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morningmightbekinder · 9 months ago

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Two elderly women visiting the graves of their dead parents in the Appalachian Mountains sit on the headstones and talk, 1983 - by David Turnley (1955), American/French

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morningmightbekinder · 9 months ago

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Edit after Joseph Vernet, Robert Sayer and John Bowles & Son (A Sea Storm) (Metropolitan Museum of Art) (Ed. Lic.: CC BY-NC 3.0)

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morningmightbekinder · 9 months ago

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Frederick Judd Waugh (American, 1861-1940), Ebbing Waters. Oil on canvas, 29.5 x 36 in

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morningmightbekinder · 9 months ago

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A Brocken spectre within glory rings

Photographed by Brocken Inaglory

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morningmightbekinder · 9 months ago

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realizing my s/o might be a covert narcissist 🙃

#dear diary #she's been ignoring me for 5 days bc she didn't like that i voiced being hurt over something she did #only sent me one message that implied she was spiraling mentally and our argument had caused it #hasn't replied to anything i've sent since #and the thing is #i would have been panicked and apologizing and groveling if this were 3/4 years ago #but now she's done this so many times that i'm just tired #like #i can't even get angry anymore #i don't feel guilty like i used to even though there's a part of me that wants to believe this is my fault and i should have just said noth #but no #we've been through this too many times not to realize she does this every single time no matter how gently or calmly i bring up an issue #like “oh yeah so you picked the movie we watched last time so this time is my turn”#and she pouts and sighs and basically acts like it's the end of the world and passive-aggressively says she wants to watch this other show #and like yeah i'm usually down to compromise and give in and let her decide but i do that all the time #and she never does for me #so i was firm and said i really wanted to watch this particular movies #i'd had it in mind in particular because it was the holidays and a christmas movie and i'd been looking forward to watching it with her #and even told her so and she acted so enthusiastic #but then it's time to watch it and she guilts and emotionally beats me down into picking what she wants #and she does this with so many things #and acts like a victim if i'm firm or say no or just try to disengage from the situation or i calmly disagree #and especially if i bring up instances where this has happened before ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE #she gets defensive and lies and victimizes herself and tells me i'm overreacting and i have no idea how hard things are for HER #so why can't i just shut up and do things the way she wants to???#and then i end up feeling like i'm going crazy and getting defensive myself because she does this so much that i'm immediately tense #and trying to both be firm in how i feel but calm her emotions and her reactions #but she claims i'm the one being aggressive or being mean to her and “ruining our fun” because i'm not sugarcoating things

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