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— Rudy Francisco

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You do not owe your partner(s) sex. I mostly see this passed around in the asexual community, and it absolutely needs emphasis there, but this applies to anyone of any orientation. You never owe your partner(s) sex under any circumstance.

If your sex drive or libido is lower than your partner’s, you may feel obligated to “keep up” with them to make them happy. But you have a right to say no, or not be in the mood, or be too tired, or just not want to right now. Your partner(s) should respect your right to say no and your bodily autonomy.

If your partner(s) try to harass, manipulate, or coerce you into having sex when you say no, they’re an asshole. Having said yes in the past does not mean you can never say no. It is not your responsibility or obligation to provide sex. You do not need to violate your own boundaries to make someone else happy. Your partner(s) should respect your right to say no, and if they don’t, they don’t deserve you.

Your body belongs to you, and you decide what’s best for your sexual health. Happy Pride

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“and at some point I thought to myself: ‘no person deserves this,’ and I realized that includes even me.”

— Unknown

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Intimacy is not just physical. To crave a persons presence and energy rather than just their body is the purest form of intimacy.

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How is anyone supposed to be normal after that. G-d looked back at me for a minute

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“If you hesitate between me and another person don’t choose me.”

— Unknown

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“Accept the fact that you will grow apart from people you’ve had significant relationships with. Understand when someone no longer positively affects your life. Let them go. Don’t hinder your growth.”

— Lyjeeria

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You deserve a calm love with somebody who's your safe space, your best friend, and brings peace to your soul during stressful times.

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“Please stop destroying what is left of your heart by constantly thinking about things that have broken you.”

— Unknown

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Anyways, calling shoplifting “urban foraging” is very funny, a useful euphemism, should be done more often.

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When I told you we had to end it, that we had to go on our own separate paths, I wanted you to say no. I wanted you to tell me you would never let me go. I wanted you to say that you couldn’t imagine living life without me, that you would never love anyone as much as you loved me, even if it sounds a little selfish. I wanted you to fight for me, to stop me from leaving. But all you said was, “I’ve been thinking the same thing for a while now.”

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My consciousness strays, but it doesn’t matter, I find the greatest serenity in hallucination.

Clarice Lispector

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“All relationships have one law: never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you’re there.”

— Unknown