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Happy birthday, Sable! You don't look a day over... however old you were 23 years ago!

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it's not useful to think "I should've transitioned X years ago, when there was still time before all Y happened", is it

fuck no. hell no. that is the fucking devil talking. you had to do everything you did to arrive at this moment. start your transition, move forward, don't look back. i love you and there is always still time -- and not just time, but enough time to be worth it. i promise. i promise on the beat of my fucking heart. you are exactly on time. welcome. we are so, so glad you made it. i love you.

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miss kirisame

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cis people be like. i would rather my loved one die than transition and be happy because it would be easier on me, the most important person in this situation, the cis person

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Ok, good. You're using her pronouns, and you're doing it consistently. That's... better.

But are you using her adjectives? Her nouns? Do you call her girl, woman, lady, wife, mom, girlfriend, and everything else when it's appropriate? Are you giving her her appropriate context when you're talking to her and about her, or are you just carefully gender neutralizing everything else so that those pronouns stand the fuck out like mad when they happen and make everyone including her feel like you're emphasizing stuff weird?

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girl

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Coordinated outfit

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thos video is killinh me

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Erm. Uhhhmmm (*´_ゝ｀) hi

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comm

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girl are you a medieval executioner bc you are torturing me with your rack

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you gotta french kiss her navel

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"estrogen didn't fix me, what now?" put on weight

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fat round tummies

do we agree?

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im so sorry they made you cut your hair. i love you.