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I need this mug

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me: *encounters a slight inconvenience*

me:

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"I may be asexual, but I've certainly been fucked."

— Me, talking about my shitty hand in a card game

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Wow, us guys can be bloody stupid sometimes.

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Oh dear 😂

QUICK HOW DO U UNSEND AN EMAIL

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Yikes

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I was 19, closer to 20, when I found out what Asexuality was, and it took another 3 months to meet anyone else who is Ace. Still in the single figures (IRL, loads online)! To find out that I'm not on my own with this and that loads of other people experience it too was so helpful. It helped to know it can vary too between people and is itself a spectrum. some people have different boundaries - e.g. hugs are great, kissing not so much, sex: fuck no (sorry 😂). Romanticism is it's own spectrum too.

I'm glad I was never in a situation like the one in here. If ever there was the slightest chance on a night out (rare I know, but still) I'd usually try and avoid that person and their friends for the rest of the night!

I genuinely thought I was just weird for years when everyone around me was talking about sex and I felt like I had to play along when I was actually super uncomfortable. I am weird, but not for that reason! 😂

Love and sex are 2 entirely different things, and many people don't realise you can easily have the first without the second.

People say "why do you need labels on everything?" Some people don't but it helps many to find out they aren't alone and there is a community out there. It provides security and validation that so many people want and need in their lives.

Thanks for coming to my TED talk 😂

I originally posted this to my facebook as a response/support to this Twitter thread and was basically my way of properly coming out online, even though I've shared asexuality posts before.

I just found out a friend at my golf club (in his 60's) told my mum that it was "a really brave thing" to post this and that they should be proud. He also talked about how it was written and it honestly means so much and I've been fighting the tears for a while. To feel properly accepted in a place where I have witnessed significant homophobia before has really hit me. ❤

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Regardless of other factors, do you believe asexual people have the right to be part of this community because of their asexual identity?

Yes: 94.2%, 1838 respondents. No: 5.8%, 113 respondents.

Regardless of other factors, do you believe aromantic people have the right to be part of this community because of their aromantic identity?

Yes: 92.2%, 1771 respondents No: 7.8%, 149 respondents

Meaning of the letter “A” when appearing in LGBT[…]+ acronyms:

Asexual: 95.4% of respondents, 1936 total

Aromantic: 80.7% of respondents, 1639 total

Agender: 66.7% of respondents, 1353 total

Ally: 13.9% of respondents, 282 total.

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Me anytime a sex scene takes place in a show/movie: This is literally the most unnecessary thing can we not

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I just recently came out to a friend and I was able to use will from stranger things to sorta start the conversation and explain, REPRESENTATION IS IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There’s so often fandom bs it’s things like this that keep me hopeful, thank you for sharing!

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Moving in with my (also ace) girlfriend next week as well as 2 other friends and we have our own rooms. I am honestly so excited cos living with her sounds perfect but the thought of sharing a room scares the crap out of me. Things may change but atm it just seems perfect for us.

If I ever end up moving in with someone I’m in a relationship with, I want us to have separate bedrooms. I need us to have our own rooms. This doesn’t mean we won’t sleep together, it means we will get to have our own space when we need/want it. Not just for if we’re fighting, but just because people need space sometimes.

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This blog is unapologetically pro sex-workers

No matter whether they stroll or strip, do camwork or full service

Their voices are the ones I listen to on the subject

Anyone who has a problem with that, please find the unfollow button

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