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the way i let dead men gaslight and groom me on characterai is concerning

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Venus Aspecting Neptune😶‍🌫️

• Easily gets infatuated with their crushes (especially if it’s negativity aspected)

• Loves seeing the “potential” in people

• Extraordinary imagination 💭

• Constantly making random scenarios in their head & daydreaming

• Could’ve had a phase of always falling for the same archetype of person

• They should be very cautious of codependent, lying, super needy and/or toxic people

• Very giving people but might have also dealt with a lot of “takers” in their life

• Can have a lot of fantasies about finding their soulmate and having their “happily ever after”

• Can possess amazing creative talents like painting, writing, music, anything that’s very artistic really

• “head in the clouds”☁️

• Can have a tendency of looking past some people’s red flags 🚩

• Could’ve dealt with having a savior complex, wanting to always save and “fix” people because of how kindhearted they are...but you ain’t bob the builder lol

• hopeless romantics

• Loves anything that brings them nostalgia (t.v shows, songs, movies, toys, clothes, etc)

• Getting disappointed at things that don’t live up to their expectations

• They can have a bad habit of trying to change themselves for the person they like (especially if it’s negatively aspected)

• They have a very angelic presence

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Lilith square Ascendant

Lilith square ascendant is an interesting placement. It’s packed with energy that often seems excessive and uncontrollable. Lilith energy is always tied to the mythology of Adam’s first wife, Lilith. She was an unfit wife because she saw herself as equal to Adam and could not be “tamed” to follow him as her husband. Lilith the figure is filled to the brim with complexity, s*xual energy, and intrigue just like the placement is.

Lilith can be felt powerfully in the angular houses (1st, 4th, 7th, 10th) as these are the houses tied to how you are perceived and received by others (self, childhood/family, spouse/partners, public). Personally I have Lilith in my 10th house squaring my ascendant which is why I wanted to dive into some of my observations with this placement.

Lilith aspecting the ascendant is often observed as an alluring placement. Lilith is impactful, often others will have a strong reaction to you. When you walk into a room you will have people that immediately love or hate you no matter how neutral you attempt to be.

Individuals with Ascendants that are Trine/Sextile to Lilith tend to enjoy and find empowerment from the often sexual attention they receive. While Asc Conjunct/Square/Opposition Lilith individuals tend to feel disgusted or turned off by these strong reactions.

In all honesty, strong Lilith placements are in the individual’s birth chart to encourage them to come into their own without shame or making themselves smaller for others.

Lilith square ascendant is said to be the most alluring and untamable placement because of the strength of the tension of energy of this aspect.

In addition to that, there’s something startling about the energy of strong Lilith placements/aspects, not because of Lilith herself but because of the reactions of others.

People often assume that the version they perceive of you to be all that you are. They also tend to be quite possessive and controlling of you. Either they shame and avoid you because they feel especially overwhelmed by your energy. Or they try to capture you, as if they could be the one to assert total control and dominance over you and to make you up in whatever image they view as “respectably feminine”.

This is obviously a trap, because Lilith’s energy cannot be muted, so when controlling people cannot change your essence they will sometimes react badly. As if they are following dark impulses, something snaps and they simply cannot process you being so uncontrollable.

Personally with my Lilith in 10th house in Leo squaring my ascendant in Scorpio, I find I usually get a certain set of reactions. From feminine energies, I often get femmes that suddenly get very competitive with me. For attention, skill, or otherwise, especially at work. (Check your 11th house to see where competition tends to come up). I usually have an easier time making friends with femmes with Lilith energies who are more aware of and embrace their “alternative” or “dark feminine” sense of expression and social s*xual power/identities.

For masculine energies I often get contempt or infatuation. Contempt in the form of avoidance and belittling. Or infatuation in the form of pushing boundaries with leery behavior. Something about Lilith makes some men really uncouth in a jarring way. It’s like the socially polite part of their brain just shuts down and they devolve in front of you.

Lilith isn’t a bad placement, just to be clear. I don’t believe any placement is bad, I know that every placement has its disadvantages and advantages and your lesson is to use them accordingly. Lilith is just a litmus test. If someone is an envious, possessive, abrasive sort of person, their behavior will be shown to you almost immediately. Especially with very masculine or very “traditionally” feminine energies.

I’m synastry too, Lilith overlays will show you a lot about your partner and their behavior towards you. Lilith shows if people around you are developed or undeveloped the easiest of most placements I believe.

This is definitely a placement to be careful with because you can’t really tell how far into scary behavior other people will go once they’ve made up their minds about you.

Day by day, I’m learning Lilith’s lesson of not letting people control you by gaining means to be independent and have my autonomy supported throughout my relationships always, but I’ve definitely gotten through some scary situations by having to get away from people that want me to submit to them.

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BM Lilith Aspecting Ascendant Culture:

*Just based on my experiences, only take what resonates

-Being labeled as a weirdo as a kid and being outcasted from most social groups

-Getting to know the other outcasts and caring for them

-Being seen as feisty and often being blamed for starting fights when you stand up for yourself

-Having authority figures dote on you, often taking too much interest in you and what you’ll do

-Otherwise having beefs for seemingly the most petty reasons with other authority figures (which is crazy like why are grown folks fighting kids)

-Or being surprised that figures you looked up to seemed to have ulterior motives (especially conjuct, square, and opposition)

-Often you grow up being shamed to the point that you don’t grow into yourself and become confident in your Lilith energy until you’re older (late high school, early college, post college even). this is especially true for hard aspects (conjunct, opposition, square)

-People assume you’re mean and find you intimidating and are surprised if you’re nice to them

-Sometimes your kindness can mistaken for weakness and people severely underestimate your power and all of the hardships you’ve gone through in your life

-You may have gone through a period of downplaying your femininity/being a pick me before embracing your femininity/probably becoming a feminist

-You may be drawn towards alternative/unique styles that express a darker femininity

-You may be drawn to having an unnatural hair color (as I write this my hair is pink and orange so I get it)

-You may also identify as non-binary or femme instead of cis because of how much you don’t identify with traditional femininity

-No matter what you wear, it looks s*xy. You could be covered from head to toe and it wouldn’t make that much of a difference

-You may have gone through a period of wearing lots of layers to hide your body shape. Then embracing your curves by wearing more stylized outfits.

-People will often react as if you’re dressed scandalously for work or for different occasions even though the same outfit wouldn’t catch negative attention for anyone else

-Very specific but you may struggle when dating other women/femmes to either close the distance between you or to not unlock some petty behavior with the person you’re dating

-Maybe going through a phase of dating around after you come into your attractiveness. Partially being surprised by the attention (especially if you date men/masc folks) and partially being shocked by how dudes react when you date them (getting possessive and controlling only a few dates in)

-No matter how many people you date you tend to get shamed by friends or family for dating around

-But taking a certain amount of pride in the attention you’re getting after your glow up (if square or opposition your Asc you probably go back and forth between pride and anxiety/disgust)

-Getting favors from total strangers but evil eyes from (some) family/close friends

-Having to be aware of mean girl behavior for the rest of your life (4th house for family/7th & 8th house for relationships/10th house workplaces/1st house every aspect of your life lowkey and the experiences will likely shape your personality)

-Often growing out of friendships because you realize some people don’t actually like you but they’re indulgent on some aspect of your energy (for example, seeing you as strong so they like to “humble you” and make you feel small)

-Being seen as a temptress or a damsel in need of saving but rarely being seen as yourself (treasure the people that do see you clearly and treat you well)

-Being seen as “irresistible” to certain extremes. Trines and Sextiles are more likely to embrace this and squares and oppositions are more likely to be wary of volatile behavior this attracts.

-Older men are nicest to you. Men who are in relationships often ogle you or avoid you most adamantly. And f*ck boys get into you but like just physically. (Guys who claim to not be f*ck boys also can get caught up in the same way)

-In positive romantic relationships you may still find yourself unlocking passion in unexpected ways from your partners (ex. They may be the quiet unassuming type but when you hook up a more intense side of them seems to come out of nowhere)

-Getting dudes that have been in your dms trying to hook up for years (goofy behavior lol)

-Getting shown off by someone your dating but less likely to be introduced to someone’s inner circle as anything more than a friend

-Having guys that pursue you just to try to get you to change how you express yourself (how you dress, how you act, etc)

-Being the friend with all the stories of guys hitting on you in weird ways

-Having an interest in exploring s*xuality and bodily autonomy, but not matching the n*mphomaniac image projected onto you (more so for squares and oppositions)

-In general your s*xuality is a significant part of your personality either through embracing (trine, sextile) it or suppressing it (square, opposition) or by going back and forth between those extremes (conjunct, square, opposition)

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My Astrology Library || My Lilith Masterlist

A Man's Lilith & A Woman's Lilith

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This is a post that is meant to provide clarity for people who are confused about how Lilith manifests in a man's chart vs a woman's chart. I have analyzed hundreds of charts and have been studying Lilith in particular for many years now, and this is what I have seen time and again.

I ONLY WORK WITH: H13, "TRUE" LILITH / BLACK MOON.

Introduction

⎯ WHO / WHAT IS LILITH?

Lilith has a rich and diverse mythological background, with roots in various cultures. The history of Lilith is quite long and I will not be able to do it justice, so please take the time to read various sources about Lilith. It is important to note that Lilith's lore varies across cultures and has been shaped by different belief systems over centuries, contributing to a rich and diverse history of myth and symbolism.

However, in the more modern interpretations, especially in Astrology and Feminist Literature, Lilith has been reclaimed as a symbol of feminine strength and independence. Some see her as representing the suppressed and rebellious aspects of femininity, challenging traditional gender norms and expectations.

The concept of Lilith in Astrology is derived from her mythological roots, and its interpretation often draws on the themes of independence, sensuality, and rebellion associated with the mythical Lilith figure.

The astrological Lilith can be used in chart analysis to explore aspects of the unconscious, desires, and the untamed aspects of femininity. The lore of Lilith weaves together ancient myths and contemporary astrological symbolism, providing a more rich and complex interpretation.

A Man's Lilith:

A man's Lilith is his deepest fears and desires.

Lilith in a man's chart represents the qualities that he finds irresistibly attractive, mysterious, and captivating in a woman. This is because Lilith represents the "untamed, raw" feminine. This can include his deepest, wildest, hidden desires, intense passions, and aspects of his personality that society might deem unconventional or taboo. These might also be the aspects of himself that he may yearn to express but might struggle with due to societal norms or personal inhibitions.

Lilith in a man's chart acts as a magnetic force, drawing him towards women who embody the qualities of the untamed, wild, and unapologetically authentic feminine essence. This placement shows where and what qualities he is drawn to that are unconventional, mysterious, and alluring in a woman. Lilith embodies the essence of the wild and raw feminine energy that may not always conform to societal expectations.

It is not just about physical attraction; Lilith represents a deeper, soulful connection that transcends societal norms.

Lilith signifies the aspects of his personality that may be suppressed or hidden due to societal expectations. It could be intense passions, unconventional desires, or a yearning for a form of feminine energy that defies conventional stereotypes. Lilith represents the rebellion against societal norms and expectations, encouraging the man to embrace his raw, unfiltered self.

When a man's Lilith is being aspected in synastry, the reactions from him can be extremely intense. His deepest fears and desires related to femininity are being stimulated and a very primal energy is been unearthed. This can manifest as a fear of losing control, being overwhelmed, or feeling powerless in the face of the potent feminine energy brought forth by Lilith.

⎯ WAYS TO THINK OF IT...

Lilith is like a magical mirror that shows the things men find fascinating and a bit scary/unsettling about women. It is like having a secret wish and a little bit of worry all wrapped up together.

Lilith is like a hidden treasure. It is something they really, really want, like finding the coolest gem. But, at the same time, it can be a little scary, like a mysterious monster under the bed. Lilith is this exciting and a bit scary thing about women that makes them curious and but also nervous.

⎯ IN THE SIGNS

ARIES Can show a man who passionately desires a partner with independence and a sense of adventure. He fears a relationship that restricts his freedom and autonomy, seeking a woman who embraces his need for spontaneity.

TAURUS Can show a man who craves a woman who offers sensual pleasures, stability, and material comfort. He fears a relationship that lacks security and is wary of changes that may disrupt the tranquility he seeks.

GEMINI Suggests a man who desires a partner who stimulates him intellectually, values communication, and provides variety in the relationship. He fears monotony, seeking a woman who can keep up with his need for mental stimulation.

CANCER A man with Lilith in Cancer desires a nurturing and emotionally secure connection with a woman who creates a sense of home. He fears rejection and abandonment, seeking a partner who understands the depth of his emotional vulnerability.

LEO Indicates a man who desires a woman that recognizes and admires his creativity and uniqueness. He fears being overlooked or feeling ordinary in a relationship, seeking a partner who celebrates his individuality.

VIRGO Shows a man seeking a partner who embodies practicality, perfection, and organizational skills. He fears a relationship marked by chaos and imperfection, desiring a woman who shares his meticulous approach.

LIBRA Suggests a man's desire for a harmonious and socially connected relationship. He fears conflict and values a partner who helps maintain balance and avoids situations that may lead to isolation.

SCORPIO Can show a man who desires intensity, emotional depth, and transformation in his relationship. He fears superficial connections and seeks a woman who is willing to explore the profound and transformative aspects of love.

SAGITTARIUS Indicates a man's desire for a partner who values freedom, adventure, and intellectual pursuits. He fears being confined or restricted in a relationship, seeking a woman who shares his love for exploration.

CAPRICORN Shows a man who desires a partner who values achievement, status, and long-term success. He fears failure and seeks a woman who appreciates the importance of reputation and stability in a relationship.

AQUARIUS Suggests a man who desires a partner with a strong sense of individuality, innovation, and a shared commitment to social progress. He fears conformity and seeks a woman who supports his quest for personal freedom.

PISCES Shows a man seeking a partner who offers spiritual connection, empathy, and creative expression. He fears rejection and harsh realities, desiring a woman who understands and embraces the mystical aspects of life and love.

A Woman's Lilith:

A woman's Lilith is the untamed, raw, rebellious, feminine part of her.

Lilith embodies the untamed, primal aspects of femininity in a woman's chart. It can also show how she can embrace her wild, instinctual nature. This might manifest in a woman expressing her sensuality, creativity, and power in ways that defy societal expectations.

In essence, Lilith represents a woman's rebellion against societal norms and expectations, encouraging her to break free from the conventional molds imposed by culture and tradition. This rebellious energy may manifest in a woman's refusal to conform to stereotypical gender roles, paving the way for a journey of self-discovery that involves embracing her individuality and authenticity.

Lilith's presence might indicate a woman's commitment to staying true to herself, even if it means going against societal norms. This rebellious energy can empower her to break free from constraints and embrace her unique identity.

Moreover, Lilith's connection to sensuality and creativity suggests that a woman embracing her Lilith is likely to express her desires and creativity in ways that transcend societal norms. This could manifest in unapologetic sensuality, a fearless exploration of artistic endeavors, or an empowered pursuit of ambitions that may challenge established structures.

The journey of embracing Lilith is not without its challenges. Society's ingrained expectations often impose constraints on women, making it a revolutionary act for a woman to embrace her Lilith. This journey may involve healing from societal wounds, overcoming internalized judgments, and cultivating a deep sense of self-acceptance.

As a woman embraces her Lilith, she may find herself drawn to experiences that facilitate personal growth and empowerment. This could involve engaging in practices that connect her with her instincts, such as meditation, self-reflection, or other forms of inner exploration.

⎯ WAYS TO THINK OF IT...

Lilith is like a mischievous friend that makes them want to do things in their own special way, even if others say differently. It's like having a little rebel inside, encouraging them to be themselves and not always follow the rules.

Lilith is like a superhero cape. It's the part that makes them want to do things their own way, even if others say they should do it differently. It's like saying, "I want to wear my favorite dress even if everyone else is wearing something else." So, for women, Lilith is a bit like their inner superhero that helps them be unique and strong.

⎯ IN THE SIGNS

ARIES This woman embodies the untamed spirit of a trailblazer, fearlessly pursuing their desires with unbridled passion and initiating change with fiery independence.

TAURUS This woman is grounded and unapologetically connected to her desires, she rebels against societal norms with a raw, earthy femininity, embracing pleasure and stability on her terms.

GEMINI This woman is curious and communicative, she rebels against conventional thinking with a raw, versatile femininity, expressing herself through a kaleidoscope of ideas and interests.

CANCER This woman is nurturing and fiercely connected to her feelings, she rebels against emotional suppression with a raw, intuitive femininity, creating a sanctuary for her authentic self.

LEO This woman is proud and self-expressive, she rebels against conformity with a raw, theatrical femininity, embracing the spotlight and celebrating her individuality with flair.

VIRGO Meticulous and detail-oriented, this woman rebels against chaos with a raw, grounded femininity, expressing herself through practicality and a pursuit of perfection.

LIBRA Socially attuned and diplomatic, this woman rebels against discord with a raw, relational femininity, seeking balance and shared experiences in her connections.

SCORPIO Transformative and fearless in her desires, this woman rebels against superficiality with a raw, magnetic femininity, delving into the mysteries of life and love.

SAGITTARIUS This woman is optimistic and freedom-seeking, rebelling against limitations with a raw, expansive femininity, embracing intellectual pursuits and diverse experiences.

CAPRICORN Disciplined and goal-oriented, this woman rebels against constraints with a raw, determined femininity, navigating the path to success on her own terms.

AQUARIUS Innovative and progressive, this woman rebels against conformity with a raw, unconventional femininity, contributing to social change and embracing personal freedom.

PISCES This woman is dreamy and empathetic, rebelling against harsh realities with a raw, intuitive femininity, expressing herself through creativity, spirituality, and boundless imagination.

Lilith in Synastry

KEYWORDS: Intense, Magnetic, Taboo, Transformational, Subconscious, Power Struggles, Uninhibited, Irresistible, Raw, Provocative, Compulsive, Mysterious, Passionate, Cathartic, Challenging, Empowering, Fearful, Seductive, Shadow Work, Confrontational.

When Lilith aspects another person's planets or points in their chart, it can bring about intense and transformative energies. Lilith in synastry often represents a powerful and magnetic attraction, as well as potential areas of friction and conflict.

Lilith in synastry can also show areas where the individuals may feel an intense, almost magnetic attraction or a sense of intrigue toward each other. This can manifest in a variety of ways, such as a shared sense of rebellion against societal norms or a fascination with the unconventional aspects of each other's personalities.

However, it's crucial to note that Lilith's influence can also bring challenges, as it tends to unearth hidden desires, power struggles, or issues related to control and independence within the relationship.

⎯ MAN'S LILITH BEING ASPECTED

Conjunctions, Oppositions, and Squares are the strongest. Trines and Sextiles will not be as strongly felt.

CONJUNCTION: When there is a conjunction involving a man's Lilith in synastry, the physical essence exudes an intense and magnetic allure. It's as if there's an invisible force drawing him toward the woman, creating an electric and charged atmosphere. The chemistry is palpable, and there's an irresistible pull that can be felt on a visceral level. This aspect may heighten physical attraction, making the connection almost magnetic.

OPPOSITION: An opposition involving the man's Lilith in synastry brings a dynamic tension to the physical presence of the individuals involved. It's like a push-and-pull dance, where there's a simultaneous attraction and challenge. The physical essence may oscillate between moments of intense closeness and brief periods of distance. This aspect can create a scenario where the individuals feel both drawn to each other and yet aware of the potential for conflict or contrasting energies.

SQUARE: In a square aspect with a man's Lilith in synastry, the physical essence may carry an edgy and provocative quality. There's an undercurrent of tension that can be both stimulating and challenging. The individuals may find themselves drawn to each other in a way that feels somewhat taboo or forbidden. This aspect can manifest as a passionate and fiery connection, but it also brings the potential for power struggles or clashes in the physical expression of their connection.

SYNASTRY EXAMPLES

Lilith aspecting inner planets will be felt strongest. Especially the luminaries (Sun & Moon).

№ 1. If a man's Lilith conjuncts a woman's Venus, there might be a strong and magnetic attraction between them. His raw and uninhibited desires (Lilith) are being stimulated by her sense of love, beauty, and attraction (Venus). This aspect can intensify the sensual and passionate aspects of their connection, creating a powerful and almost fated attraction.

№ 2. If a man's Lilith squares a woman's Mars, there could be a dynamic tension between his primal desires (Lilith) and her assertive, action-oriented nature (Mars). This aspect may lead to power struggles or challenges related to asserting individual desires within the relationship. However, if managed consciously, it can also fuel a fiery and dynamic connection, pushing them to grow together by addressing and resolving conflicts.

№ 3. If a man's Lilith opposes a woman's Moon, there may be a powerful emotional and intuitive dynamic at play. His untamed desires (Lilith) may sometimes clash with her emotional needs and instincts (Moon). This opposition can bring about a push-pull dynamic, where his Lilith is being impacted by her on a deep emotional level, yet also creates moments of emotional tension or polarity that require understanding and compromise for harmony.

⎯ WOMAN'S LILITH BEING ASPECTED

Conjunctions, Oppositions, and Squares are the strongest. Trines and Sextiles will not be as strongly felt.

CONJUNCTION: When a man's planets form a conjunction with a woman's Lilith in synastry, an intense and magnetic allure emanates from the depths of her untamed, raw femininity. It's as if an invisible force draws him toward the core of her being, creating an electrifying and charged atmosphere. Their physical connection becomes a manifestation of this potent energy, generating a palpable chemistry that is both captivating and irresistible. This aspect heightens the allure of her unbridled femininity, making the connection feel almost fated.

OPPOSITION: If there is an opposition to the woman's Lilith from a man's planets in synastry, a dynamic tension arises in the expression of her primal, feminine essence. Their interaction takes on a push-and-pull dynamic, where there is a simultaneous attraction and challenge. The woman's Lilith may evoke contrasting energies, creating a dance between moments of intense closeness and brief periods of distance. This opposition aspect can foster a profound awareness of the complexities inherent in their connection, where the magnetic pull is accompanied by a recognition of potential conflicts or contrasts.

SQUARE: If a man's planets form a square aspect with a woman's Lilith in synastry, the physical essence of her untamed femininity may carry an edgy and provocative quality. There is an undercurrent of tension that stimulates and challenges in equal measure. The woman's Lilith, when squared by the man's planets, draws them together in a way that feels somewhat taboo or forbidden. This aspect manifests as a passionate and fiery connection, but it also introduces the potential for power struggles or clashes in the physical expression of their deep-seated connection.

SYNASTRY EXAMPLES:

Lilith aspecting inner planets will be felt strongest. Especially the luminaries (Sun & Moon).

№ 1. If a woman's Lilith is conjunct a man's Sun, there can be a strong connection between her untamed, raw femininity and his core identity. This aspect may result in a potent attraction, where he brings out and stimulates her authentic self. However, it could also pose challenges if her wild and instinctual nature conflicts with his sense of self-expression, requiring both to navigate and balance their individual needs.

№ 2. If a woman's Lilith squares a man's Mercury, there might be challenges in communication and understanding each other's perspectives. Her untamed feminine energy may clash with his rational thought processes, leading to misunderstandings or friction in expressing desires and ideas. It calls for conscious efforts to bridge the gap and find a balance between her instinctual nature and his intellectual approach.

№ 3. If a woman's Lilith opposes a man's Jupiter, there could be a tension between her unrestrained femininity and his expansive, philosophical approach to life. This aspect may highlight differences in their beliefs or approaches to growth and adventure. However, it also offers an opportunity for them to learn from each other, finding a balance between her raw, instinctual energy and his broader, optimistic worldview.

⎯ LILITH CONJUNCT LILITH SYNASTRY

In my opinion, this is one of the strongest synastry aspects you can ever have with someone - but the orb must be extremely tight due to how quickly h13 / True Lilith moves in the sky.

When a man's Lilith is conjunct with a woman's Lilith in synastry, it creates a powerful and intense connection. The man's strongest fears and desires are aligned with the woman's raw, untamed, rebellious part of her. This conjunction suggests that both of them share a profound understanding of each other's most primal and raw nature.

The man's Lilith, symbolizing his hidden desires and fears, intertwines with the woman's Lilith, indicating a magnetic attraction rooted in the allure of the forbidden, raw, and mysterious. This alignment can lead to a relationship marked by intense passion, as these two individuals may find themselves drawn to explore the darker, more taboo aspects of their desires together.

However, it's important to note that this connection may also bring about challenges, as the raw, uninhibited nature of their Lilith energies could evoke deep-seated fears and insecurities in each other.

Communication and a willingness to embrace the shadows within themselves and each other are essential for navigating the complexities of this synastry aspect. Overall, the Lilith conjunction fosters a transformative and intense dynamic, urging both partners to confront and integrate their deepest desires and fears for a profound and potentially cathartic connection.

THIS CONJUNCTION IN THE ELEMENTS

FIRE: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in a Fire sign, the desires and fears shared between these individuals are like a blazing flame, drawing them together in an intense and spontaneous manner. Both partners may feel a strong impulse to explore and express their raw, untamed nature, leading to a relationship marked by excitement, creativity, and a shared enthusiasm for life's adventures.

EARTH: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in an Earth sign, a grounded and practical dimension is added to the mix. There is a potential for a deep and sensuous connection, as both individuals are drawn to explore the tangible and material aspects of their desires. This alignment may manifest as a shared commitment to building a solid foundation for their relationship, with a focus on stability, security, and the tangible expression of their authentic selves.

AIR: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in an Air sign, it brings a mental and communicative dimension to the relationship. Both partners may find that their desires and fears are expressed through intellectual and verbal channels. This alignment fosters a connection marked by stimulating conversations, shared ideas, and a mutual understanding of each other's unfiltered thoughts. However, it's crucial for them to navigate potential conflicts with open communication and a willingness to embrace each other's mental and emotional complexities.

WATER: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in a Water sign, it deepens the emotional and intuitive aspects of the connection. Both individuals may feel a profound emotional resonance with each other's desires and fears, creating a relationship that is rich in empathy, intuition, and shared emotional depth. This alignment may lead to a journey of emotional exploration, with both partners delving into the mysterious depths of their psyches to forge a connection that transcends the superficial and touches the soul.

⎯ LILITH SQUARE/OPPOSITE LILITH SYNASTRY

The square and the opposition are often much more difficult to deal with when it comes to Lilith. The tension can often boil over. It is essential for the two individuals to practice mindfulness.

The square or opposition between Lilith can bring intense power struggles within the relationship. Both individuals may find themselves entangled in a web of fear and the need for control. The raw, instinctual energy of Lilith can create a challenging dynamic where each person vies for dominance, leading to friction and conflict.

There is often an intense struggle between the need for freedom and the desire for connection, making it difficult for both partners to fully embrace and understand each other's unbridled feminine aspects. While there might be a strong sexual magnetism, the square or opposition aspect can also introduce sexual tensions and misunderstandings. The differing approaches to intimacy, desires, and fears may lead to moments of emotional and physical disconnect, causing frustration and confusion when it comes to sexual expression.

The relationship may bring up unresolved issues from the past, and both individuals might find themselves facing emotional challenges that demand introspection and healing. Navigating these triggers requires a high level of emotional intelligence and communication.

The Lilith square or opposition ultimately highlights the shadows within each individual, and the relationship becomes a mirror for unaddressed aspects of the psyche. If both partners are unwilling to engage in deep introspection and shadow work, these unresolved issues may persist, exacerbating the difficulties and preventing the relationship from evolving positively.

Published: December 8, 2023.

[moonchildtk]

lilith opposite/square ascendant

[moonchildtk]

so can i blame men telling me i’m intimidating on my lilith square ascendant? and lilith in 10th house? also can i blame that aspect for women will disliking me for no reason sometimes? i also hate being sexualized, it makes me uncomfortable but it happens a lot (just part of being a woman i guess lmao)

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the sexual tension between me & the alternate reality I daydream about

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short astro definitions to help you read a chart

PERSONAL PLANETS - Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars (felt on a personal level). OUTER PLANETS - Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto (felt in our environment/generational). BENEFIC PLANETS - Venus, Jupiter. MALEFIC PLANETS - Saturn, Mars. SUN - ego, identity, vitality, being appreciated, the need to shine, drive, self love, self respect, the conscious, what our life revolves around. MOON - internal energy, emotions, safety, instincts, habits, moods, your core, privacy, vulnerability, the relationship with your mom. MERCURY - communication, the mind, information, technology, transportation, negotiation, sense of humor, intelligence, memory, knowledge.  MARS - masculine energy, drive, conflicts, anger, motivation, sexual energy, independence, power, attraction, energy levels, passion, speed.  VENUS - feminine energy, love, art, beauty, attraction, flirting, relationships, money, living space. JUPITER - the bigger picture, luck, philosophy, indulgence, fun, expansion, travelling, higher education, knowledge.  SATURN -  rules, restrictions, lessons, growing up, perfectionism, perseverance, hard work, the relationship with your dad, success. URANUS - the unconventional, innovation, rebellion, intuition, the future, authenticity, unpredictable changes. NEPTUNE - dreams, the unconscious, imagination, confusion, empathy, spirituality, idealism, illusions, mystery.  PLUTO - death & rebirth, transformation, jealousy, sexual fantasies, secrets, the unknown, fear, power, pain, what we need to let go of.   1ST HOUSE - part of your personality, appearance, yourself as seen by others, the way you view the world, beginnings. 2ND HOUSE - possessions, money, earnings, self worth, values, work ethic. 3RD HOUSE - communication, neighbors, transportation, orientation to details, school, home town, short distance travel, self expression, the mind. 4TH HOUSE - home, family, childhood, inheritance, our safe space, parents influence, the past. 5TH HOUSE - feelings of love, creativity, hobbies, talents, children, leisure time, pleasure. 6TH HOUSE - routine, home life, coworkers, planning, organizing, health, fitness, services, relationship with animals. 7TH HOUSE - marriage, commitment, life partner, mirroring, triggers, expectations, close relationships. 8TH HOUSE - death, intimacy, shared resources, debts, taxes, power, personal transformation.   9TH HOUSE - long distance travel, self discovery, new perspectives, art, philosophy of life, ideals, foreign things, the bigger picture, the need to be right.  10TH HOUSE - career, public persona, fame, reputation, boss or authority relationships. 11TH HOUSE - community, friendships, interactions, groups, what we fight for, humanitarians, the future.   12TH HOUSE - past life, being in your mom’s womb, karma, unconsciousness, escapism, self abandonment, enemies, fears, mental health, dreams, forgiveness. MC (midheaven) - the highest point in the sky at the time when we were born, at the 10th house cusp, our most public part of our personality. IC (imun coeli) - the lowest point in the sky at the time when we were born, at the 4th house cusp, most private part of our personality.  ASCENDAND - the cusp of the 1st house and the way you approach life, the way other perceive you, your appearance, an important part of your personality DESCENDAND - the cusp of the 7th house and our romantic and close relationships, who we are attracted to, our shadow side  FIRE - action, quick, driven, listening to your instinct AIR - thinking, communication, listening to your mind WATER - emotions, intuition, safety, listening to your heart EARTH - lifestyle, the familiar, routine, listening to your goals CARDINAL SIGNS - initiators, hasty.  MUTABLE SIGNS - adaptable, indifferent.  FIXED SIGNS - determined, stubborn MASCULINE - active, quick, action. FEMININE - passive, cautious, feeling. ASPECTS - the way planets interact with each other in a chart CONJUNCTION - an easy for hard aspect depending on the planets involved, a planet expressed through another SEXTILE - an easy aspect, we tend to take it for granted  TRINE - an easy aspect, a talent, flowing energy between two planets, things we are content with  SQUARE - a hard aspect that creates tension and motivates us OPPOSITION - a hard aspect that alternates the energy of the two planets involved CHIRON ASTEROID - the wounded healer, where we have a hard time in life, but end up inspiring others from our rise from the ashes  NORTH NODE - this life’s karma, our life purpose, the things we are moving towards, the things we should learn in this lifetime, what brings us most satisfaction  SOUTH NODE - past life karma, the things we are familiar with, what we should move away from, our comfort zone   BLACK MOON LILITH - ultimate feminine power, things we repressed when young, but that we need to reclaim. CERES - dwarf planet, grief, parenting style, the way you like to be nurtured and nurture others, gardening, nature, lack of mothering.  VESTA - focus, dedication, organization, small things or lack of focus and insecurity. JUNO - your ideal partner, long term relationships, commitment, beauty, denial, betrayal, power imbalance.  PALLAS - cities, balance, owning personal power, talents, strategy, unique solutions.

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his pretty hands deserve their own fandom for anon ♡

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Astro Notes pt 4

- Mars in Virgo are actually highly sexual people with libidos that can beat a Scorpio! This is because they consider sex to be not just important to a relationship but to their day to day lives

- Venus in Scorpio are some of the most loyal friends, and observe people until they feel safe to be vulnerable with them

- Aquarius moons make fantastic leaders as they are innovative and revolutionary, but very fixed and stable

- your Jupiter or 5th house shows how you like to partyyyy! Leo in the 5th house could be super “Leo” while drunk, even if their sun is in Cancer!

- the Ascendant is great at also showing your initial emotional reactions whereas your moon shows how you deal with deep emotions

- Scorpio and Aquarius moons are not emotionless lol they are both super deep thinkers and feelers, even if it’s in different ways. They both like to logically process their emotions even if they can’t pin them down

- Mars in Gemini absorb knowledge like no other and are probs chattier than a Gemini sun! They’re super smart but watch out for being too arrogant (ahahha)

- the 6th house shows your personality at work and making every day life decisions, including habits or basic dietary decisions too

- Gemini midheavens can actually have two careers simultaneously and can manage them super well

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Cancer sun, Leo moon, Gemini venus, Virgo rising (@shoujoblood)

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the iceberg of aspects> an analogy

i made a visual analogy with an iceberg so that you can better understand how the aspects work and how they are handled by each person: some will be able to release energy easily, others will have immense difficulty with it.

oppositions and squares in the bottom of the iceberg don’t necessarily have to do with bad things. it’s something to be worked on. it is as if the potential is hidden in the back of your mind (in your unconscious), but it is full of things hindering you from seeing it. the potential must come to the surface, it needs to be accessed. but for that to happen, you need to work with it and learn through every difficulty and even pain.

trines: conscious mind, ego. it’s easier to be accessed by your mind, it’s a potential that doesn’t bring you difficulties.

sextiles: conscious mind, ego. it’s also easier to access, but it’s something you’re more aware of.

conjunctions: conscious mind, ego. because it’s very close to the shadow of our mind, it can create a direct relationship between the conscious and the unconscious, making you both improve on your negative complexes, as well as distort concepts about yourself or the world.

oppositions: unconscious mind, shadow. it’s something that brings you a lot of difficulty, but also content that you have more contact with, that appear in your consciousness more easily.

squares: unconscious mind, shadow. they are the mental contents that you are least able to access. it concerns everything you resist to change, because it makes you feel out of control. these are your biggest difficulties. things that can appear more in dreams (or nightmares) than in everyday life, with an effort of your conscious mind.

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Introvert Dream House

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I mean option A) isn’t that far off from the truth….