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The innocence and purity within our children, never ceases to amaze me.

Today at the park, my daughter played with a little girl for all of 2 minutes. Their first lap around the park started right in front of the bench I was sitting at with my son, and the little girl comes up and says, "your daughter is my best friend." Then they continued to run back and forth playing tag, hide and seek, and whatever other crap they find entertaining lol

As we left, they hugged, and their embrace seemed so sweet and genuine that I probably would've cried if the little girls smokin hot dad wasn't watching as well 😅

I didn't catch your name, little girl with the 80's pants and the hippie shirt...but I seriously hope you never lose that beautiful light shining bright within you.

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The bond between a mother and her son is incomparable.

My son is only 3 months old. And he's already SO fucking cool. He likes classic rock and old school rap, and he's more interested in my tattoos than his colorful, noisy, light up toys.

I have 2 kids, and I would never treat one better than the other. And I don't think I can claim one as my favorite. But the bond between a mother and daughter is TOTALLY different than that of a mother and her son.

I can already tell that I will have a soft spot for my boy. He gives me these big puppy dog eyes and I melt. His bottom lip curls into a frown right before a cry, and my heart sinks to my feet, heavy with guilt because I couldn't prevent him from feeling sad, scared, or most likely just hungry.

I so look forward to his first words. His first haircut. His first day of school. His first girlfriend who will probably NEVER be good enough for my perfect, sweet, little baby angel. But more than anything, I look forward to learning his character. His passions, his fears, his biggest dreams, and his deepest secrets.

I pray that if I can give him at least one thing, it can be self worth. I pray that he will learn to love himself in any condition. I pray that he will never doubt his capabilities. I pray that he respects his own expectations and boundaries enough so, that no one in his lifetime can corrupt or take advantage of him in the slightest. I pray that he respects women the way he does his own mother. And I pray that he has everything he could ever want, and then some.

One day, I will give my son away to a well deserving woman. But until then, he is my baby. My heart. My soul. I love you my son. Forever and always.

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CALLING ALL MOMS!!!!

...or at least the ones who cuss like a sailor and have mental breakdowns at least once a day...

I want to start by introducing myself. My name is Veronica. I am a single mom of 2 kids who constantly make me question my sanity. I have a 7 (going on 17) year old daughter, and a 3 month old son who drowns me in drool.

I don't fit the mold of the "typical mom". I hardly ever brush my hair. I run on about 6 cups of coffee a day. I cuss...A LOT... I have a couple piercings, and more than just a few tattoos. And to be completely honest...I'm NOT FUCKING SORRY. I'm doing the best I possibly can.

I'm starting this blog (if you can even call it that) in hopes that other moms like me can feel included, and possibly less shitty. I'm tired of being labeled as a "bad mom" because I shove a ziploc bag filled with stale, off brand, cheerios in my daughters backpack for a school snack. Or because my son wears the same onesie 2 days in a row because I've been too overwhelmed to dig through the PILES of unfolded laundry in different areas of my home. I'm exhausted. And I'm pretty sure a lot of you moms out there are too. So, for us "sub-par" moms who think so little of ourselves but STILL get up and kick ass every day, because we freaking love our kids so much that it hurts...wanna be friends?

DISCLAIMER!!!:

-I WILL CUSS A LOT.

-I WILL CRY A LOT. (And believe me, I'm an ugly cryer)

I will complain about everything and everyone. And I will probably sit here and bash someone I don't like, just because I can hide behind a fake name and not have to fake smile around them. (I'm talking about you perfect cookie cutter, PTA moms! Jk lol 😆) I may even torture you all with my problems, because I'm a single mom with no friends. So why not publicize my issues on a platform for the WORLD to see!? I could use a couple more "haters" judging me and grading me as a parent. I'm up for the challenge.

So if this sounds like a place where you can read about all my fuck ups and my below average parenting skills so that you dont feel so bad about yourself, then join the club! We can make jackets and sit at the park, drinking spiked coffee at 10 a.m., and pretend to watch our kids like hawks, all while hoping they don't jump off the jungle gym and break an arm. You're my kind of people!

On a serious note though...this is a JUDGE FREE ZONE! I'm here to share my story. I'm here to relate to you when you feel like you've had the worst day. Or when you feel overwhelmed because you haven't had time to work on your kids school project, or clean, or even shower! We've all been there! And let me tell you moms...you're the shit! Cause I promise you that even when you feel like the worst parent in the world, your kids disgusting, grubby little hands will be reaching out to lovingly caress your face or hug you before bed EVERY. Fucking. Night. So give yourself some credit. That's something I'm finally learning to do for myself. So let's laugh, CRY, and learn together ❤️

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