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just another friday night with the girlies

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So apparently the 2014 tumblr aesthetic is making a comeback. Which I’m looking forward to!

HOWEVER!!!!

TW: EDs, SH. Drug abuse.

Friendly reminder that although the 2014 tumblr girl era was iconic; it’s important that we leave the dangerous romanticisation of eating disorders, self harm and domestic abuse and problematic age gaps in the past.

I recognise in hindsight that these aspects of the 2014 grunge tumblr trend negatively affected me when I was younger. If you’re like me and have taken the time to heal from that mindset of ‘romanticised self destruction�� please remember not to undo the work you have put in since then.

I also understand that there are teens now who weren’t around for the initial 2014 trend who admire the aesthetic. This is awesome! (if not somewhat existential). Please don’t get sucked into the whole ‘rebellious teen who does drugs and is tragically broken’ thing that 2014 grunge tumblr pushed. This is a time in your life where it’s crucial that you try form healthy ideas about yourself. Your body does incredible things for you everyday and deserves love for that. Your mental illness and trauma is valid but does not define you. Remember to set boundaries with people about how you want to be treated and touched. Learn how to take care of yourself: which means balance! Please go out and have fun and be wild. Eat well and wholesomely. Create passionately, or study or just take the time to try things and figure out what you want. Remember to be very careful about any substances you take! Don’t take them if you’re not comfortable and if you are, make sure it’s from a reliable source and you’re in a safe environment around responsible people who have your best interest at heart.

TAKE THE AESTHETIC, LEAVE THE BULLSHIT.

I’m excited to see how this revival plays out.

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heyy xx <3

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i love lana🤍🤍

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out of touch

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loving him was never enough .

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female manipulator checklist lol

- still listens to old lana del rey music

- has a tumblr account in 2021

- jennifer check, the ultimate girlboss

- wanted to be effy stonem at 12

- blair waldorf <3

- evie zamora core

- girl interrupted

- nicotine dependancy

- the virgin suicides soundtrack

- follows lily rose depp

- literally stuck in 2014

- crystal bitch

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♰ if you’re not drinkin’ then you’re not playin’ ♰

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