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this scene is so fucking funny the english dub of this show is so good

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I remember it gave me a feeling of a warm glow in my chest. And I remember how much that scared me.

You think you're not transfem? OK but answer me this

How happy did it make you when girls at school said "your eyelashes are beautiful I wish I had them"

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one of the more valuable things I’ve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have. 

no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation. 

no, your brother didn’t realize his music was that loud while you were studying. 

no, your bff or S.O. doesn’t remember that you’re on a tight deadline right now.

no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now.  

a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weight….it’s all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age. 

Here’s the thing: most people don’t do that. I’m not saying everyone else is oblivious, I’m saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse. 

I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether it’s really there or just me over-reading things that actually don’t mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weight…that’s toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships. 

The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery. 

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absolutely insane shit happening on twitter

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moodboards:  Father Francis Mulcahy

“Wondrous and mysterious are the ways of God, and I would have no one shield my eyes from the glory of His works.”

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what do you mean you wouldnt fuck a vampire?? like damn i'll do it for you?? coward???

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would you trust this VR headset y/n

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Strange how all the "don't vote that will show people" are fucking dead silent. Like not one word. Nada. Nothing.

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i love goofy fetish porn situation magic. oh no the brave knight opened a cursed chest and now he has a pussy and the only way to cure it is by shooting a load in him

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Dominating your sub doesn't always have to be sexual. Get her into some comfy clothes after her bath. She might have had a hard day, so sit her on your lap and do her hair for her. Make her feel loved, make her feel safe. Talk to her. Reassure her that you'll always be here for her. Through the good times and especially the bad. If she starts to cry, that's okay. Kiss her tears away and gently rock her in your arms. Throw on her favorite show. May it be a show on Netflix, a specific movie, or her favorite music video of the song she can't stop singing. Cuddle with her on the bed and just watch it with her. Maybe even sing along if you know the song. Just keep her smiling like only you can do.

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Are you guys okay with me being completely insane

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Are you guys okay with me being completely insane

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drink water. eat ass. vote.