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Composition practice with taxduo

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best m/f dynamic is a flamboyant bisexual show-off desperately in love with an extremely practical girl who’s difficult to impress 🤩

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what if i made a blog for like. lifesteal uu rarepairs. and people to share them. do we like that idea. do we fw rarepair/crackship civilization

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shoutout to everyone with a flat affect. especially those on the schizophrenia or autism spectrums. or both if youre nasty.

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The schedule. That has remained unchanged for years. Has suddenly and unexpectedly changed in several different ways that all ruin our perfectly laid plans we've been working on for months and there's nothing we can do about it.

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“no one’s ever mad at me unless they tell me so” is the best assumption i’ve ever made

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sooo youtube wants to enact id verification in the us but it will still show me ads for mobile games where a woman literally rubs her tits in a guy’s face? okay

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people who are saying that the villies are Shiny Duo And Twink truly have a different worldview to me. i don’t ship gempearl but i DO ship grigem and to me it’s like grian trying to get gem a win and enlisting pearl to help. but ughhhh nobody sees my visions everyone is soo ddvau pilled scarian pilled token yuri pilled nobody actually wants to watch what’s going on they want to watch ClichéWorld where everyone they see fits into ao3 tags. SIGH im generalising but some of y’all are not watching the same show as me at all…

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i've been getting. idk. genuinely pissed off when people don't separate the teams from one life series to another. yes, i KNOW the ccs reference them or constantly bring them up. but sometimes i want to live in a world where the complex shit that is limited life's family dynamic Thing isn't putting pressure on what I want to write or ship or do art of. Idgaf if canonically in ONE series scar and bdubs are brothers, if etho is their father. I don't care. If I want them to kiss in THIS series, let me! There is no REAL reason to bring these dynamics that have no real bearing on Any lore laid down by the ccs and what the fandom tends to agree with. (Because unfortunately fandom has its own lore and sometimes i hate that too. xoxo) it just gets me heated when i have someone telling me "oh but scar and bdubs are brothers in the life series"! no they're brothers in limited life and in comments made by them during a bit.

thanks for reading. i had to get this ofd of my chest <3

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“Masculinity is always rewarded in girls/vagina holders”

I wanna tell you all about my mom. I know this is a sentence used against transmascs, and im a transman, so I wanna use my voice to tell you about my mom.

My mom is a cis woman, a gender nonconforming woman. (I had to teach her gnc recently actually, because she couldn’t find a term that she felt accurate.)

My mom has always hung out with mostly guys, she can fix cars, we half-joke (because its true) that every time she breaks up with a man they steal her toolbox (they do). We’re going to negate her current relationship because my stepdad is a feminist who adores her, but not all of her exes where like that.

My mom has faced SO MUCH misogyny over her clothing, her makeup, her hobbies. When she was building her tiny model car, her ex would drunkly rant how thats a “boys hobby” and “she shouldn’t be doing that”. Her and my dad used to renovate houses when they were married, Dad would plaster, and mom would plaster alongside him. While also fixing doors and windows, and floors, and ceilings, and painting the damn thing. When she goes to autoparts stores, or car lots, they always talk to her like shes stupid. Recently shes been bringing her husband, so the associate will ramble his ear off, and when theyre finally done, her husband turns to her and goes “babe I don’t know a thing hes talking about, what do you suggest?” because theyre both just so pissed off about it.

Don’t get me wrong, my moms for the girls too! She’ll give her enemy a tampon type of person. But the girls turn their backs on her, quite frequently. Mom used to have a friend, a male friend, who would go to the bar with her. I knew him well. They’re not friends anymore because he used her hobbies and interests to try to sleep with her. He would always try to change her too. Mom likes cooking, so he would try to push her away from things like watching fantasy TV (he thought that was a more ‘male’ genre) or fixing up the house for things like cooking and cleaning.

And so when I came out as trans, it was a really hard time for my mom. She understands now, and shes a HUGE HUGE ally and advocate for me, and I couldn’t fathom having a more supportive mother, but she was really confused. Mom was worried I wanted to transition because the misogyny gnc/masculine women face. I didn’t shave, I liked playing with knives and multitools, when I did makeup it was always more Kiss/Marilyn Manson style, when my sisters did a Marilyn Monroe.

I remember her driving us home from the clothing shop I came out to her in, and the talk we had. She asked me if I was confused, and I said I was sure. She said that I could just be a tomboy, like her. That it didn’t matter what everyone else said about being a masculine woman. Having talked later as adults, she thought I thought the only option for the type of masculinity I have was to be a man. She was so scared for me and my safety because of how punished masculinity is in women.

So now, as I’m 23, and its 2025, Mom is still the gender nonconforming woman she always has been. Mom taught me how to fish, how to use a hatchet, knife safety, and how to cook and sew. I’m a man who picks up heavy things for her now that shes too disabled too, who wears makeup and nail polish with my denim cutoffs and binder, who still has to call my mommy when I can’t get this screw to screw in right mom, I dont know your tips and tricks.

And masculine women can exist alongside trans men. My mom goes to my hormone appointments with me to make sure these doctors are listening to me, she yells at me when I take my shots late, she picks up my hormones if I’m at work. Mom takes me to Pride every year, and god rest the soul of any transphobes that cross my mothers path. My moms for the girls and the gays, the he’s and the they’s, the its and the lesbians and everyone between. Mom will fix you dinner and your car, and we give her gifts on fathers day too because she was Mom and Dad growing up.

So no. Masculinity isn’t always rewarded in female-presenting people or people with vaginas. My very cis mother could tell you that much.

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whatever you do, dont think of the way wemmbu gets villainized for things that other people get excused for. dont think of the way lifestealers main traits are to kill and manipulate and wemmbu is apparently evil for doing so. dont think of the way wemmbu leave behind sky civ and gets villainized by the fandom for it while parrot will actively drive away all of his friends and get excused and babied. dont even DARE think of the way wemmbu's shopping addiction is malicious but evbo's is fun and quirky.

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i'a ate a big breakfast sandwich and'a had a nice coffee and now i am afraid there is NOTHING that can stop me

BOWSER

ARE YOU LISTENING

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what is it about capybaras that attracts groups of small animals to them? Its not just mammals either its like birds and turtles and frogs too

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your daughter is a pleasure to have on the dashboard

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Why was one direction buying a teenage girl

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By the way, the prosecution just violated Luigi Mangione's HIPAA rights and I have not seen people talking much about it