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Of course

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We all need to find someone who will make snow for us.....

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I love how this show has seen the characters grow. Ryo has become open and confident about expressing his love and feelings and Haruto has become less confident, shy, and overwhelmed. The con artist cannot believe his luck.....

Haruto had nothing to lose before he met Ryo, he'd already lost it all.....but now, now.....he has so much to lose

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This scene broke me.....

When I leave for work, I’m always worried. That while I’m gone, you might disappear on me. Every single day, every minute, every second, I’m thinking about you, Haruto. I could never…be apart from you.

LOVE IS LIKE A POISON 🍏 Episode 10

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Haven't figured out a politic way to word this but before saying someone/thing "makes you uncomfortable" please ask yourself this important question: is it any of your fucking business

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To myself......

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Perfect ...and been there.....

I have come up with a better metaphor than “you can’t pour from an empty cup” for burnout. You can’t boil an empty kettle. Pouring from an empty cup just gets you nowhere. Trying to boil an empty kettle can ruin the kettle, the stove, and burn down your house if you keep trying it.

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Okay, so just what was that.......

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True.....

They could and they would

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Guys, guys, come on get on the same page.... You need to work together and Ryo the pain Haruto felt when you knocked over the succulent - oh that baby boy.....

So deep breath, a kiss and regroup. Now we fight in earnest.....

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when people put "trigger warning" on their content without specifying what the trigger warning is for

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Nope.

Gotta post more comfort content.

Here's a bunch of my favorite JBL images of all time.

No context.

Not explanation.

Just enjoy.

Deep breath.

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tell me something nice

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you have to love trans women more than you hate transmisogynists. and i mean real trans women, not this abstract symbol you've created just to defend. the real flesh and blood human beings who are messy and complex and imperfect. you have to love them even when they fall outside of your preconceived idea of what a "good" trans woman must be, when they're doing femininity "wrong" or "not enough", when they understand themselves in terms you find unintuitive, when they're rubbing against your understanding of what a woman should and can be. you have to support the trans women in your life and you have to be kind to the ones you meet and you have to respect the ones on the internet. otherwise you're not helping, you're just using them to play hero.

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Now there's a author who can write about wizards . ..

Worlds of Ursula K. Le Guin (2018), dir. Arwen Curry

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Wow....

no idea where i was going with this but i abandoned it at the most disconcerting moment possible