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lil kandi ravers

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I just need money for tattos, raves and a trip around the world.

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terrifying your own child into submission makes you an abuser.

watching your child cry and screaming at them to stop and invalidating their pain and reasons for crying makes you an abuser.

staring at your child in disgust and contempt after they displease you makes you an abuser.

threatening to your child to take away their basic resources if they don’t give you exactly what you want makes you an abuser.

forcing your child to feel ashamed for not living up to your ideals makes you an abuser.

using slurs, hateful names and insults on your own child without any regard to what it does to their mental health makes you an abuser.

forcing your child to chase impossible expectations and making them feel like they’re worthless for not achieving them makes you an abuser.

acting like your child is a burden and a waste of space and blaming their illness/disability/depression on it makes you an abuser.

behaving like your child will never amount to anything and isn’t worth any resources and nurturing makes you an abuser.

making your child feel like they’re never good enough makes you an abuser.

if your child’s heart is hurting because they know no matter what they do and how hard they try they will always be a failure in your eyes, you are an abuser.

if your child can’t look at themselves without self hatred because they had to look at themselves from your perspective and all they saw is disgust and hatred, you’re an abuser.

If your child is struggling to believe they have the right to live and to be cared and loved, if they can’t stop hearing your hateful voice putting them down and using their every action to prove they’re worthless, you’re an abuser.

If you watched your child in pain and assured them they deserved it, you’re an abuser.

If your child can’t love themselves from how badly you hated them, you’re an abuser.

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took the new markers out for a spin. yungblud really is that good huh.

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Reasons why I love Yungblud so much:

1. His music if FREASH AF and honestly are bops

2. He mixes punk fashion and music into 21st lifestyle in a way that’s not overly gaudy and try-hard

3. He challenges gender norms like. A. BOSS

4. His music literally describes the inside of my head, the lyrics actually mean something. Songs like “kill somebody” and “California” are like doors into my brain (I SWEAR TO GOD) which makes him so rELATABLE

5. Despite his dark music and messages, he is so DELIGHTFUL

6. Songs like ”machine gun” (just listen to it)

7. He was on a Disney show once??

8. He addresses real problems in music, and doesn’t just dance around the topics

9. His twitter account is a liFELINE

10. He jumps around like a maniac it’s adorable

11. His accent

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Why You Should Be Listening To Yungblud

I’ve def seen a lot of posts like this going around already which warms my heart, so I figured I’d hop in with my own recommendation for Yungblud, AKA Dominic Harrison, AKA The LOML

It’s music with a message. I know that has been getting more popular these days- which is fantastic- but Dominic has such a uniquely blunt, bold way of stating what he thinks in his songs, reminiscent of the spirit of older punk acts. It’s something that’s really hard to find and really inspiring.

If you want really good examples of that, check out his songs Tin Pan Boy (Calling out gentrification), King Charles (A criticism of capitalist culture), Polygraph Eyes (About r*pe culture), and Machine Gun (F*ck The NRA) (self-explanatory)

“…And for me, to not represent anything, you’re not an artist. To not represent something, or talk about something in your music… You’re not an artist, you’re a singer. And I don’t wanna be a fucking singer, I wanna be an artist.”

He’s only 20, and already has such a clear image of his goals and messages and is making such a big impact like!!! Fuck!!

His style is so unique? Dominic has stated before that he’s inspired heavily by both rock music and rap, and that really shows in his style. If you haven’t heard him before, it’s a sort of mix between hip-hop and punk rock, which sounds weird as fuck but works so well, trust me

“I fell in love simultaneously with hip-hop and rock and roll music because I believe they come from the same soul.They represent something that’s more than the music, there’s an attitude, and they say things.”

He’s just,,, such a genuinely nice and open guy. He’s always so genuine and kind with his fans, in a way that goes above and beyond a lot of artists today.

For example, he refuses to do meet and greets, because, quote, “I will never make someone pay to meet me”. Instead, he makes a point of going out before every show and meeting everyone in line.

“I don’t want to tell anybody what to think, because who the fuck am I to tell people what to think? But I just want to encourage people, tell them they’re empowered and they can think and express themselves in a way they think it’s right. All you can ever be is yourself.”

He is completely open about his own mental health- he mentions his severe ADHD often, and his song Kill Somebody is an extremely intimate self-referential piece exploring his self-loathing and anxiety.

He has so much fucking stage energy. It’s insane. 

This includes, but is not limited to:

Jumping around like a maniac for like an hour and a half straight

That one time he completely snapped his ankle in the middle of a show, and then proceeded to finish the show with the broken ankle, and continue with the rest of his tour, half in a wheelchair and half on crutches

Regularly making out with his guitarist (Adam Warrington) in the middle of songs?

He’s just, so unafraid to be himself and say what he thinks, and it’s really such an infectiously positive and great energy

The Sweetest Boy

He has such cool/fun/interesting music videos???

LOVES hugs, so much,

Bright pink socks are a part of his brand

He has the thickest northern accent ever and it’s so great

CONSTANTLY smashing gender norms in the most fun ways possible

Just,,,, Please Listen To Yungblud

He’s doing his best to spread a positive message and do good in the world and deserves so much more attention than he gets

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study playlist

calming musicians to listen to while studying:

- cavetown

-troye sivan 

- the 1975

- the neighborhood 

- declan McKenna 

- arctic monkeys

 - lorde 

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lockscreens made by downtownlocks;

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jungkook stage wallpapers 🎤

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Reblog if u dont have a s/o, never had one.. and never probably will get one either. I mean I cant be the only one right ?

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Everyday

Do you ever stop what ever you’re doing at that moment and think: “I will never be in a relationship and I will always be alone.”

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Death note Jonghyun. It was published with the permission of relatives.😢😭

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2018 favourites ➳ july (male ver.)

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TWICE ‘WHAT IS LOVE?’ x MOVIES

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Why am I always prepared to do anything for a person I care about. Like anything and everything. But when we promise each other something you broke it and I'm here like a fool who believed you. I'm not exactly mad about the movie but we said we're gonna watch it together and I refused so many people because I promised to watch it with you and you didn't even tell me and went to watch it with another friend. For you it's just a movie but for me it's a way of accepting you, because it was hard for me when you told me you were gay and in a joke told me you would never be with me. It hurt me, I didn't showed it but it still hurts everyday. More and more. And when I finally told you, you took me for granted and forgot about it because I was drunk. Yeah I WAS DRUNK. But I meant it. So we never talked about it. And now you're my best friend but I have a feeling I'm loosing you. I love hanging out with you but it honestly hurts so much that I cry for hours when I come home. I'm trying, meeting new people but sometimes I just stop and remember and it breaks my heart again.

Just needed to type this to ease my heart. He will never see this anyway.