my-other-story

[my-other-story]

53 QUESTIONS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER:

What was your first impression about your partner?

Hard to get. Yung feeling na kahit anong ganda ng paguusap nyo di pa rin nya kukunin number mo, kung papatayin mo yung call alam mong di mo na siya makakausap uli sa buong buhay mo HAHAHA. Kaya nga comfortable agad ako nung unang pag uusap namin (through phone call)

kasi di siya yung taong nag t-take advantage. And he is really a great listener which i badly needed at that time.

What did you like or love about your partner?

Sa totoo lang, ito medyo deep to ha. Ang dami naming differences, sobrang iba yung ginagalawan naming mundo before we met. Still, he manage to handle entering into my world without any judgement. He knows sobrang weird kong babae, making spontaneous decision, idealistic, ganito ganyan, etc. But he knows when to correct me, when to stop me, when to comfort me, when to tolerate me, or when to help me (pero minsan may disadvantage din yun kasi naiirita ako nffeel ko minsan wala syang pake hahaha).At talagang hinahayaan niya akong mag grow on my own.

How did the relationship start?

App, that you can talk to a stranger. Hahaha actually nag tagal yung paguusap namin without knowing our full name, address & other personal info. Yung purpose lang naman talaga e yung may nakakausap ka lang pero iba yung nangyare hahaha. To be honest, wala ding formal na label nung una pero ayun napag usapan naman and we decided to make it official & serious na.

Do you still like what you loved about your partner and why?

Oo, pero minsan din kasi gsto ko na pinagdadamot nya ko? Hahaha weird pero oo.

Are you happy with the intimacy you share?

Yes.

Do you feel the same the way you felt for your partner at the beginning of the relationship?

Hindi na ata, kasi ngayon habang patagal ng patagal mas lalong nagging deep yung love ko sakanya. Yun din kinakatakot ko ayoko talagang maumbok nya yun kasi nagging toxic ako pg nagmahal ako ng sobra e.

Are you positively affecting each other’s life?

For now, i think yes. We'll see pag tumagal.

Have you started to do something because of each other’s influence?

Yes, isa na don yung matutong kumalma hahaha.

How often do you laugh together?

For now, di pa ganon ka dalas.

When was the last time you dreamt about your partner?

Noong isang gabi lang.

Do you like spending time with your partner’s friends and family?

I don't know, di pa ko pa meet yung family & friends niya ganon din sya. Ldr din po kasi.

How often do you talk on the phone with your partner?

Everyday.

How often do you think of your partner?

Everyday.

Do you smile when you relate something from your daily life with your partner?

Yes.

Can you recall the most romantic moment with this partner?

Sobrang worried ko. Cuddle kami tapos kinocomfort ako. While kinocomfort ako kinikiss nya forehead ko and kinikiss ang lips ko tapos kinokontra lahat ng mga negative thoughts ko. Pinapakalma niya ko. Grabe first time ko nakaramdam non, sanay kasi ako palagi na ako lang nag cocomfort sa sarili ko. Pero this time someone did that for me. I feel safe in his arms.

Do you get each other’s feeling without the need to say anything?

Sometimes.

What was the best moment in your relationship so far? (Are you smiling while recalling that moment?)

Vacay at cebu. Yes always.

How do you show your love for each other?

Ldr. Kaya through consistent communication & commitment.

When was the last time you said “I love you” to your partner?

Kanina lang.

Have you ever changed anything for your partner?

Yes. Many to mention.

How much do you think you understand your partner?

HAHAHA to be honest. Di ko pa sya ganon kakilala, and the truth is, it will take time pa. Parang libro sya, easy to read but very hard to understand.

Do you trust each other?

For now i don't know. Kelangan pang i gain yung trust. It will take time pa. Pero for sure we're working on it.

Have you not let your partner do something just because you feel jealous or angry?

Yes. Hahaha (one of my toxic traits)

How do you feel when others find your partner attractive?

Sarap ipagsigawan

"hoy boyfriend ko yan, girlfriend niya ko"

Do you feel jealous if your partner hang out with a friend of the opposite sex?

YES YES YES YEEEEEEESSSSSSSSS!!!

pero kelangan kalma lang ako.

How serious are you both taking this relationship?

We're planning na wag na mag LDR.

Do you bring up arguments very often and why?

Oo ako, pero sya hindi.

Do you make sacrifices for your relationship?

YES

Have you ever apologized for what you’ve done wrong to your partner?

YES

Do you forgive your partner’s mistakes easily?

Yes i can forgive, but i can't easily forget.

Do you throw temper easily for small mistakes of your partners?

Yes, kaya minsam out of nowhere bigla akong may topak o toyo, but he knows how to handle the situation. I really admire him for that

Do you respect each other’s beliefs?

YES (pero kinocorrect yung mga mali)

Is it really necessary to know everything from your partner’s previous relationships?

For me NO NEED, hindi sya healthy sa present relationship. It is possible na jan pa panggalingan yung umpisa ng away at katoxican sa relasyon nyo.

Do you believe in staying with this partner for a very long time or even forever?

yes i believe.

How do you feel when your partner has to leave you for some time because of work or studying?

natatakot ako hahaha.

Will you say sorry to your partner even though it’s not your fault?

Yes.

When was the last time you had an in-depth conversation with your partner?

Di ko maalala pero nung nakaraan lang about financial & family problem.

Are you keeping any secrets that you’re afraid of letting your partner know?

Yes.

Do you think your partner’s friends and family like you?

I don't know.

Do you feel that your partner accepts the way you are?

For me yes - but not 100‰ sure. Di ako sya.

Have you seen each other at your best and worst?

I think sya nakita niya na. Pero ako wala pa.

Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Why?

WALA as long as alam ko di sya nagch-cheat.

Have you ever thought about breaking up with your partner and why?

If it's time to let go. Why not?

Will you lie for the sake of your partner’s happiness and how do you define the line?

Yes.

Are you in a relationship only because you enjoy the excitement or the feeling to be loved and cared about?

yes one of the reason why i'm in a relationship with him right now BUT it's not the ONLY reason. There are thousands/million of reasons why. Remember, it's not always a sunny day, there will be also rainy days. Worst thing could happen jan mas patitibayin pa ang relasyon.

Does this partner make you forget the painful feeling of your previous relationships?

I don't want to compare anything about him to my previous, he don't deserve that. I don't like this question.

Do you look forward to your future with your partner?

Yes.

Have you thought about marrying your partner? (If you two have already married, do you remember why you had that thought of marrying your partner?)

Yes. Why not?

Are you willing to compromise your happiness for a successful relationship?

It depends.

When it comes to future, do you and your partner have the same relationship goals?

For now, di pa namin napag uusapan yan.

Are there more joyful moments than sad ones being together?

Yes.

What makes you happier in a relationship, sharing or sacrificing?

Sharing.

If you could choose your partner again, would you choose the same person?

Yes.