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Without hypnosis, how would you encourage someone to become a diaper-addicted bedwetter? What’s the best argument you could make to win them over?

i'd like to answer this in the form of a ramble. no hypnosis, no traps, no triggers. literally just a lesson from me to you. click below if you're curious.

some folks describe the world we're in as one that tries to fit you into a mold, to shape you a desired way.

but a mold is a very simple process, pour liquid substance into a vessel with the desired shape, let it solidify, and its done. taking an otherwise shapeless thing and giving it shape in a very easy way.

life is not a mold, but an extruder.

a length of meterial is sent down a tube, which itself gradually shifts from the original shape, to the desired one.

the process is gradual, the material shapes itself almost as if it were meant to, but it's being guided to that shape by the tunnel its in.

you werent given a role from the start and made to fit it, you were gradually acclimated to that role until it became normal.

its the small things. being corrected on how you sit, or how loud your voice is, or telling you to stop tapping your feet, or saying particular interests dont fit your role.

i used to naturally cross my legs, i had an interest in pink, i loved made for dvd cartoons like strawberry shortcake or tinker bell. turned out i was transgender, and the role of "boy" was one i was shaped to be through peer pressure.

now, what does this have to do with diapees?

put simply, you NEVER had a say in potty training.

kids often have no say in a lot of things, its taken for granted that a kid needs guidance if they're gonna be safe in this world. but potty training is a universal lesson.

how did YOU react at the time? to being told you have to "graduate" from diapers. were you agreeable? upset? did you try to rebel? it doesnt matter, all roads lead to you being potty trained.

its so deeply ingrained in our society its practically a core foundation. think about this for a moment, KINDNESS is not mandatory. sure, as a kid you're taught to share and care, but how many people do you know who carried that into adulthood? in fact, in a capitalist sense, kindness is a weakness to the goal of profit.

so, we live in a world where you CANNOT under ANY circumstance choose to be diapered, unless you "need" to, like, if there is no alternative. and yet you can live life as the biggest jerk in history and you're not even guaranteed a reprimand for it.

and yet... everyone ALSO agrees that being a kid is the best thing in the world, and you should enjoy it while you can because it wont last, you cant go back to that.

and that much IS true... but you CAN go back in some ways.

oh sure, you WILL grow up. lessons get learned, fears develop, motor function improves, your body gets taller and stronger, and your brain naturally develops as it goes, that much is ALL true...

but... you CAN still wear diapers... in fact, it almost seems like you're gently encouraged to? cuz like... every store with a pharmacy has a nearby section for adult diapers, they got ENTIRE ISLES of diapers. in every size you'd need.

because as much as society tries to tell us diapers are meant to be left behind, we cant deny that sometimes they are necessary, stores NEED these if they can have them.

and if thats the case... if systems are in place for people to wear diapers... what exactly is wrong with using them?

and furthermore, its probably the ONE holdover from childhood you can always go back to.

no matter how big you get, you cant change one universal fact. diapers exist, they have an intended function, and you CAN use them, if you are brave.

and if you do? you're being a TRUE rebel, moreso than most really. you're doing the ONE thing adults must NEVER do, the thing that potty training was MADE for.

if you wear and use diapees, you are choosing to reject an instinct of adulthood in favor of your own personal rebellious joy, and that is BADASS.

and why shouldnt you? if gender is a social construct, then so is growing up. you CAN redefine what it means to you. you can decide for yourself what it means.

and if you do... you ALSO have the option... to take it FURTHER.

because you know... training like that can be UNDONE too.

not fully, mind, your body now has the ability to know when it needs to go, that much stays.

buuuuut. your ability to hold it CAN be undone.

;3 and thats not even hypnosis, all you have to do is use your diapees! X3 im not joking, peeing yourself outside of a bathroom scenario gives your body and brain permission to do it elsewhere.

UwU and with time... it gets harder to hold it. ;3 how long does it take?

3 WEEKS

3 weeks of continued diaper use is all it takes to lose control.

but why? why lose control? what point is there is making you wet yourself? (or mess if thats your thing. X3 its certainly mine!)

because if using diapers is rebellion, then unpotty training is FREEDOM

its the ultimate middle finger to the training you were given, a sound rejection of the thing you were taught is most important.

and once you reject that... the skies the limit!

do you have any idea how much CONFIDENCE it takes to willingly make yourself a puddlepants?

if you're willing to do that, no force on this earth can stop you. gender? redefine it as you please. fashion? you wear diapers for underwear, wear whatever you want. hobbies? passions? do what you like! ;3 not like bathroom breaks can stop you anymore.

so go nuts! have fun! live life on YOUR terms.

diapers are fun, diapers are soothing, diapers are freeing, and diapers are YOURS to wear.

be free, be a mushtush!

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uh.. hi. I've always had issue going in pamps. But I read one of your posts where you just tell me to go, and I.. I just went. Didn't even have diapees on, I just went @w@ so could you... I don't want to impose, but could you just tell me to pee myself again?

just pee yourself already you pathetic little pissbaby~

and you know what? dont stop when you do~

give up control, weaken your tiny little bladder, in fact, have accidents why dont you?

UwU you clearly like peeing yourself, you should do it more often~

its okay to just let go~ its fun to have close calls, to wet your undies on the way to the grownup potty, in fact, its okay to forget how doorknobs work so you just form puddles outside the bathroom~

>:3 and why stop there? are you dedicated? can you manage going even further beyond?

would you just become incontinent if i asked?

🌀w🌀 why shouldnt you? Big Sis knows best~

so just take whatever resistance you like, however much you can carry, allll that you are willing to part with-

and throw it away like yesterday's diapees

UwU incontinence is adorable, and you clearly are on the right path to it.

;3 but please, lemme know just how far you got from THIS response~

now be a good subject, and go peepee NOW

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Trapped

the elevator breaks down, leaving them stuck inside. unfortunately, they also really need to go

getting their foot caught in something causing them to trip, and the surprise of it makes them leak a little before they manage to hold it. though, now that they've leaked, they realise just how badly they need to go- they haven't even managed to untangle their foot yet, and every time they shift their leg to try and free themself they feel the piss threatening to leak out of them

being pinned against the wall by someone else while they're already desperate to go. maybe the person pinning them in place is even pressing on their bladder, intentionally or not

the toilet door has been locked, and their dom has put them in a diaper. they're trying desperately to hold it, the idea of wetting their diaper is a little humiliating, but it's the only choice they have. they know the toilet isn't getting unlocked until they finally give in, but they just can't bring themself to let go, even as their dom teases them and encourages them to just be good and piss in their diaper

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someone who's never used a diaper before (maybe they've worn them before, maybe not. either way they've never actually used one before) needing to go so so badly but their body just won't let them relax enough to let go so they're squirming and whining

and then someone else reassures them that they're safe and gently coaxes them into letting go while holding them. so they bury their face in the crook of the other's neck, whining as their body finally releases and they wet their diaper for the first time

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Padded up for some weekend fun. I’ve been gassy, but I think I might’ve let something else out when I was wetting… too dry to change yet, I’ll have to wait and see.

Maybe I’ll know I’ve made a mess by then

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Oh baby, do you need to go potty? Yeah? Did you already wee in your pants a little? Uh oh, looks like you’re still going. You couldn’t stop? It’s okay, I know you’re doing your best.

Looks like you really needed to go! That’s a lot of pee. I bet that feels really good, doesn’t it? Finally relieving the pressure, even if it is in your pants. That’s it, just relax sweetheart.

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take away my potty privileges and make me go potty in my diaper until i can’t control it anymore

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Had to pull over and pee on the way home, I was wetting myself. Padded up now

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I couldn’t get into the bathroom after work in time to keep my underwear dry, so after dinner I’m padding up

After all, I clearly can’t be trusted to hold it

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Imagine: I'm on a couch desperate to pee. You're straddling me and also have to pee, but you're in charge. As I'm squirming, struggling, and trying not to leak, you start teasingly letting out small, controlled spurts of pee into my lap, sighing and talking about how good it feels to let go.

Feeling your warmth soak through the fabric of my clothes and against my skin makes my own urge to pee explode, overwhelming me to the point that I start leaking. I moan, struggling frantically, as my desperation overpowers me, and I start peeing a warm stream into my clothes. I realize I am having an accident, and I look up at you with my mouth hanging open in a mix of shame, relief, and pleasure, completely peeing myself while you're still on top of me.

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I had to go potty 

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We invite some friends round as normal, and as per our rules, I still have to ask to pee. But you let me ask you with a subtle code. Maybe a certain tap, or gesture, or even just other questions, that allows you to say if I can go or not without it being obvious to all your friends that's what I'm doing. I feel comfy, and you usually just say yes unless we're in the middle of something.

But today you've said no a few times, and I've had a lot to drink and I'm starting tos truffle to hold it without it being obvious. I'm suppressing squirms and sneaking moments to hold myself with my hands when people aren't looking but theres always one of your friends in eye shot so I just have to hide it.

But you planned this. In fact, you not only asked everyone to bring extra drinks to make sure I'm nice and full, but you even let them know our code. So every time I ask you, thinking they don't realise, they actually understand perfectly. They can see I'm asking more and more often. While I'm blissfully unaware and far too focused on trying to hide my desperation so they wouldn't notice, not realising everyone has been enjoying my desperation the moment they arrived.

Some of them are slowly pouring more drinks in front of me to see my face scrunch at the sound of flowing liquid. One of them even kept talking about this lovely walk down a river they took making sure I hear them describe it in great detail. I've even had some of them bump into me, every time they're always catching me *exactly* on my aching bladder. And they tell me they didn't see me, all while I have to frantically hold back my bursting bladder while still trying to act non-chalant.

Until eventually, I'm glued to your side, asking every few moments. Knowing I'm about to burst. But you keep saying no. And I cant decide if I should just openly squirm and hold myself to avoid wetting in front of everyone, or just ask you outright, show you how truly desperate I am even if it's embarrassing in front of everyone.

But it's too much, just trying to figure out what to do is too much. The drinks, the hiding, the worrying about showing all you're friends that I let you control my bladder. All the teasing that I think is by accident but theyre all doing on purpose.

Finally I can't, and everyone sees my damn break as I flood myself, the large puddle on the floor as everyone watches. It was exactly what you and everyone else wanted.

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I’ve been daydreaming about how exhilarating it would be kneeling in front of a little, carrying their open diaper in my hand. And looking up at them in disappointment that they couldn’t manage to not have an accident.

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Leaked out of my pull-ups twice today. Guess I should stick to something thicker…

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