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Honestly it can be really annoying that it feels like to be taken seriously as a dom on here you have to make being scary sexy and dommy youre whole aesthetic. Like we have alters who are extremely dommy and love cnc stuff and post about it all the time but never get any attention for it if their normal like, day to day personality where they talk to people isnt similar enough to that role. I personally get it form the other side where my personality *does* come off as dommy scary but then it feels like for me that im never allowed to be silly or 'break character' so to speak or else people will lose interest. idk just remember bdsm is play pretend gang. and be kind to doms and let them be. whole people

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maybe not my place since I'm not a straight person, but I truly do think a lot of straight people are just sexually incompatible with their partners without realizing it, and that's why many of them don't understand top/bottom dynamics.

like a couple where both enjoy 'receiving' but neither enjoys 'giving,' or visa versa, isn't a very compatible sexual partnership (which is like okay, you can work around that if you want), but instead of realizing that individual incompatibility, they assume that it's a universal circumstance and therefore turn-taking is required to not be selfish.

and so then they hear about dynamics outside of verse 4 verse and they're like "that sounds unfair" & it's like.. tops & bottoms are deciding and vocally communicating what they want out of sex and getting it. there is no one being wronged in this equation.

like every time a woman says stone bottoms/high femmes/pillow princesses are "selfish" I wanna be like.. do you want to exclusively bottom? you can own that. they're not selfish for wanting or receiving that, and you wouldn't be either. there are people who enjoy exclusively giving, and if you communicated your preferences it'd probably be easier to find them.

I feel like straight people get jealous of gay people's sex lives, but due to homophobia also making them disgusted with gay sex they can't process what they're feeling as jealousy so it becomes moral condemnation.

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Velvettes love language: Gift giving

Vox's love language: Quality time

Valentino's love language: Abuse

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im just sayin

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Sitting alone in the VIP

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Ladies the tests came back and it said I’m only poisonous in very large doses. Can we hang

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raping them and saying "next time you think you're safe around me, remember this" while you're inside of them

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god gave me sensory issues because he knew my outfits would be way too dangerously cute if I wasn't nerfed

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The future of Hell belongs to the Vees

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they had a long day

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moth tiddies

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More background and lighting practice

Commission me if you’d like

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Summer fun☀️🫦

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You can say yes all you want we both know it doesn't really make it consentual when you know what happens if you tell me no

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I wanted to finish this before I started working on commissions.

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i think about this meme every day

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Commits atrocities for kin euphoria