Nicc, they(/it/he), 21, white n hungarian (no, I'm not hungy) DNI if you don't think all queer identities are valid, think that fiction doesn't affect reality or you aren't willing to listen when people tell you something is problematic
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I don't think I'm ever going to understand people treating Tumblr post comment sections as a confession booth seeking validation from OP. It comes up again and again when discussing boycotts, political action, or god forbid listening to a rap song
You can just not tell people on the Internet when you do something that's being mildly criticized and no one will know.
"I don't listen to rap because they talk too fast for my audio processing disorder." Ok. And there's no need for you to tell a stranger that
"I can't participate in BDS because McDonald's is my safe food." Ok. So don't post about it and no one will judge you.
"I have to buy a piece of Harry Potter branded merch at least once a week or I'll fall into a depression." You can just not tell people this and they won't know.
Things you can do instead of commenting on posts about how you're a special exception that deserves a pass for doing something being criticized:
Ignore the post and scroll past
Block OP and save both of yourselves the trouble
Take the opportunity to reflect on the practice and think about why you're being defensive about it, maybe consider there is a way you can challenge yourself a little and give it a try
Stop assuming every Tumblr post is made for and targeted towards you and requires you respond to it
Have the defensive thought and then keep it in your head where no one else can know or judge you for it
Log off and go do something else
Any of these things will work out better for you than going into a comment section and explaining to strangers why you can't/will continue to do something currently under scrutiny. They don't care, they probably don't know who you are, and no one has to know this about you.
Stop seeking validation in the Tumblr dot com comment section you're only hurting yourself and pissing off the op
#the baby version of this that works on same principle but you're not even bad to have like the opinion is the#'I hate this ship but cute art ig' type comments#they share the same Everything Is About Me sentiment
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me: hey do you guys have any advice for this rhythm game?
someone whos played rhythm games their whole life: yeah you basically just open your third eye and ascend to the rhythm realm
me: ok cool thanks i’ll work on that
#Idk if I've ever done that but closest was probably the first time when I got into n I really wanted to beat milf (fnf)#tho cuz of the game Idk if I can do anything else besides 4 keys :(
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i love cis people cause when i say “when i used to be a girl…” they go “mhmm…. but also….. you’ve ALWAYS been a man” okay ur very sweet but actually i was a weird girl in middle school and you need to know that to understand my personality today
#I think the best way to go about. after reading a lotta comments#is if you don't know how the trans person likes it#but you wanna ask something from their past#just start it with 'before you transitioned' it's hard to go wrong with that#or just ask things without referring to transness if you just wanna know something about their childhood#also especially important w ppl like me. because *I* didn't transition. like at all#it's scary to be out irl where I live and also I don't want to do anything medically so like#maybe just ask trans people questions like how you would from anyone else#the PROBABLY?? least offensive is the when did you realise it because that doesn't imply anything about the person#otherwise just going with the trans person's flow is the best to be real. we're all different
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everyone hates orange until they actually see her in context. "oh it's such an ugly color, too bright!" look at sunsets and autumn, look at campfires and deserts. she's the most beautiful and special part of the scene. now apologize.
#orange is my best friend I love orange so much it hurts#like. orange. red. pink. my trifecta of colours I'd kill for#if somehow colours could speak to me in that way of course#another one I'd kill for is MANY shades of brown#but there's just SO many I can't pick one specific one#the beauty of brown just about always being a mix of the RYBs#'isn't it RGB' yes. I'm talking about paint here. that works with yellow instead of green
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can you tell that there's something bothering me
#yeah agree with op#though part of me can't fully blame those ppl bc you can only see results with voting#a big part of it would probably solve this so easily if Tumblr#actually gave you the option to view the current results without having to vote#though I bet either way some people like that would still vote because nosiness isn't everybody's reason
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"writing about fucked up things doesnt indicate your values as a person" and "the way you write about things may indicate some of your values" are not conflicting statements if im going to be real
#also depicting well and writing well are not the same thing#there's badly written stuff that has a good heart#and inexplicable Bad Vibes but really well written stuff too
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Seriously, Google? You actually changed Gulf of Mexico to Gulf of America on Google Maps?
What the fuck?!

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it really really sucks how you cant explain to someone why youre blocking them. i wanna pick them up and hold their head and make them look at their piss stain in the replies of some post and go "see that? see that? thats not normal. youre going outside"
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ghhh had this experience the other day and despite not being aro, I still felt an aro kind of pain
so, I'm leaving school early (long story, will not go into it) and like, because of that, I'm not gonna get to see a now ex classmate of mine
now, this guy, he is like a friend to me, a cool friend
loved hanging with his stupid ass, besides some rancid takes he'd sometimes have (something sadly common in this country sigghhhb)
anyways, I let him borrow my pendrive to take a library home which he forgot to find and download for a program but the school server had it on so he could pull from there, he just needed it to take it home
now, since I won't see him, I won't exactly get back my pendrive
and now, I'm full of drama and I was like, oh to leave someone you cared about with an inconsequential part of you that will remind them of you, how r o m a n t i c
and thinking that I recoiled, because I don't like him in that way at all! he's a friend I really care about but that's it
but I couldn't think of a better word, considering what the word USED to be about
passion and the tragedy of passion, sometimes the uplift of passion if you so desire
and hell do I HATE amatornormativity, because even me, a person who isn't aro suffers from this
like why you had to steal the word romance and associate it with only the type of relationship that's socially acceptable and leads to your average unloveable nuclear family dynamic, why must you be cursed this way
genuinely, romance is such a pretty word and it deserves to be used in the right way, I wish you could say someone willingly dying for their friend in a story is romantic without implying that you think they should build a normative relationship together
what is drama without the tragedy and passion that is romance!!! awful awful awful!!!!!
#Idk. should I tag something#I barely post these days so I guess#you can have me rambling like this this time#and then I'll once again go into several months of not posting anything original#anyways this experience also made me understand aro people like hoooly shit
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Everyone wants to talk about how Senshi is a tumblr sexyman but...Senshi is actually attractive. Like even aside from the fact that he's pretty good-looking he's a nice, sweet guy and he can cook and loves doing it. He's a perfectly eligible candidate for marriage, which kind of goes against the spirit of a tumblr sexyman.
Chilchuck, however? Chilchuck is a tumblr sexyman. What the fuck do you people see in him
#wasn't a tumblr sexyman about generally being a baffling guy to like#and also a guy with a cult like following with like. selfcest too#you've got no sexymen there. just hotboys as far as I see
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#it's like when the yes and-ing becomes a bit too powerful#and you can't handle it anymore and it just goes wiiiild#great experience tbh
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This game is fun but I fucking hate the wheel of fortune
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i just had this thought for some reason, i usually use red. or purple if im feeling sillay :3
#red. darker reds. pink#actually can't believe I'm a minority that's so many gray truthers#my small world has opened up
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#okay besides all that's here. cuz. yeah but#due to excess calories is actually SO loaded#you think you can tell that based on looking? fucking no#but even the tweet itself like ppl concentrate on the picture waaaay too muvh#reminds me when I got into the hospital for 3 days because of chest pain#and they did like 2 tests. found nothing. then said it was then because I'm fat and gave me a#info diagram to tell me to eat better#anyways I have that chest pain since and based on how it works it's a long covid symptom#which seemed to kinda get worse recently but yknow!#it's because I'm fat. couldn't be anythinng else nooope
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#that would be like a bigger. more chaotic. filled with absolutely to the brim version of the internet#like the worst possible version of the internet you can astral project into#like knowledge doesn't mean it's right#you're trying to access fun facts about the Earth and get blasted with ALL misconceptions about it#not just flat earth. the stupidest things. stuff people would never post about#you would get a higher. worse version of racism on there too. somehow#and the MEMORIES#you could get easily sniped for the smallest of crimes#wait through memories. could you illegally watch movies#maybethenI might consider it
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Well I like it but it’s not very well written. Also it’s a visual mess. The plot doesnt make any sense and the creators suck and its politics oscillate from mildly problematic to frankly baffling. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. However. the character
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This is really what killed Glamrock Bonnie in FNAF
(Original post @/Vomitando on Twitter)
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