them close

making them food they like

laughing at their jokes

placing a hand on the back of the other’s neck

brushing strands of hair away

patting their head

sharing an umbrella

bumping shoulders into each other

randomly face-timing just to hear their voice/see their face

pressing their foreheads together

nudging them to show they are right beside them

laying their head on the other’s shoulder

Love Language Part I | Part II

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“The cost of not following your heart is spending the rest of your life wishing you had.”

— Unknown

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Its actually yummy

do we fuck with the Spoke (sprite and coke)

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“Sometimes you need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they’ll notice and respond. And if they don’t then you’ll know where you stand.”

— Unknown

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Adding my own input here:

To OP:

Darling, I’m so sorry that everything is so scary. I’m sorry that you are scared of everything..I promise that there are beautiful things that outshine the scary. It’s scary because it’s the unknown- it’s outside of your comfort zone.

sometimes i’m like “what am i so scared of?” and then remember that everything is so scary