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Whether or not you are trans, girls can have short hair and not like makeup and dresses, and guys can have long hair and wear jewelry and skirts. Such things on their own don't indicate that you are the other gender.

I’m going to tell you something nobody told me:

It is O-fucking-Kay if you think you’re trans except for that one thing

If you think you might be a girl but you like having your hair short, or you don’t like wearing dresses, or you don’t want to wear makeup, that is totally okay

If you think you might be a guy but you like having long hair or you really love skirts or you wear lots of sparkly jewellery, that is totally okay

If you think you might be nonbinary but you really like presenting in a way that aligns with your agab, that is totally okay

If you think you might be trans but you aren’t sure if you want hormones, that is totally okay

If you think you’re trans “except for…” that is totally okay and get this: you don’t have to change that part of yourself to be trans

You can if you want to, but if you don’t, that is totally okay

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Wanting to be X is distinct from actually being X.

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I don't want to be the kind of person who cares a lot about what gender I am.

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reblog if you are your url

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the fun thing about being ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ about your own gender is that you stop feeling technically misgendered and the entirety of the interaction is spent on reassuring the person who is trying their best to figure out your whole *gestures at everything* that you’re not offended

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Why am I way more okay with hairy legs than hairy arms?

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I think I'm bisexual?