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SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE DFAB NONBINARY PPL WHO PRESENT THEMSELVES AS FEMININE AND ALL THE DMAB NONBINARY PPL WHO PRESENT THEMSELVES AS MASCULINE BC THEY ARE CONSTANTLY EXCLUDED FOR NOT BEING ANDROGYNOUS ENOUGH

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Dionysus is the patron god of trans/nb kids pass it on

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honestly i feel like this doesn’t need a description so let’s cut right to the chase

ahem

to enter

-mbf me

-rb this post (likes for bookmarking only)

-track #antifanbsnet

-fill out this typeform

perks

-new friends

-art/selfie reblogs

-a twitter group chat

-idk what else

members will be chosen in mid-marchish

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When I accidentally see someone’s deadname:

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are you soda diamoric, juice diamoric, or milkshake diamoric?

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hi everyone! i’m lee, a nonbinary chicago based singer/songwriter/producer. i write music under the name lambia, and i used to write under the name eelz. i just published my first ep, and here’s the link.

two of the songs had previously existed on my bandcamp as singles, but i decided they fit quite nicely with the other two, so now they’re all together. like friends

everything was mixed and mastered and written and recorded by me, so in buying it you’d be entirely supporting a queer artist without profit division (other than what bandcamp takes). even reblogging this helps! 

if you don’t want to spend the money that’s ok too! you can still listen to it and if you really want you can msg me and i’ll send you the mp3 for free. thanks so much for listening to me and i hope your support can allow me to continue making music in the future!

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uhm so anyways support nb/genderqueer ppl who arent mlm/wlw or “male aligned”/“female aligned” or whatever and feel out of place cause this site is so focused on binary terms even for nb/genderqueer ppl

like… this is 100% why i ID as a trans guy/male aligned nb person for so long cause like… i felt like i had to? but like… im not really? and it kinda hurt cause i felt like i had to pick whether or not i was male aligned or female aligned (or a wlw/mlm) so I basically misgendered myself because i felt like i had to Choose

but like yeah support nb/genderqueer ppl who arent male/female aligned but feel like they gotta choose bc this website is so focused on binary terms that they even need to apply them to ppl who are non binary

so yeah lmao support us

(u don have 2 be nb/genderqueer to rb this)

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proud of Nat Geo

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anything a non binary person does is not binary. showing of cleavage? non binary boobies. lots of make up? non binary beauty. dresses? non binary fancy. stop implying that people aren’t non binary because they won’t buy into the “androgynous masculine” bullshit. a non binary person who doesn’t hide their boobs isn’t mocking you. get over yourself.

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shout out to the brown and black nonbinary people who don’t fit the stereotype of gender nonconforming, you’re all cute and valid and i know how hard it can feel to look for answers to your gender questions and not see anyone who looks like you. nonbinary poc are real, we’re valid and we exist!! ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿

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I hope all of the NB people are doing great today. 

I hope all of the NB people who are bi and pan are doing great today.

I hope all of the NB people who are ace-spec and/or aro-spec are doing great today.

I hope all of the NB people who are lesbian or gay are doing great today

I hope all of the NB people who are het are doing great today.

I hope all of the NB people who have any other orientations are doing great today.

I hope all of the NB people who don’t feel comfortable with any of these labels are doing great today.

I hope all of the NB people who switch between labels and/or are unsure of which to use are dong great today.

Whether you have no gender, all the genders, some of the genders, or another gender altogether, you are all wonderful and deserve the best.

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please stand up for your local afab demigirls and amab demiboys when people tell them that their gender isn’t real and that they’re really cis and are just trying to be special. don’t let that shit stand.

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this website doesn’t have enough posts for boys on their periods so @ all the boys on their periods i love you and i hope you’re all doing okay and taking care of yourselves ✨✨✨

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A little kid at my painting camp pulled me over to the side and said “I don’t know how to ask this, but are you a boy or a girl?? I can’t tell.”

And I was thrilled because I had passed the “child pointing out your appearance means gender” test as well as being approachable enough that he could ask. So I sat down and told him I was neither and explained that growing up I was told I was a girl but that I’m not, but I’m not a boy either. And he just looked at me and said “so you’re just a person.” Swear to god I had the biggest smile on my face when I told him that’s exactly what I was.

For the rest of the day he just called me Izzy instead of Ms something or any gendered title and I got a hug at the end of camp.

So if you say gender is too confusing for children to understand, I have a first grader who would tell you otherwise.

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I love this so much.

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a genderqueer superhero who wears a binder and hides their face so everyone assumes they’re male but then they have c cups and never bind as a civilian so their secret identity is safe