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fuck em up gang

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beauty and the beast makes so much sense as an aspec fairy tale. the fantasy of being loved for who you are and what you do rather than some nebulous force of attraction? love being a gradual process strengthened by acts of kindness and a willingness to change for the better? a dashing furry with a heart of gold gifting you a gigantic library in his magic castle, far away from the judgments and expectations of society? i'm sharing custody with the monsterfuckers for this one

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Ghosts of the bridge Future print sale mailing list sign-up

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thinkin bout how when i came out to one of my friends as ace, one of her first responses was "yeah but you'd have sex for your partner, right?"

which at the time filled me with dread. because i dont want to. but i agreed because i didn't want to seem like, selfish? i guess?

and i just think its really fuckin weird to say that to an ace person. i hate the idea that sex is an assumed part of every relationship, and to not have sex is like, witholding something important from your partner.

for me, if a partner cannot handle a relationship without sex, we are fundamentally incompatible. and i dont think thats selfish of me.

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I never saw people say stuff like this enough when I was a teenager, so I’m saying it now.

I’m in my mid-thirties and I have never had sex. I’ve thought about it and could have had one or two opportunities if I put in more effort, but I always decided against it because I just wasn’t into it at the time.

I can safely say that I do not feel I have missed out on anything. I was perfectly capable, by myself, of learning about my own body and boundaries without anyone else there to muddy the waters. The immense pressure that was there in my teens/twenties to Have Sex Just Do It is basically gone. I’m vibing. I’ve got my routine by myself in bed that I enjoy, and that’s enough for me.

And in the unlikely event that I ever decide to have sex with someone in the future, I don’t feel at all like I’m lacking some essential Knowledge or Skill that would “make it good” for someone else. I fully expect to ask my partner out loud what they like and to receive an answer clearly communicated and to relax and have fun. And if it’s a disappointing experience, I’m fine with that too. It is what it is.

Sex is just not that big of a deal. I suspected it as a teen, and I’m more sure of it now. It’s fine to have it or not have it. It’s whatever.

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what i like about airports is that once youre in there theres no going back. I mean youre there until they let you out

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All for One is annoyed that Tomura didn't make him a Kpop Demon boy band.

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wake up babe, new "I do not grasp the concept of moderation" image just dropped

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is this orange or yellow.

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Being 30 is fun. I was discussing anime with a teen at work and asked her how much of bnha she had watched. She had trouble answering and wasn't sure how to approach it. I said "better question was who was your husbando" and she turned bright red before mumbling an answer. They never expect me to know how deep their love of anime boys runs....

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Did anyone ever like attempt to document and compile the variations of Barney the dinosaur murder ballads across the elementary school system in the early 2000s. Like legit it has always fascinated me as a phenomena and I would love to know if there were like traceable regional variations or what.

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well this fucking sucks

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Aiming while moving: super useful historically, but much less common in modern archery. It’s still great for modern pratting about though!

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Fullmetal Alchemist?

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so they were both in hyrule warriors (kind of) and i never get to see them interact even tho it would be objectively really funny and or possibly cute