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In Paris for a week, if anyone has info on feminist book stores or other spaces, I would be grateful for the knowledge

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Seeing so many more detrans blogs than I did when I started this almost a year ago. I don’t know how to feel

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call for submissions coming soon

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Today was amazing

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So I finally booked the plane tickets for Oregon later this month because they’re the cheapest I’ve seen them for a while and I kinda can’t believe I did that

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People assume that because I’m a queerdo that I know all about straight relationships, I grew up under one, I’ve been around my friends, I’ve seen the movies, but I honestly have no idea what it’s like to be into a guy or what it’s like to have a guy be into me. I don’t have any plans to find out for myself but it does leave me with a lot of questions for my straight female friends, the kind that might be deemed “offensive” if they were turned around and put on me, but I am honestly perplexed. I am unironically just as confused about straight life styles as they are about mine.

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Lgbt_history instagram is such a joke can someone with a spine and a little common sense remake that account

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Can’t lie, it’s pretty disheartening to see grown adults online parade about the murder of a 20 year old. I want to say more but I don’t want to get in trouble

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Anyone going to NYC pride of more specifically dyke march this Saturday?

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I sometimes forget that like, none of y’all know anything about me other than my miserable post transition and detransition ramblings. Kinda sucks. But I refuse to return to tumblr for anything other than this so if you’re detransiton/ed/ing pm me for my instagram, I already follow a few of y’all and it’s cool (0:

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What I would give to know what my voice would have sounded like right now. Sometimes I can’t believe what I’ve done to myself so permanently

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I’m seeing people on here talk about the neurological Proof of transgender being a Real medical condition, and like, I would really like to see those, specifically in regards to brain scans and all of that. If there is neurological proof of transmedicalism being Valid I’m wondering why the DSM5 mentions nothing about it, or like why any medical authority hasn’t described that evidence, unless this evidence is like, super new or something

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Reading my older posts and comparing them to my most recent, I seem to have become a lot more... angry in how I come off? /:

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My dash is pretty dry now but it’s worth it, still have some of my favorite butch bloggers, Dm me if you’re detransitioned/detransitioning/have a history of medical transition/was someone who’s soul was being crushed in queer politics etc

I’m literally unfollowing everyone who isn’t a detrans or reidentified woman

If you are a woman with a history of medical transition, reach out and I’ll follow

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Out here in Spain right now, I’m at least male passing enough to not have to do the first time meeting double cheek kiss with any guys, fine by me

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I see a lot of lesbians out here jumping off the ledge to try and seem like good people. Look. I’ve never dated a man. I’ve never slept with a man. My social interactions with men are actually pretty limited. I do not date trans women. Am I smug about this? Yes. Almost braggadocious. Does it make people uncomfortable, lesbians included? Obviously. But I’m not a bad person, and never having done those things is actually pretty important to me. This shouldn’t be a shocker. What do y’all really want from me

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I lived as male from the ages of 13-currently. I am detransitioning but it is something only few know, and there has been no social change in regards to my name/pronouns thus far. I was male passing from ages 16-19 but I do not consider myself that passing anymore. As someone who has an brother 6 years older than me who I have lived closely with, I feel like I can confidently say that no matter what you do, no matter how long you’re on hormones, no matter what surgery you get, no matter your name change or how passing you are, you do not know what it is like to exist in this world as a man. You have the right to live however you want, you have the right to even live as a man. But you are not a male, and you do not know what it is like to be one. I was trying to be somewhat sensitive about this opinion, but I cannot fucking lie anymore of the sake of anyone’s feelings.