oleander-selfships

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"This user is dating Kinito" userbox, requested by anon

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"This user is dating Pim" userbox, requested by anon

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"This user is in love with Kinito the Axolotl" userbox, requested by @monkinlove

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"This user is deeply in love with Nnoitra Gilga" userbox, requested by anon

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"This user loves Raditz from DBZ" userbox, requested by anon

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"This user loves Clover Cookie" userbox, requested by anon

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"This selfshipper is a furry" userbox, requested by anon

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boundaries/dni

a list of boundaries as well as a dni list. this is just to put some ground rules down here for my own comfort so i could curate my experience here. please respect the following boundaries:

do:

spam like or reblog my posts. i actually don't mind that, and it makes me feel kinda saddened or upset when people are rude to those that do that. i don't necessarily understand why people dislike spam likes/reblogs, though if anyone knows and wants to explain it, please do.

send in or spam asks. i don't mind check ins or just in general questions! just please give me time to respond to them as i'm not always in a mood to socialize.

friendly pet names are totally fine to use (ex. bro, buddy, pal,  buddy chum pal friend buddy pal chum bud friend fella bruther amigo pal buddy friend chummy chum chum pal /ref)

block certain tags of mine

tag me in things such as tag games or posts you think i'd enjoy

don't:

be rude or mean as a 'joke'. i have a hard time deciphering sarcasm or tones through text, and it's just not funny to do.

automatically make assumptions of what i am or aren't okay with. if i happen to be following someone who's problematic or has had a bad past and clearly hadn't changed, please let me know via an ask so i know to avoid them.

use romantic petnames on me unless you're my partner. thank you.

follow this blog if you're anti-self-ship

dni:

do not interact if you're a minor. i'm an adult who'd rather interact with other adults.

if you're pro cringe culture. just let people have fun.

if you're proship/profiction/comship or whatever label you guys use.

if you're pro lolicon/shoutacon, you guys disgust me

anti lqbtq, fatphobic, alt right, republican, conservatives.

extreme christians. if you're more on the chill side of your faith, we could chill, but i'd rather not deal with the types who are 'god-fearing' or use their religion as an excuse to be an asshole to those who disagree with them.

if you're anti-self-ship as stated above. this ain't the place for you.

will be updated if necessary.

credits: cherry blossom pink dividers - rookthornesartistry, banners found on pinterest

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about me

𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔞𝔪𝔶 ・𝔦𝔱/𝔦𝔱𝔰 ・𝔱𝔞𝔨𝔢𝔫 ・𝔪𝔡𝔫𝔦

my name is dreamy, but i also tend to go by the names sol, silas, sal/sally, brutus, reuben, mori, corpse/cory, peter and belle. i'm a queer, demifluid (masc-neutral leaning), acespec, polyamorous fellow who's currently taken by my beloved partner anakyn! i'm not currently looking for other partners irl, but i'm always open to fictional ones.

i'm neurodiverse, and my mental health can get crazy at times which would lead to me rambling about it or spiraling. any posts about these sorts of things will be tagged accordingly. please be patient with me if you send in any asks, my social battery isn't always fully charged. please do not dm me if we're not close or if we haven't discussed it beforehand. accidental dms could happen, i've done it before but please specify it if that's the case.

i don't tolerate in general rudeness or disrespect. if you're kind to me, i'll be kind to you. if you're an asshole to me, don't expect me to give you kindness. just be friendly here please.

this isn't a multifandom blog!!! this is a self-ship blog!!! if you want to follow a multifandom blog, go follow my main. non-self-shippers can follow me, but please be respectful or else you're getting blocked.

i'm uncomfortable sharing certain f/os and these feelings can change constantly. i've yet to reorganize my f/o list, but i'll put it up once i get it done. The only exception to this rule is my sister as we share similar tastes in f/os.

credits: cherry blossom pink dividers - rookthornesartistry, banners found on pinterest

[oleander-selfships]

𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔞𝔪𝔶 ・𝔦𝔱/𝔦𝔱𝔰 ・𝔱𝔞𝔨𝔢𝔫 ・𝔪𝔡𝔫𝔦

self-ship blog. i've been in the community before but wanted a fresh start on a new blog. i have a tendency to delete blogs and completely start fresh when i get bored of the old one, this was one of those moments.

i'm an adult. i ask that those who are also adults interact with me only. this blog will be mostly sfw with the occasional suggestive joke, so please be 18+ to follow me.

i'm happily taken both by my f/os and irl. you could find my beloved partner anakyn over at @lord-mykel-of-feral-plains. i love them will all my heart, and i couldn't be happier!

i currently don't know how i'll go about tagging my f/os, but i'll be sure to try to come up with something soon in case i share f/os with someone who's uncomfortable sharing certain ones.

status: slow posting

please have an indicator of your age somewhere in your bio/pinned or else you'll be hardblocked.

about me

boundaries/dni

f/o list (wip)

i don't mind anons here. just be kind.

taken emojis:

taken nicknames:

other blogs:

@dreamtrainsworld - main

credits: pink dividers - rookthornesartistry, banners found on pinterest.

personal tags:

💭 dreamy thoughts 💭 - original posts

💤 dreamycore 💤 - posts that remind me of myself

🐺 darlingcore 🐺 - posts that remind me of my boyfriend

🎨 dreamy art 🎨 - my art tag

✏️ dreamy writes ✏️ - my writing tag

🌧️ dreamy vents 🌧️ - vent posts. feel free to block

🔥 sugar and spice 🔥 - suggestive posts. feel free to block

💌 love letters 💌 - ask tag

👾 ask game 👾 - ask game tag

💓 other's ships 💓 - tags for others self-ships

💖 mutual's ships 💖 - tags for my mutuals self-ships

💚 kewpie time 💚 - posts that remind me of my sister/their self-ships

🔁 reblogs 🔁 - reblog tag