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On this Trans Day of Remembrance, please spare a moment to mourn trans people who died in the closet.

People who were misgendered in their eulogies.

People whose lives were cut short before they could bloom.

People whose secret clothes will be thrown out.

People who couldn't survive the oppressive forces of transphobia.

People who took their own lives because the suffering of the closet was too much for them to bear.

People who were forced from their homes or their jobs because of their genders and died on the streets, or in poverty, socially murdered.

People who could've lived if they had a safe, welcoming community.

People whose identities were disrespected, mocked, and hated both in life and in death.

People who died on a waiting list.

People who died before they could get on a waiting list.

People who were denied the opportunity to express themselves, to live as themselves.

People whose graves are desecrated with a deadname.

If you're out and reading this: Help your sisters, brothers, and siblings in the closet. Listen to them when they ask for your aid. Reach out to them. Buy them clothes. Send them money. Tell them things about your own transition. More than anyone else, closeted trans people need community and support.

Mourn the dead, fight like hell for the living.

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I know (well, I know now) that my inability to date like a normal person is very likely down at least in part to the ADHD, and armed with that knowledge I am using my not inconsiderable intelligence (heretofore the reason the ADHD was not detected) to try and be a little less awkward in affairs of the heart. It's like job interviews, if I can get past the resume-reading system I can usually ace the interviews. I am clinically diagnosed as very charming! I do my best not to be a creep!

And I know that the person I'm chatting with in this dating app, having accepted the resume as it were, is making increasingly unsubtle sexual overtures. That's not even unwelcome in this case. Thank you for persevering in the face of my initial obliviousness. It's been a while and this is a nice ego boost.

But we started out talking about a date at an art museum and while I am in fact adept at sexting, I am much better at discussing Magritte's artistic influences and Chagall's use of light, and what they might like to see when we go to the museum. I want to know what they like! You know....in the Modern Wing.

None of which is getting either of us laid, but sex is better when you've recently seen Paris Street, Rainy Day by Gustave Caillebotte, it just is. You're so hot I want to see your face when I show you Brancusi's Two Penguins! You don't even have to buy me dinner first, you just have to put up with the worst wingman ever: Pablo Picasso.

Why am I like this.

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Only need £500 now!!

This is Holly (full name: Holly jolly huge large)

Holly has a long history of getting herself into trouble, and this time she's dislocated her hip. She needs surgery to fix it and stop it happening again.

She turns 6 on the 9th of December and I would like for her to have her surgery before that. It's already been a month since she got this injury, she's been on painkillers this whole time, and I can't imagine how uncomfortable this must be for her.

She's caged almost 24/7 so she can't damage her leg more, she's only being let out for a little bit with supervision while i clean the cage. She's usually such an active cat it's horrible seeing her cooped up all the time :(

The surgery costs £1300.

I need £770 to meet my goal!

I have set up a gofundme for her, which you can find here.

You can also donate by my paypal, which you can find here. PayPal has lower fees and less of a delay!

Please share this and donate if you can 💕 thankyou so much 🥺

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This is Holly (full name: Holly jolly huge large)

Holly has a long history of getting herself into trouble, and this time she's dislocated her hip. She needs surgery to fix it and stop it happening again.

She turns 6 on the 9th of December and I would like for her to have her surgery before that. It's already been a month since she got this injury, she's been on painkillers this whole time, and I can't imagine how uncomfortable this must be for her.

She's caged almost 24/7 so she can't damage her leg more, she's only being let out for a little bit with supervision while i clean the cage. She's usually such an active cat it's horrible seeing her cooped up all the time :(

The surgery costs £1300.

I need £770 to meet my goal!

I have set up a gofundme for her, which you can find here.

You can also donate by my paypal, which you can find here. PayPal has lower fees and less of a delay!

Please share this and donate if you can 💕 thankyou so much 🥺

[mystrothedefender]

This is Holly (full name: Holly jolly huge large)

Holly has a long history of getting herself into trouble, and this time she's dislocated her hip. She needs surgery to fix it and stop it happening again.

She turns 6 on the 9th of December and I would like for her to have her surgery before that. It's already been a month since she got this injury, she's been on painkillers this whole time, and I can't imagine how uncomfortable this must be for her.

She's caged almost 24/7 so she can't damage her leg more, she's only being let out for a little bit with supervision while i clean the cage. She's usually such an active cat it's horrible seeing her cooped up all the time :(

The surgery costs £1300.

I need £770 to meet my goal!

I have set up a gofundme for her, which you can find here.

You can also donate by my paypal, which you can find here. PayPal has lower fees and less of a delay!

Please share this and donate if you can 💕 thankyou so much 🥺

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i believe "nothingburger" is the cowardly enemy of the humble and kind everything bagel

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my grandma just tried to pronounce blorbo to ask me what it means.

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happy womens day to everyones favorite woman

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This is Holly (full name: Holly jolly huge large)

Holly has a long history of getting herself into trouble, and this time she's dislocated her hip. She needs surgery to fix it and stop it happening again.

She turns 6 on the 9th of December and I would like for her to have her surgery before that. It's already been a month since she got this injury, she's been on painkillers this whole time, and I can't imagine how uncomfortable this must be for her.

She's caged almost 24/7 so she can't damage her leg more, she's only being let out for a little bit with supervision while i clean the cage. She's usually such an active cat it's horrible seeing her cooped up all the time :(

The surgery costs £1300.

I need £770 to meet my goal!

I have set up a gofundme for her, which you can find here.

You can also donate by my paypal, which you can find here. PayPal has lower fees and less of a delay!

Please share this and donate if you can 💕 thankyou so much 🥺

[mystrothedefender]

This is Holly (full name: Holly jolly huge large)

Holly has a long history of getting herself into trouble, and this time she's dislocated her hip. She needs surgery to fix it and stop it happening again.

She turns 6 on the 9th of December and I would like for her to have her surgery before that. It's already been a month since she got this injury, she's been on painkillers this whole time, and I can't imagine how uncomfortable this must be for her.

She's caged almost 24/7 so she can't damage her leg more, she's only being let out for a little bit with supervision while i clean the cage. She's usually such an active cat it's horrible seeing her cooped up all the time :(

The surgery costs £1300.

I need £770 to meet my goal!

I have set up a gofundme for her, which you can find here.

You can also donate by my paypal, which you can find here. PayPal has lower fees and less of a delay!

Please share this and donate if you can 💕 thankyou so much 🥺

[mystrothedefender]

This is Holly (full name: Holly jolly huge large)

Holly has a long history of getting herself into trouble, and this time she's dislocated her hip. She needs surgery to fix it and stop it happening again.

She turns 6 on the 9th of December and I would like for her to have her surgery before that. It's already been a month since she got this injury, she's been on painkillers this whole time, and I can't imagine how uncomfortable this must be for her.

She's caged almost 24/7 so she can't damage her leg more, she's only being let out for a little bit with supervision while i clean the cage. She's usually such an active cat it's horrible seeing her cooped up all the time :(

The surgery costs £1300.

I need £770 to meet my goal!

I have set up a gofundme for her, which you can find here.

You can also donate by my paypal, which you can find here. PayPal has lower fees and less of a delay!

Please share this and donate if you can 💕 thankyou so much 🥺

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lister and cats relationship is actually the best thing ever it's so fucking funny. this bit between them always makes me giggle

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