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Let’s be inappropriate…

When was the last time you masturbated?

Do you enjoy being fingered/fingering?

How do you feel about food during sex?

What do you do directly after sex?

Cuddle with the tip in?

What’s the nastiest sexual thing you’ve done?

Name a follower you would fuck.

Name a follower you have fucked.

What’s the sexiest part of your body?

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Would you ever be with a trans person?

Riding dick or doggy style?

Ever fucked in a school?

Most random place you’ve had sex?

Would you ever be part of the mile high club?

Name three of your spots.

Fuck on the first date?

Do you suck dick?

Do you eat ass?

Do you eat pussy?

Do you like kissing?

Is farting during sex sexy?

Ever fucked in the shower?

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Do you prefer sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?

Do you like drunk sex?

Do you like high sex?

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When was your first kiss?

How did you meet the person you lost your virginity to?

Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Ever painted/been painted on?

You like sex toys?

What’s your favorite sex position?

Sex on a bed, couch, or floor?

Do you like car sex?

You get instantly horny; what happened?

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Describe your crush.

Woukd you ever be with someone with an incurable STD?

Rate your head game.

Rate your sex.

Would you fuck someone outside of your race?

Describe the type of freak you are.

Ever tasted your own nut/cum?

Into golden showers?

Body count: Under or Over 25?

How do you feel about nipple play?

Where do you like to be nutted on?

Which are you better at: topping or bottoming?

What do you consider “too small?”

Is play fighting foreplay?

Do you like angry sex?

How long should a quickie be?

How long is “too long” to have sex?

How long is “too long” to go without sex?

Is “no” relevant in a relationship?

Do you believe in no-strings-attached sex?

Would you have sex in a public bathroom?

Would you have sex in a changing room?

Who was the last person you had sex with?

Describe your type.

Name 3 turn-ons.

Name 3 turn-offs.

Name something that would make you stop in the middle of sex.

Would you answer a phone call during sex?

Would you ever pay for sex?

Would you accept money for sex?

How do you typically feel after sex?

Do you like your body?

Ever sent nudes?

Have you ever cheated on someone?

Have you ever been cheated on?

Would you have a threesome?

Would you have a foursome?

Would you take part in an orgy?

Would you let’s train be ran on you?

How often do you masturbate?

Sex with the lights on or off?

Sex with music or tv in the background?

Do you have a cousin you’d fuck if you weren’t related?

In your last relationships, rate the sex?

Do you sleep naked?

How often do you go commando?

Are your nipples pierced? If not, would you get them pierced?

Do you dive right into sex, or converse first?

After taking your clothes off, what’s the first move?

Do you make the first move?

Have you ever had sex with more than one person in a day?

Do you like dryhumping ?

Can you twerk or do a split on a dick?

Have you ever been recorded during sex?

Do you watch porn during sex?

After fucking, do you try becoming friends with a one night stand?

What’s your kink?

Would you hook up with the same hook-up again?

Ever made a relationship from a one night stand?

How romantic are you during sex?

Describe your sex in 5 words or less.

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Okay guys here’s the thing:

Not every guy that's likes to watch his wife fuck is a cuck. Some men just take great pleasure in their wife getting fucked by another man because, he is excited by her pleasure and sexuality. He doesn't want to be ridiculed and he will probably kick your ass out the door if you do so. You are to respect his wife, your only duty is to make her cum while he watches. Your job is to make sure he has the best view of everything.

If she's sucking your dick, make sure he has a good view and she is in a position to look him in the eyes especially, if she wants and let’s you cum in her mouth. If you are fucking her doggie style, make sure he has the best view of your cock sliding in and out of his wife, as a matter of fact that goes for any position you may fuck her in. If he wants to eat her pussy while you are fucking her, don't freak out, he just loves the view. If he stays there when you cum in her, it's because he wants to taste you on/in her, because another man just fucked her and it excites him tremendously, it does not mean he's gay and wants to suck your dick. But, if he does what is the downside. After all, you just fucked his wife whom he treasures. Count yourself lucky and then maybe, just maybe, you'll be invited back to fuck her again.

Believe me, I know what I’m talking about as I have been on both sides.

Fucking while the husband was watching, doing more and getting involved. And, being the husband watching and getting involved.

Don’t fuck it up.

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Whenever she wears the orange dress your wife goes home with someone else.

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I found this to be 100% true!

WHY You LOVE your Hotwife Fucking Other Men!

1. Lots of men are into the idea of conquest. But, once they are married they miss the thrill of the chase. Knowing you are sometimes in another man’s arms spikes a healthy jealousy that many men find arousing and makes them feel like they need to “reclaim” you, which can put the spice back in your marriage.

2. Scientific studies suggest that when a woman is cheating or has multiple partners, she gives off different pheromones than when she is in a committed relationship. These pheromones are designed to rev up her partner’s libido. It doesn’t matter if you are using birth control; he’s evolutionarily hard wired to want to become part of a natural “sperm competition.”

3. Many men are naturally submissive, or at least crave temporary submissive roles. For them, mild forms of humiliation are an aphrodisiac. The fantasy element for them is the jealousy, and wondering if you may prefer your lovers.

4. Other men become excited because it validates their wives or girlfriends as desirable sexual creatures. And, what could be better for a man’s ego than his partner demonstrating that she can be with someone else, but still choosing to stay with him?

5. Then there are the guys for whom it’s like having their own personal pornography. They want to watch from the closet, or hear you on the phone. Think about it – he may make love to you all the time, but when does he ever get to see you make love?

6. Finally, there are the men who enjoy it because they feel it brings them closer to their partners. Guys aren’t dumb. They know that just like them, you have your own sexual fantasies and desires. But, they also know that many women won’t tell their partner about the hot pool boy or new personal trainer because they are worried he will get jealous. Bringing your lustful desires out into the open – and even acting on them – can bring a new level of intimacy and openness to your relationship. By hearing about your amorous adventures, he’ll discover new ways to please you.

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Things “Bulls” Like

I recently read a post about the collected thoughts of “Bulls.”  A Bull is the “other man” in a hotwife / cuckold relationship.  I got so aroused reading this.  I’ve selected some of the hottest ones.  I’ve also added a few that I’ve heard myself.

I like fucking a married woman if her husband has no idea. It’s great knowing I can convince her to cheat.  

I like watching the faces of husbands as they deal with the emotions of watching their wife get fucked by another man.  

I get off rubbing in a husband’s face how slutty his wife is with me.  

I love seducing a married woman and making her husband a cuckold for the first time ever.  

I enjoy cumming all over a married woman.  It’s like I’m marking my turf.  

I love keeping a married woman out overnight or taking her home with me.  I know her husband is sitting awake, wondering what she’s doing.

I like fucking a wife in front of her husband and telling him what a good piece of ass she is, or how good her pussy feels.

I like the first time a married woman sees my cock and tells me that I’m bigger than her husband.

I like cumming on a married womans face knowing she has to clean up before she goes home, and cumming in her mouth knowing it will mean I’m always a part of her.  

I enjoy seeing her wedding ring while I’m fucking her. It’s a power trip fucking someone else’s woman.

I love hearing a married woman beg me to fuck her, because I know she doesn’t get it at home.

I love fucking a wife in their marriage bed.  

I love claiming another man’s wife as MY slut or girlfriend.

I like walking into a hotel to get a room with a married woman.

I like hearing someone’s wife thank me after I fuck her, or if its a couple I like hearing her husband thank me for fucking her.

I like sending her husband to get me a beer or something while she sucks my dick.

I like giving her to a friend to use and treat her like my property. They love that shit.

I like telling her husband that his wife’s pussy is mine now.  

I love when a wife tells me fantasies or experiences she’s had that she’s never told her husband about.  

I love when a married woman wants to do things with me that she doesn’t do with her husband.  

I like to call a husband on speaker phone while I’m owning his wife in bed.

I like to call a husband and tell him I’m done with his wife and to come pick her up.

I like to take a married woman with me into a drug store, stand in line together and have her buy a box of condoms for us.

I like coming in a wife’s pussy while her husband watches and waits his turn.

I like getting a wife to tell her husband how much bigger I feel inside her.

I like to show up at a married woman’s work place and pick her up for a lunch quickee with her coworkers watching her leave with me.

I ]like to call a husband at work and and tell him his wife is servicing me.

I love to make her lose track of time so her husband comes home and catches us in the act.  

I like having a married woman tell me I was the best fuck she ever had, especially if it’s right in front of her husband.

I like to make a husband stand guard while I fuck his wife in a public place, or fuck a wife in the back of a car in a parking lot while her husband is in the driver seat.

I get off trying to make a husband jealous while I fuck his wife.

I enjoy feeling up a wife in a public place, where others might see her.

I like introducing someone’s wife to my friends, telling them she’s my girlfriend.

I dig the risk of knowing her husband might catch us.

It’s fun having a married woman tell her husband that she can’t do without me.

I get off big time fucking a married womans ass in front of her husband.

I like showing up unannounced and lead her off to the bedroom.

I get off knowing that she might get caught but is willing to risk that to get laid.  

I love to go out with a wife and her husband to a bar or club, and have the whole place know it’s me that she’s going home with.  

I like when a wife I’m fucking tells her friends about us.

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Here's the thing nobody wants to talk about in all of this hotwife talk: nobody, not my husband, not anyone gives me "permission" to do anything! I fuck who I want, when I want, how I want, where I want and as many times as I want. I DO NOT HUMILIATE MY STAG HUBBY. He has chosen of his own free will to allow me to command him and he obeys me faithfully. He knows full well what his rewards are and he loves it. I don't view his desires as anything but that. We do not disrespect each other, and we certainly NEVER lie either, simply stated there is no need. We do not confuse sex with love. Open communication is the key to our happiness. It's amazing to me how many people try to put a label on our relationship. It is ours and our business. If anybody wants true marital blis, try opening up to your partner about your desires. You may be very surprised how receptive they are. If not, at least you'll know, and you can either adapt or move on.

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When the Hotwife packs

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Brian's Office.

Another request thst I get a lot is the first time my boss fucked me. This is another story that was lost on my original tumblr when tumblr did their naughty blogs cull. This took place 13 years ago.

I had just been at my realtor job for about 3 months. Sales were great, and feedback from clients was even better. I had a meeting in 20 minutes with my boss Brian.

I heard from the other woman in the building that Brian was a bit of a perv and fucked some of the young interns. At this time, he would have been around 53.

It was a warm day, so I was wearing a long orange summer dress with a tube top cover over my tits. I/2 inch heeled dress sandals and a peach thong.

The time came for the meeting and I made my way down the hall to his office. I closed the door behind me and sat down in the chair in from of Brian's desk.

Brian is a good-looking man. Tall and around this time, he was less grey, more salt and pepper than he is now.

"Good morning, Dawn." He spoke up as I sat down. He was typing something on his cellphone, then looked up at me. "Janet is doing the guest list for this summers company, BBQ, and is wondering if you and your husband will make it this year? "

"Yes, I am sure we will be able to." I responded with a smile, putting my folder on his desk.

Brian finished typing on his phone, then turned it off and placed it on his desk. "Now let's see what you brought me." He said, reaching for the file.

He opened it and read my notes and graphs. "Your sales continue to grow which is amazing. You are doing a fantastic job. " Brian said looking at my folder. "What is your secret?"

"Luck, I guess." I blushed as I replied. I was not going to say I either fucked or sucked the client.

Brian had a question about something I typed, which turned out to be a typo. I got up and walked over beside him on his side of the desk. When he raised his hand to show me where he was questioning, his hand 'accidentally' brushed my ass.

"Oops, I'm sorry about that. " He quickly apologized.

"Don't be, I enjoyed it. " I teased.

"Oh, really" Brian responded.

I looked back at him with a smile, and suddenly, his hand was on my ass. He was feeling all around until he found my thong through my dress. "Mmmm, a thong too" He commented. "My favorite. "

I was bent over slightly on his desk as he continued to grope my ass. My pussy was getting wet and Brian that encouraged to continue my my moans.

Suddenly, his hand made its way under my sundress and onto my bare ass cheeks and outlined my thong with his fingers.

"I must admit I've been thinking about this body ever since you started with us." He said as his fingers found my wet pussy.

"Someone is wet, isn't she?" his fingers continued to move along the crotch of my wet thong.

I moaned out loud and bend down more on his desk, resting on my elbows. "What about Janet? I moaned and humped back onto his fingers.

Brian was pressing harder causing my thong and his fingers to penetrate my pussy. "She isn't here. " He replied. "What about hubby? "

"What he doesn't know won't hurt him. " I whispered, breathing heavy.

"Well in that case." Brian wheeled his chair behind me, flipped up my sundress, pulled my thong to the side and began to lick and suck on my pussy from from behind.

I immediately put my hand over my mouth to stop myself from crying out.

"Christ you fucking taste amazing. " he said taking a brief break from eating me from behind.

Both of his hands were spreading my ass cheeks wide as he moaned and tongue flicked and fucked my pussy.

My knees were getting weak as I stood there bent over his desk. I could feel my orgasm building.

Brian was making all kinds of noises as he licked and slurped my soaking wet pussy.

A ping sounded on his phone and I saw a message from his wife saying, 'awesome I'm looking forward to seeing her. '

After seeing that message, I covered my mouth and quietly cried out, "oh fuck!" as my orgasm hit me.

Brian moaned louder as he licked up my juices. Then I heard his chair squeak as he stood up behind me. I heard him undue his belt then his zipper.

His pants landed on the floor as he stood behind me, "I have a saying. What happens in our offices, stays in our offices. "

Then he grabbed my hips and his thick cock slid into me. My wetness acting as lube.

Just as I covered my mouth with my hand Cumming on his cock Brian quietly whispered, "jezus fuck, your pussy feels amazing. "

Brian not only felt big, but he also felt thick as well. Later on, of course, I'd find out that he is 10 inches! But at this particular moment, I had no idea.

His hands were still on my hips as he thrusted into me. My pussy making loud wet sounds over top of our moans. Slapping sounds filled his office.

"Your a naughty slut, aren't you?" He grunted behind me

"Yes." I moaned

My thong moved back over from the side from the hard thrusting, and Brian held it out of the way with his thumb. "Christ, you're tight.' He grunted.

I moved my elbows to lay flatter on his desk, causing him to go deeper.

"Omg, your cock is hitting all the right spots." I moaned, as my ass cheeks shook with each thrust.

Another orgasm was building when Brian moved closer into me grinding his hips and cock against me, sending me over the edge again.

Cumming again on his cock.

Brian didn't move back after I came. Instead he held onto my shoulder with one hand, the other still holding my thong to the side and began to fuck me harder.

Pounding into my gspot.

I gripped the front side of the desk and quietly cried out again.

"God damn married slut." Brian grunted behind me. "Get on your knees."

Brian moved back and pulled out of my pussy. I turned around quickly and got on my knees in front of him. He was jerking him thick cock in front of me. Looking down at me.

"Pull your dress down, slut show me your tits."

I pulled my sundress down, exposing my tits to him.

His cock was wet in his hand as he continued to jerk off in front of me.

"I'm going to cum all over you face slut. What do you think about that? " Brian was breathing heavily and stroking faster.

I moved up and wrapped my lips around his cock head as he stroked into my mouth.

"You naughty little whore." He exclaimed

Suddenly the first cum shot hit the back of my throat then I moved back and he quietly cried out Cumming on my face and tits.

He collapsed in his chair, breathing heavy. I stood up, making the bottom part of my sundress fall back to normal around my ass and sat down against his desk. I grabbed the kleenex box from his desk and started to wipe my face off.

"That was amazing. " Brian's breathing was back to normal. His cock semi hard and twitching.

"Do you want to know how my sales are doing well? " I asked him as I continued to wipe my face off.

"Yes, I do. " He replied, watching me.

I told him about the two male (married clients I fucked in the empty houses and the one I blew in my office after the paperwork was signed off.

I went into some detail how I was fucked and Brian obviously was enjoying the stories because he was hard again sitting in his chair.

"That's my girl. " He smiled.

That was my first time with my boss. I've been fucking him regularly for almost 20 years now as well as other corporate leaders. Sometimes together, with Brian.

We weren't finished that day yet because Brian was very hard after hearing my naughty confessions. He started stroking his cock again.

"We still have time before my next meeting. Why don't you come and take care of this for me."

I moved forward and got on my knees, taking his big cock in my hand and started stroking it.

"That's it slut." He looked down at me. "These company BBQs are going to be a lot of fun. " He grabbed the base of his shaft and put it to my lips. I opened my mouth and he took the top my head and pulled me down on his cock.

My warm mouth wrapped around his shaft. He moaned. " Your clueless husband not having any idea that I fucked his slut wife."

He put both hands on my head and began to fuck my mouth. I started gagged and gurgling on his girth.

"And how I fucked her mouth as she gagged on my old cock. "

He was so big I couldn't get the whole thing down my mouth.

Brian sat in his chair looking down at me thrust into my mouth. My saliva running down his shaft.

"Mmmm, fuck, Christ. ' he was moaning as he fucked my face.

I began stroking him with both hands and his head moved back onto his chair.

Suddenly he cried out, and came in my mouth. I swallowed his load and licked him clean.

I left his office shortly after that so he can get ready for his meeting.

We ended up fucking one more time at the end of the day.

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Looking to get my gf into the lifestyle or even just open up more sexually without telling her outright, any tips would be welcome!

Show her you love her.

not just in your words, but in your actions too. buy her flowers, buy her a card for no reason, help her around the house, and don’t forget to tell her you love her. Both men and women need to hear “I love you.”

Build her confidence.

Compliment her, tell her she is beautiful, tell her she looks nice in certain outfits, etc. If she has a nice ass, tell her. If she has great tits, tell her.It is important that the compliments are sincere. She will know if you are faking it.  During sex tell her how good it feels, how good she feels, how good she tastes. Tell her how good she is at sucking dick or how good her pussy feels.

Make her feel safe.

She has fantasies, even if she does not tell them to you or says she doesn’t. Open up about something you have never shared. She her it is safe. You’re together and you’re not going to judge each other.

Be honest.

If she asks you a question, no matter how embarrassing or hard the answer is, be honest. Trust is key to a woman’s ability to open up sexually.

Share some porn.

Text her a sexy picture or see if she will watch a porno with you. This is a great way to introduce kinks or to get the conversation started.

TALK.

After you have watched some porn or shared a few tumblr pics, flirt and tease about them. See if she is receptive. If she resists, back off and try again at another time. Once you plant the seed, water it from time to time and her mind will do the rest. She may be into some of the same things, but like you she does not know hot to bring them up. Crack the door for her.

You may need to do these steps for a several months before she starts to feel secure enough to open up, so have patience. If you rush it or try to force it, she will retreat. Remember your relationship should always come before sexual fantasies. Our fantasies are part of who we are, but we all guard them for fear of judgment or rejection. It is YOUR job to take those fears away from her and provide the environment she needs to relax and let go of her fears.

I hope this helps and good luck.

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Erotic Humiliation vs Degradation

I would like to explain what I believe is the difference between erotic humiliation and degradation. Both are psychological acts, not physical ones. How you make your submissive feel during any activity determines if that activity is abusive, not the activity itself.

His body can be covered in bruises and welts, but it doesn’t necessarily mean he was abused. Conversely, he can be severely abused without a single mark on him or without being touched at all.

Erotic humiliation will make him feel silly, weak, powerless, and humiliated, but in a loving and cared for way. No matter how humiliating the activity, he is still able to feel good about it, even sometimes craving these feelings. He feels that he is doing it as an act of service, for your pleasure and/or amusement. This is especially true if you are making him do it, and not something he did on his own.

Degradation will make him feel silly, weak, powerless, and humiliated, and rejected at the same time. It creates negative feelings that make him feel bad about himself, that he is hated, pathetic, and unlovable. It can strip his self worth from him creating a psychological downward spiral of self loathing, that unchecked, could eventually lead to suicide.

I will show what I mean in a few different scenarios. The activity is the same but what is said to the submissive is different.

Scenario #1  Caging him

erotic humiliation: “In your cage sweetheart, Good boy. I need to know you are safe and secure under my lock and key while you are so helpless. You are too precious to me to be left running free. I love knowing you will be right where I left you. I’ll come check on you in a while. Call if you need me. Bye baby.”

degradation: “Get your ass in that cage. I’m so sick of you following me around like a lost dog and you’re getting on my nerves. Look at you. What kind of man allows a woman to lock him in a cage like a dog? A loser, that’s what kind. You’re pathetic. If you’re lucky, I’ll remember you exist and let you out later.

Scenario #2  Cuckolding him

erotic humiliation: “I’m about to head out for my date. Are you sure you are okay with this sweetie? Good boy. Just because I want to date men with bigger cocks doesn’t mean I love you any less. Understand? That’s why I keep you in strict chastity. I don’t share my toys. You’re my property and will remain so forever. I’ll call you when we get back to his house to ensure you are alright. See you in a few hours. Bye baby.”

degradation: I’m about to head out for my date with a real man. If you weren’t such an inadequate loser I would stay home and fuck you. But you are pathetic and your dick is totally useless. That’s why you are in chastity and will never be inside me again. Stop crying wimp. I hate it when you cry. It’s not like I’m leaving you, well not yet anyway. Don’t wait up for me, I might not be home tonight.

Scenario #3  Crossdressing him

erotic humiliation: “There you go sweetie, all dressed up and pretty for me. I love seeing you in your high heels and stockings. It makes your legs and bum look so sexy and I love listening to the click of your heels as you walk around. Tonight you will be my lesbian lover. With you locked in chastity, You can’t make love to me like a man anyway. That’s okay baby-girl, your tongue is amazing.”

degradation: “Ha Ha, don’t you look silly! All dressed up like a girl, definitely not a pretty one. You love this don’t you? I saw your pathetic cock trying to grow in it’s little cage. Probably wishing you were a real girl so you can take some cock. I bet you would make a great cocksucker! Would you like that faggot? You’re disgusting.”

Conclusion

As you can see in these scenarios just the words you use can change things from loving to totally toxic. I use erotic humiliation in my relationship with my husband. While I don’t cuckold him, I do lock him in a cage and cross-dress him weekly.  I also at times make him wear diapers, drink from baby bottles, and make him beg, among other things. I ensure he feels loved and wanted anytime I use humiliation on him as I maintain the inequality of our relationship. I know there are those out there that actually want degradation as part of their relationship dynamic, and that’s fine if they can handle it, but I will never want it or use it myself. There is enough cruelty in the world already without me adding to it. Let your humiliation come from a place of love.

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