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minnowtime · 19 hours ago

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Part 3 the argument

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minnowtime · 1 day ago

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I knew who N was a long time ago I never seeked them out out and as I said “I’m terrible at phrasing things” I’m just criticizing this bc if I didn’t I would probably explode I’m sorry it came off as aggressive also I understand trying to be suspicious of others in these types of situations also I’m literally also 13 don’t use the age none sense against me it’s weird and ironic 😭 I don’t want this to expand and I thought N was still doing it my bad I should have paid more attention to this and as someone who has experienced something like this I found issue with how N dealt with it and just wanted to say something also this is my last post abt this (unless something bad happens) so I’m gonna include N’s response wit this just wanna say I like what your doing with spreading awareness keep doing the good work 👍

N’s response:

1: K has 200 followers (last time I checked at least) they are fairly popular on here

2: Ty for understanding but me and them r not friends anymore and my intentions were to state my opinions on this not to defend them but ig it came across like that

3: yeah that makes sense thinking abt it and I’m not rly used to ppl using those kinds of things as insults (I sound home school😔) also “they are is” fair

4: I still find the “because they hurt my boundaries I can hurt their boundaries” still being a lil not quite there no matter who you are your boundaries should be set and followed and it was wrong of them to be breaking your boundaries they shouldn’t be doing those kind of things and blocking them because they didn’t follow them is understandable I’ve done the same multiple times but then again just because one thing is not as bad as the other doesn’t mean it’s not bad

5: I’ve already stated that I realized my statement it flawed and that their is a lot of better ways to put it (my thought process takes seven years)

Also srry if I use any wrong pronouns I’m a lil stupid like that

Hi! Srry if I sound passive aggressive at any point I’m just extremely bad at wording things and personally I don’t and never wanted to be included in this and want to limit my involvement in this as much as possible the most I was to Landon was a mutual until I found out a bigger extent of their actions but I still want to critique the way you’re handling this

Breaking Landon’s boundaries: though I admit the way Landon dealt with this was a lil dramatic I still think leaking their name without permission is still a bit of a dick move and can be categorized as doxing sense doxing is leaking private information without permission plus Landon goes by like a million nicknames it’s not that hard to use a nickname or to just not use their name though I agree some of their actions are unforgivable and I personally don’t think they should have a platform they still deserve basic boundaries it’s like calling a trans guy a he even though they committed arson bad people still deserve boundaries

Making fun of Landon being on special ed: do I even need to explain why this is bad? I know you were making a joke but it felt extremely insensitive and gives people a straw man Landon didn’t do what they did because they’re on special ed and maybe shouldn’t have been mentioned (keeping this one brief bc this has only happened once and isn’t that big of a deal with context)

Not really helping the issue: Landon’s actions aren’t really known and if you want people to really stop interacting with their content is to make their actions mainstream and posting about it on this hellsite isn’t really how to do it get someone on YouTube with a big following to cover it don’t just respond to Landon’s shit and repost it make a document with all the evidence and share it everywhere in order for them to stop people from defending them the main goal as of now is to make Landon’s actions heard and told

Anyway that’s all I’m gonna say in this feel free to voice your opinion also again srry if I sound passive aggressive at any point I’m rly not trying to this is meant to be critique and critique only and nothing good happens with arguing

i honestly couldnt be fucked to bother reading all this. im putting this whole situation behind me. im done acknowledging them and the situation. but i guess i should probably clear up the parts you missed here.

the level of boundaries broken by leaking their first name (which is nowhere near a good identifying factor unless you have prior knowledge who is being referred to) is nothing compared to the basic decency of calling someone their correct pronouns (which i still do for lyli) or the boundaries they broke twice when asking for pictures of my cock and balls.

i never made fun of them being sped. i called them retarded. and thats more just something i call anyone i find is being overly stupid and ignorant.

i dont really get what you want from me with that third point? you expect me to send an email to moist critical asking if he can cover the lyli situation? reaching a larger audience is easier said than done. like, oh, sure, let me just go call up my ten million sub youtuber friend that everyone has.

i get your talking points, but even while i may have handled the situation imperfectly, i dont take nearly as much fault as lyli has after all the bullshit that faggot put us all through.

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minnowtime · 1 day ago

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I see where you’re coming from getting a bigger audience is hard and I don’t expect you to be contacting moist critical (do I look stupid?): but this undermines the fact that their are millions of others that would gladly do it and take suggestions

Also I do appreciate that you are trying to get away from this even though I do think not enough has been done I can’t really push you into going back in you do you I guess and I understand not wanting to continue

Also yeah my argument was a lil flawed but it was the first thing I thought about I’m just terrible at getting my points across

But the “I didn’t make fun them being in sped” just isn’t true according to this screenshot

As I said not that big a deal with context I just wanted to mention it cause ngl I got a lil offended (“they are is” 😭)

Also even though their real first name isn’t rly that big a deal and I acknowledge that but you do know they are uncomfortable about their real name being out and you pushed their boundaries giving them a even bigger sour taste about you and I find it better to just use the nicknames

Boundaries don’t equal respect and just because Landon hurt your boundaries doesn’t mean you should hurt their boundaries