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I understand the value of artistic liberties but what exactly is Yugio's haircut supposed to be. I've wondered this since childhood

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being abused or neglected really makes it clear how many things are skills that nobody really treats as. skills. exercising autonomy is a skill. listening to your body is a skill. resting is a skill. being liked and being loved are skills. nobody tells you how to do this shit because nobody even told me I was supposed to have learnt these things when I was a kid. I kind of just have to manually figure out what makes me freak out and work from there. unfair as shit

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shrimp time.

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dancing away

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When Everything Everywhere All at Once said “The only thing I do know is that we have to be kind. Please, be kind, especially when we don’t know what’s going on" 

When the Good Place said “Why choose to be good every day when there is no guaranteed reward now or in the afterlife… I argue that we choose to be good because of our bonds with other people and our innate desire to treat them with dignity. Simply put, we are not in this alone.” 

When Jean-Paul Sartre said ”‘Hell is other people’ is only one side of the coin. The other side, which no one seems to mention, is also ‘Heaven is each other’. Hell is separateness, uncommunicability, self-centeredness, lust for power, for riches, for fame. Heaven on the other hand is very simple, and very hard: caring about your fellow beings.“

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I wish we had every single game on DS

Not 3DS just DS

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Not to go "if you have ADHD just go for a run" or anything, but I am so serious if you have ADHD you should regularly go outside, no headphones no phone no nothing and just stand and observe for a while until you've had enough. Not until you get bored, until you've had enough. Drink your coffee without watching tiktok. Have a bath without music. Turn down the volume in your headphones. I cannot overstate how much learning to be bored is cruicial with ADHD. Life is not just about pleasure, no matter what your dysregulated dopamine system thinks, and when you teach your brain to be okay with being bored, then boring tasks stop feeling like torture. By letting yourself be bored you are yoinking your system out of the high/low binary and allow for the highs to feel like actual highs and not just anything that isn't low. I am so serious go literally touch grass. Listen to the sounds in your flat. Stimulate your body the way it was designed. It lowers anxiety and makes you feel like you're real and best of all it's completely free

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collection of scarian esque posts or whatever

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I made one of these for the first time in forever

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Yeah so everything is actually about Yugioh. One of the underlying truths of this world actually.

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Chai tea bag + lil but of brown sugar + apple cider packet + 16 oz. mug of hot but not quite boiling water

it will not Fix You but like. maybe. maybe.

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"Wow omg you drawwwww? I wish I was a drawer soooo bad omg I suckkkk so bad at arrrt"

me:

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Do I get bitches? Idk, do I own a cat shaped charcuterie board with mouse cheese knife?

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Also to continue rambling lol

I've been feeling so good about my art in general since I got accepted into an artist alley. I feel like I've been improving a lot recently and I worked really hard to make enough product for that to even be a possibility so to get in was huge for me

Now a few days ago, we were talking about some character on a show we were watching who was going through it. I forget the characters exact issues, but my roommate goes "he's kinda acting like- oh well I don't want to hit too close to home" and everyone else in the room was confused because his situation was totally different from everyone else. We say oh it's ok and my roommate lookes me in the eyes with a sorry expression and says "a failed artist" and I was like ??? I don't feel like a failed artist I feel the most confident in my art that I've ever felt? Like it didn't shake my confidence in my art but it made me really sad to hear them say that and think I would find it too close to my own situation. Them thinking it'd hit close to home ended up hurting me more than the comment itself