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I replied to your message in my head several days ago did you not get it

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- on childhood loneliness

@aphexxtween on tiktok/ @mazzystarjpg/ mastermind- taylor swift/ the virgin suicides/ @heavensickness/ if you’re anything like me- taylor swift/ pen15/ @mango-season

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this election has turned me into the nastiest most disgusting and hateful version of myself. i HATE these people. i hate trump, i hate vance, i hate the surpreme court, i hate people who voted for him, i hate people who voted third party, i hats people who didn’t vote at all. im full of so much hate and idk how to turn it off

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EVERY BODY KNOWS SHITS FUCKED

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no offence but I hate when people my age start projecting their own fears and ideas about aging and youth onto me. girl sorry but I’m young and beautiful if you think women in their late 20s onwards are worthless old hags who have run out of time that’s a personal problem

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people literally think they were using tiktok to like plan the revolution and not to seem cynical but you’re all rubes lmao

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no matter how hard i try i will always be that little girl wondering why everyone is better friends with eachother than her and begging to be loved

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button nose hater 🙅🏼‍♀️ where is your cartilage? where is your bridge??

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Women rarely lie about having been sexually assaulted or having been abused by their intimate partners. This is true. It’s also easy enough for all but actively anti-feminist people to swallow. But that doesn’t mean they believe all women. They all “know one case” where they believe a woman lied. And they’re convinced of it because they know the guy involved, or they know the woman involved and she’s known to lie a lot. And this is something I think we need to talk about more: while women rarely lie about the abuse/assault having happened, it doesn’t mean every word of it they speak is the truth, and that doesn’t make them any less a victim.

Unpleasant women can still be abused and raped. Unlikeable, untrustworthy women can still be abused and raped. Women who are genuinely bad people can still be abused and raped. And these women can be abused by men who are upstanding members of the community. Men people like and trust who have had people’s backs and supported them, perhaps through their own abuse. And the extremely slim likelihood of the woman who’s, say, a pathological liar being believed over the friendly guy who supposedly would never hurt a fly over whether he raped her is not lost on men.

There are a number of reasons why the recounted details of a rape may not add up: memory is unreliable at the best of times and trauma doesn’t help; in fear of not being supported or believed a victim may deliberately omit certain details or add others that simply aren’t true. Sometimes it can be a combination. And sometimes it’s a woman who’s used to lying or exaggerating about everything else in her life, so why would she suddenly stick to the full truth and only the truth when someone hurts her? Women rarely lie about having been victims of sexual assault or domestic violence, but some victims do lie about the details. It doesn’t mean the event didn’t happen, it doesn’t mean the perpetrator is less of a horrible person than he would be if he’d done it to a more likeable or reliable woman.

With “innocent until proven guilty” I know that this can make it very hard to prosecute men who target women like this. But I do want people to keep this in mind when watching court cases where you’re sure the victim is lying because her reactions seem off and she’s clearly lying about some things. And I especially want people to think about that so-called “one woman they know for sure lied” because I don’t think you do; you just don’t like her. And you don’t have to. You don’t have to be friends with people you don’t like; you don’t have to hang out with toxic people. But it doesn’t mean nothing happened to her. It doesn’t mean your friend/beloved teacher/cousin/brother/etc. didn’t rape her. And if he did, she may be an unpleasant or even a bad person, but he’s 100 times worse. And if you’re a woman he’d do the same to you if he thought he could get away with it.

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I think prisons in the US are a really interesting case study of what all male spaces are like. They literally turn into animals raping and killing each other constantly. They form groups that only exist in the prison and start riots and slaughter other prisoners because of disputes with other groups that only exist in these prisons. You see this with fraternities too the initiation processes are full of beatings sexual humiliation and alcohol consumption all to the point where young men are regularly killed during fraternity initiation. This is a normalized part of the military all over the world too. Without women men immediately become violent, domineering, animalistic, rapists towards other men. This is why men are so afraid of women getting out from under their boot and leaving them because then they’ll be left all alone with other men.

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2025 is a good number, it’s a quarter of the way through the 20 hundreds and it’s got that nice set of 2s separated by only a 0. not bad. whatever happens this year at least it’ll be happening during a good number 😌

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sad they give tissue boxes plastic labia folds but no clitoris

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compilation of this type of post